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Every time it comes to the New Year's holidays, children are often the happiest, and for boys who have reached the marriageable age and are single, going home means blind date, and what they are facing is from the family of seven aunts and eight aunts to urge marriage, this phenomenon seems to be unified across the country, because in the eyes of many people, boys who are not married at the age of 30 will be looked down upon by others.
Although most people are no longer patriarchal, but the mission of inheritance still exists, many parents in order to let their children get married and have children as soon as possible, they arrange various blind dates during the New Year, hoping to get married early, marriage is still an indispensable thing for life, for parents, marriage is a kind of security, life is incomplete without experiencing marriage, but now young people have their own ideas, they feel that as long as they live well, You don't need marriage, and now society is relatively fast-paced, and there is no time to fall in love.
In fact, if a man is still single after the age of thirty, he will still be looked down upon, take my small township as an example, the average woman is about twenty-five years old, she has already married and had children, and boys are basically urged to marry by their families before the age of thirty, even if they are unwilling to do so, but they are still forced by the pressure of the family, so they have to choose to obey, of course, this is when two people like each other will get married, but they feel that they get married and have children too early, It will affect the freedom of the two of them, after all, after starting a family, there are many things to consider.
Many men are still single at the age of thirty, mainly because they have not found a suitable object for themselves, he may be more anxious than anyone else, a man who is over thirty years old, if he has no money, it will be even more difficult to find a partner, when he has a heart, even if his age has been considered by the world to be married, he will not fall in love with others casually.
Human life is still very long, no one stipulates that a man must end his singleness when he reaches the age of thirty, and there is no need to give up his desire for marriage in order to cater to the public.
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No, because everyone's life, values, and love concepts are different, maybe the reason why a 30-year-old man is single is to work hard for his career, so that a motivated man will not be looked down upon by others.
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No, it is because people's concept of marriage and love has changed, so there are many people who are getting married later and later, and they are more free if they don't get married.
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He will not be looked down upon by others, but if a man has no career and no boyfriend after the age of 30, then he will be considered by others as a very incompetent person, and he is also a very depraved person.
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If you are a person with a successful career, even if you are single at the age of 30 and have not yet married, you will not be looked down upon, and if your life is a mess, you will indeed be looked down upon.
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There are more men who don't get married for various reasons, and being ridiculed can only say that neighbors or relatives are unqualified people, you can stay away from them, you have the final say in your own life, and your life is not for others to see.
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There are many reasons why you don't get married, it may be that you haven't met the right person, and you may have been starting a business ....... For a 30-year-old man, if he is not married, then he will still have the intention of getting married, and he will always be looking for her who belongs to him on the road to marriage.
But if this 30-year-old man has a bland attitude towards marriage, it doesn't matter if he is married or not, so he frees himself from traditional thinking. The 30-year-old man shifts the energy he is going to put into his marriage to work or life. This will give you a lot of time to work on your research.
If you put in the effort at work, you will still achieve certain achievements. Outside of work, I have most of my time off, and it's nice to be able to spend time with my family and travel with my family.
People always say, "the sky is unpredictable", "the plan does not change quickly", but it is still good for having an overall plan for the future. In this way, you will be clear about the direction of your struggle, and in your future life, you will continue to work hard in the direction of your struggle.
If a man is single and unmarried at the age of 30, this man may be a scientific researcher in an important field. There are great researchers who dedicate their lives to their jobs. But this is only a rare case.
Everyone is still more traditional, in the eyes of parents, men should get married, and women should get married. No matter how old the man is, whether he is 30 or 40 years old, as long as he is single, don't give up looking for his other half. No matter what plans you have for the future, starting a family is inevitable and a task that must be completed.
In this way, one day, when we are old, at least there is still one person in this world to accompany us and not dislike ourselves. Such a life is perfect, and there are no regrets.
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A man who is 30 years old and still single and unmarried, if he has a certain career, he will have a certain plan for his future life; If you are single, unmarried, and have no career, or have an unstable job, it is difficult to say. Maybe I just want to go home to farm and raise pigs...
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Make money and enjoy life, I want to do this in the future Why do I have to get married, I want a house, a car, and a bride price when I get married, I just buy a house, and live simply, and I can pay for the house before the age of 30, and I can say that I enjoy life in the future, even if my parents must have a descendant, I can go to an orphanage to adopt one, and I can adopt one at the age of forty At this time, I have been saving money for ten years, and it is no problem to raise a child.
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This man likes to be single, because the freedom of being single is a very attractive condition, maybe he will find true love in the future, but he will be very happy now.
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You may go on a blind date in the future, so that you can find a marriage partner.
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The man is 30 years old, single and unmarried, and will not have a plan that affects him.
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It should be different from person to person. The rest are either in poor condition at home. Either belong to the demanding kind. I can't guess what he's going to look like in the future, or he's very motivated. Or get used to being single.
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It's hard to say, after all, people are different. Some may want to do a career while they are young, and some may break the jar.
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This has to divide people, if you want to be motivated, maybe you want to give your future wife a good condition, then you will work hard, and then you won't have a lot of pressure after finding a girlfriend, if you don't get motivated, you shouldn't have any plans for yourself.
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If a man is still single and unmarried at the age of 30, it is usually his own fault. The man may not want to get married, or there are too many problems, which may lead to the result that he will still be single after the age of 30. First of all, in addition to the objective reason that there are more men and fewer women, a 30-year-old man is still single is likely to be because he is not attractive to his other half.
Of course, everyone will look at the other person's economic conditions, but in fact, a woman does not choose a mate entirely because of the conditions. If the condition is good, it is your strength, but the condition is not the main factor that proves your worth, charisma, or attractiveness. Some men need a lifetime to ** because they can't get rid of the harm done to them by their ex.
Especially an ex destroys all a man's beautiful love fantasies, and the ability to trust others. It may also be because men's personalities are too macho, you can say whatever you want, and you always insist that you are right, but you don't know, which will cause others to resent it.
Some men are still single at the age of 30 because of low self-esteem. Maybe it's because he has experienced some setbacks, the shadow left in his heart, or the family belt has made him feel inferior, so he can't hold his head up in front of girls, such a man is very sensitive in his heart, it may be a girl who said something unintentionally, making him think more, misunderstand what others mean, and can't stand the rejection and blows of others.
It may also be because the man's personality is too introverted, for example, two people know each other on a blind date, he will not take the initiative to chat with someone, nor will he take the initiative to invite someone to dinner, everything is waiting for the girl to take the initiative first, as for what reason he does not take the initiative, maybe he is worried that his initiative will interfere with the girl, so he misses love. Studies have found that many boys often have some unrealistic fantasies about love, which are too idealistic and artistic, resulting in them not being able to meet and find ideal love in real life.
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Surely this man is the reason. It may be that the man's economic conditions are not particularly good, or it may be that the man does not like women so he is not married.
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This is his own reason, it must be that he is not good-looking, and he has no money, no good job, no self-motivation, no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, so he has no girlfriend and no marriage.
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It's because of yourself, because you don't have any attraction, or maybe because you have a high vision.
This kind of thing is hard to come by, mainly what your standards are, maybe your standards for a good man are too high.
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That is to ignore him, as long as you give him a little sweetness, he will be stalked, don't give him any hope directly, and cut off from all aspects.
Then you can consider cutting off contact with this man, whether this sentence is true or false, since you can ask, either it is a person who can't talk well, or someone who has this idea. I don't know if your main purpose is to ask this man about your future husband or the person you are asking, if this man asks you, you don't have to think about this man at all, in short, there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence. Remember.