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Your situation is pitiful, but you should take the initiative to maintain this precious friendship, and I think you have something to reflect on.
First of all, you should open your heart. Don't worry about whether you are jealous or not, in fact, many good friends will have such problems, because they are very close, naturally sometimes think that she must be inseparable. But friendship is not possession, and you and your friends can be friends with other people just as well.
Asking her who is the first in your mind and other questions show persecution and possessiveness, no one likes to be asked directly like this, and she will become more and more annoying. So you have to accept Shao calmly, and the combination of the three people can also burst out with sparks.
And you can't deny yourself and hate yourself because of that. Everyone has her brilliance, and the fact that she can be friends with you for so long proves that she doesn't care about you. Low self-esteem will keep you passive, and it will make you addicted to it.
Be confident, and being friends with Shao is the best way. And don't rely too much on one person, learn to grow and be independent. Try to fit into the lives of three people, make more friends, make your personality more attractive, and you will be happy!
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Good friends aren't glued to you all the time. Friendship can be maintained by correspondence, and the old lady who is dozens of years old puts friendship in her heart, these things don't need to be explained everywhere, as long as you know that we are friends, he also knows that you are friends is enough!
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I can't let you restrain yourself, because it's not easy to relax your heart.
I understand that you are used to the life of the two of you, and you are very repulsive to outsiders. To put it mildly, this is a typical little girl character.
Society is so big, if your friends don't have too serious problems, there will be a lot of friends who can get along, right?
He is your friend, and you should look for happiness in your friendship and not be depressed because of him.
Moreover, friends are not made for you, she can have other friends.
The most important thing is that you have been together for so long, and you will not be able to stand it if she pays a little less attention to you. One is a matter of habit, you are used to friendship; The second is the mentality, you are a sensitive person, I think so.
Be happy yourself and make others happy when you associate with others. People live in the world, and how many real confidants are there, didn't the ancients often sigh like this? As for you asking her who her best friend is, that's not necessary.
Interaction between people is to follow fate, really, everything is fate. Don't force it.
This time you have to learn that friends are part of your spiritual life, but not a burden. Don't pester a person. Make more friends, I think if you break off your friendship with him, you won't have any confidants.
I am from the past, and I endured and tolerated at that time, so that your friendship can last forever. We're all young, and when we grow up, we can't tell who will be better with whom. You'll learn about this later.
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Kindness. If you really think of her as a friend. Then treat her friends as friends.
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I agree with the opinion from upstairs.
Relax your mind.
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