I m in love with my best friend and my girlfriend who I ve always loved so much, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-07
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Give up, I've had this experience because I put friendship first, and I'd rather lose someone I love. But I don't want to have a bad relationship with my competitor (a good buddy of mine), a girlfriend can be found later, a best friend can be lost and it may be hard to come across, and now we work for his company and have been talking about it for many years. So far; How your friends and colleagues around you see you?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I want you to deflate too! Because I used to have this experience, I was a junior 2 person among my friends and one of my best friend had a girlfriend and his girlfriend liked her the first time he called me! Wanted to get her shot from my best friend!

    I've waited until it's finally my woman! But I'm going to do it now! The people in the class said that I was heartbroken!

    I know my friend is disappointed! I was heartbroken when I saw it! By bringing them together!

    Later, I became famous in the class and now have 3 girlfriends! I hope you can be like me! There will be someone behind you who will love you!

    Believe me!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is selfish, friendship is important, love will become, friendship remains the same, no one can help you decide, it's up to you, whether to choose love or friendship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Friendship is hard to find...That brother of yours is really good, and I will help you later, if I would have hated you to death.

    Hey, it's not that easy to find true friendship in the world...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell your brother directly.

    A brother's wife is not allowed to play'In fact, these are the unwritten rules we have in our interactions, and I believe that if you tell your brother, he will not break this rule.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You sometimes love is just in vain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get it in the process.

    Another kind of happiness! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself only.

    If you have love, happiness will definitely exist

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Delete her and his **, don't contact him from now on, because one has the potential to go out of the wall, and the other has the potential to bully his wife. Your marriage will be painful, so give up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ask her once who she likes in her heart.

    If I don't have you in my heart. Or like both.

    I think you should leave her. Ignore her again.

    The more you care, the less you get. So separate for yourself. It's not worth it.

    Let's open up a little bit. man

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Bless them and live your own life, what belongs to you will come back, and what doesn't belong to you will be replaced by new people.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forget it, give up, you can only blame yourself for not cherishing it, and wait for her to find her happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Women are usually like this, which means that you care too little about her, and if you really love her, go and chase her back, and care more about her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dude, let it go when it's time to let go!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A brother of more than ten years will not be able to resist the girl he just met, the girl can make it clear to your friend, break up or something, they broke up peacefully, and then you decide whether you want to be with her or not, then it depends on whether you love her deeply enough.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you should respect that girl's heart, but you can't hurt your friend's affection, I think it's still the three of you who are talking and talking.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In this case, you should think carefully about whether it is important to be a brother for more than ten years, or a woman you have never known, and whether you like her or not.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What is your situation, your boyfriend? Or someone you love?

    If it's someone you like, say it boldly, love is very selfish, and sometimes if you don't fight for it, then happiness is someone else's. Happiness is something you have to work hard for.

    If it's your boyfriend, I suggest: bless them.

    Since he chose to leave you, why should you be so nostalgic for him? When he decided to be with your best friend, he also decided that he would not be with you again, and he turned around in time, but he initially had the idea of leaving you, even if he was not with your good friend anymore, he would be with other people in the bureau, the relationship is a matter of two people, since one party has chosen to leave, what else is there to be nostalgic about? When an idea sprouts in your mind, it's hard to get it out completely.

    In this case, two people will not be happy together.

    "Swimming in water" is the highest state between two people, but the mistake we often make is to think that we are water and the other person is fish. In fact, the facts tell us that many are not like this, and we have to admit that there are such cases, but very few, very few.

    Since he decided to leave, don't keep it, sometimes what you deliberately stay behind is not as good as you imagined.

    Turn around before shedding tears. You're going to be better off without him and make him feel like it's his fault for leaving you.

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