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Under the influence of the previous feudal ideology of patriarchy, there are now many singles in the countryside, and it can be said that the proportion of singles in each village is very largeIt can be said that most of the current rural boys are singles, and how serious the phenomenon of singles in the countryside is, it can be said that according to the proportion, there is a boy in both families who are singles.
First,The reason why this phenomenon of singles in rural areas is relatively common is that the rural economy cannot keep up with the pace of the cities, resulting in many girls going to work in the cities, and they feel that they do not want to continue to live in the countryside and want to settle down in the cities. This is one of the reasons for the increase in the number of male singles in rural areas.
Second, under the influence of previous feudal thinking, many families must have boysAs the saying goes, there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is greater. Therefore, even if many families gave birth to daughters at that time, some of them did not want them, just boys. This reason has caused the imbalance between men and women in China, and nearly 200 million people are singles.
Third, there are so many singles now, and they are also affected by the previous family planning, which used to have a large number of people in the unit or the first boy in the unit, they went to do a medical appraisal and found out that it was a boy, they would only stay, if it was a girl, they didn't want to keep it at all, which led to the singles
The more you come.
How serious is the phenomenon of singles, for example, in my village. TotalThe population is 2,184 people, excluding the elderly, children and married, continue to exclude those who have objects, and there are nearly 300 single male singles. Basically, one or two companies have a single person.
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The problem of barebones in the countryside has always been.
exists, and it is difficult to solve zhi. In rural areas, almost every village has a few singles, and these people are not only not interested in getting married, but they can't find a partner to marry. As more and more such people appear, the problem of singles in rural areas will become more and more serious.
As for how serious it is, let me talk about the pictures of a few scenes for you to experience.
1. There are often blind date conferences in rural areas.
Due to the large number of singles in rural areas, therefore, everyone will find ways to help these bachelors solve the problem of singleness, so blind dates are naturally one of the most common ways. But the blind date in the countryside is not one-on-one, and the blind date in the countryside is basically dozens of men and a few women. Therefore, even if this kind of blind date often appears, it is still difficult for bachelors to get rid of the single.
2. Young people in rural areas miss their partners and are single again because of the bride price problem.
In rural areas, the bride price is a very important thing. Regardless of the boy's family conditions, if you want to get married, the bride price must be an indispensable link. However, very few families in rural areas can afford to pay a bride price.
As a result, many boys miss out on their partners, and in rural areas, it's easy to see young people annoyed by bride price. Because they can't afford the bride price, they can only join the ranks of singles again, even if the two are happy. Therefore, I think that family conditions are also one of the reasons why boys are singles.
To sum up, in the countryside,There are many reasons why boys are single, and if these problems are not solved, then the situation of boys being singles will not be alleviated. Now there are many bachelors in the countryside, which is a very tricky problem.
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At present, from the perspective of the rural situation, the phenomenon of such sources is relatively serious
There are a lot of young people of DU age who do not have objects, especially.
zhi its rural dao has passed
When I was a year, matchmakers in many places began to organize blind date conferences, let's take a girl in the next village. During the period when the Chinese New Year was approaching, dozens of young men came to her house for blind dates, all of whom were from the next village, and the farther villages did not dare to let them come.
It can be seen from this phenomenon that it is difficult for many young men in the countryside to find their other half at present, and the phenomenon of beating singles in the countryside can only increase in the future. Many people talk about "singles villages" and they are talking about this rural area.
Now there are more and more "singles villages", and the country is now opening up the two-child policy, which also hopes that the ratio of men and women will be more balanced, and there are several main reasons for the more singles in rural areas.
1.Rural areas pay attention to bride price, and the bride price in some areas is generally very high. Especially like the poorer the place, the higher the bride price, many rural families are not rich, the high bride price is out of reach, the bride price is too high to find a wife, is the most fundamental reason for singles.
2.Girls in the city are reluctant to marry in the countryside because of the rapid development of the cities and the good living conditions. Urban girls generally have higher requirements for men, such as a house and a car, and an education.
Most rural lads don't think about city girls, they have different views, and it's hard to live together. Rural boys look for rural girls, but they often can't afford to marry because of the bride price.
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Singles are in the countryside, shameful, and people who marry wives laugh at singles who can't marry their wives. The single can't hold his head up. I am a post-80s single, and I am ridiculed by others. Parents who are singles are also affected. No way,
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In the countryside of my hometown, there are 12 teams in the Bai Village Brigade, and there are more than 30 teams in the 1 2 3 teams in the vicinity.
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How serious is the phenomenon of singles in rural areas? This.
I don't know if the topic has been analyzed by many ** and experts, it seems that the head is the inner way, but in fact, it is not tolerated.
It's hearsay, because they are not rural people, let alone bachelors, how can they really understand the countryside. I think it's only the rural singles who are best qualified to answer this question.
The important thing about the large number of singles in rural areas is the unbalanced development of urban and rural areas; Especially in the central and western regions, take our village as an example, the main income of farmers is still to go out to work, and capable farmers earn money by working outside, and they have also bought houses in the city, and even opened urban household registration; For the weaker peasants, they can only work as general laborers in the city, but in the end they are still peasants, with a single income and relatively poor economic conditions; In this era of high bride price and high prices, low income is the main reason for the large number of singles in rural areas.
The imbalance between men and women is a story of one radish and one pit, but now there is only one pit for countless radish, then this pit will definitely choose a big and strong good radish to enter the pit, and those defective radishes are destined to be eliminated. People in the city have innate advantages, and they are destined to be good turnips from birth; Rural people lose at the starting line, with congenital disadvantages, most of them are destined to be a crooked radish, and only a few successfully counterattack through hard work to become an excellent radish.
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Now the singles in the countryside are quite serious, many young men can't find a daughter-in-law, and divorced women are very sought-after.
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Rural singles still want to get rid of poverty, really. The material foundation has no quality of life at all, and he still thinks about getting married and having children, so he is not a pit for others, and for his own children.
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The root cause of the lack of men and women is the implementation of the national family planning policy, and now there are still the introduction of foreigners and the liberalization of residence regulations.
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It was so serious that the women and boys with children were divorced and squeezed their heads one after another.
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My brother is, he doesn't work at home to gnaw at home, my parents are still worried about his marriage, I said I don't need to get married, when the time comes, not only to support him, but also to support his wife and children, and don't hurt other people's girls, so be it!
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Now that there is so much social pressure, I really think that only women don't want to get married, and men don't want to.
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The state should introduce policies, restrictions on women marrying abroad, figuratively to review and pass the payment of at least 50,000 per year, and the policy of encouraging men with difficult household registration, etc., because there are too many men in our country, especially men in poor areas and poor households, I hope to think of more ways.
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When I was a child, I was afraid of hardship when I was studying, I was uneducated when I was older, and I was afraid of hardship when I worked; Patriarchal desperately wants to have a son, pins all his hopes on his son, and doesn't work hard to make money to buy a house in the city to enjoy life, what happens when he gets old? My son can't find a wife and doesn't care about your life or death, who is to blame? [cover your face] [cover your face] [cover your face].
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Anyway, I'm not going to get married, a very good, free and easy, raising children and preventing old age doesn't work in me, I believe that I am born to raise, as long as I am not lazy to eat, a person is still very wonderful.
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