What should I do if I have been married for eight years and have never had children?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-05
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I can understand your feelings very well, I have been married for ten years and have no children, but the relationship between husband and wife is very good, we are because we didn't want children before, and we started to want children before last, but we had a spontaneous miscarriage after three months of pregnancy. After that, I started to have a check-up and found that I was born with a uterine malformation. So I went to Fuxing Hospital for surgery, and the operation was successful, and I am now recuperating.

    No one has given you a verdict, you have made a judgment for yourself. If there is no physical problem, now it is your psychological problem, you exercise more, go traveling, relax, if there is a financial problem, find a way to earn more, because the relationship between two people is more precious than anything, if he is married to someone else and has children, but what is the point of not loving each other? Or are you married to someone else, have a bad relationship, and have children, isn't it a task?

    Don't be stupid, when you're in a good mood, that angel will come to your house.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's okay, don't give up on yourself, give up your husband, or go to the doctor, insist, you will always get pregnant, don't have other ideas, don't divorce because of this matter, adopt one if it's a big deal, or don't, it's okay to recognize a godson.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Two people get married because they are together because of love, not because they are together because they have children, so it is not important to have children, the important thing is that the other party has each other in their hearts, and the children can be adopted, as long as the two people live happily, it is not yet a way of life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Mindset is the most important thing. Relaxation is the most important thing! In the past, many colleagues in our company were under great pressure to work and have children, but after leaving the job or changing the working environment, they naturally became pregnant when they were in a good mood!

    A good friend of mine in Wuhan is also 36 years old this year, and he has no children yet. Discuss it with your family, see if you want to raise a relative's child first, and then take it yourself! Divert your attention, don't keep your mind on this, a colleague of mine first raised a daughter, and then gave birth to a son, which is very good!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If sexual intercourse is normal for more than a year and there is no pregnancy, it can be determined that at least one of the men and women has physical problems. At this time, both men and women must go to the hospital for basic infertility checkups. There are many reasons for not getting pregnant, and generally only the elimination method can be used, and it is recommended that you have early examination and early detection**.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Alas, married for five years, two years ago after a spontaneous abortion until now there is no child, Chinese medicine drank a lot, this year also did twice, contributed to the hospital five or six thousand yuan a month, I thought that this month's period was postponed for three days There is hope that the result is still coming, there is nothing wrong with itself, the anterior position of the uterus, the endometrium is thin, and it has also gone up by eating supplements, my husband did not liquefy before, and it was good to drink Chinese medicine, but I was not pregnant, I thought about IVF, but the economy did not allow it, in case it was not successful, I can't afford to do this money again, and the test tube is also very harmful to women's bodies, but what should I do, I am in a bad mood, for five years, I have been disappointed again and again, and I have advised me not to think about the child, but how can I not think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If infertility is not due to physiological reasons, then regular physical exercise is required. The exercise I recommend is swimming, because swimming is a physical exercise for the whole body, and it is not very tiring after exercise, which does not affect the life of the couple.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This mood is understandable, but don't give up, don't put too much pressure on yourself, maybe everything will be fine if it comes naturally, of course, you have to believe in medicine, my sister finally had a baby in 7 years, during which she has seen many doctors, it can be said that medicine has helped her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I know a woman, married for more than ten years and has not been pregnant, she went to too many hospitals for infertility and couldn't be treated, she didn't see it, she raised a child, the child was seven or eight years old, she was almost forty years old, and she became pregnant, she thought she was sick and saw that the child was out of breath and gave birth, because she didn't believe that she would get pregnant, and after waiting for a year she was pregnant again, and now she is about to give birth.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My cousin has been married for 27 years without children, and has seen all the famous doctors in China, when they are going to give up the 27th year, they naturally conceived a healthy baby boy, and now he is 3 years old.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As fate would have it, my husband and I have been married for 6 years before giving birth to my son, and we are very happy when we don't have children, and even happier when we have children! Life is complete.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I suffer from endometriosis, I haven't been pregnant for 8 years, I did hysteroscopy, practiced yoga, got pregnant and gave birth to Dabao, and then naturally conceived three, because the two-child policy did not come, I missed it, after the policy came, I went to do IVF, a success, dragon and phoenix baby, and now I am almost two years old.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's been three years, and I can't hold it anymore, he is 31 this year, and I don't know how to panic, I'm only 24 years old, and my good youth is told all day long that I won't get pregnant and won't give birth, it's really painful, it's his problem, azoospermia, I really can't see any hope, I can't cure it, I don't want to live with him, I don't know how hard to make money, my family is poor, hey, it's him who doesn't fight.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In order to have a child, I quit my high-paying job and went to work in a kindergarten, watching my child every day, hoping to get pregnant.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know, I don't dare to think about the future, try to live the present, everyone has their own way of life, life is so short, try to live the present.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I am only 26 years old, married to my first love, our first child has been pregnant for 16 weeks, there is no fetal movement, two days ago I was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism, I am hospitalized in a big hospital in the city, the doctor said that hyperthyroidism caused my heart rate to be higher than ordinary people, the heart rate is about 110 after taking medicine, and my heart rate will increase by about 20 in the late stage of pregnancy, the doctor is afraid that my heart rate is too fast, the heart load is too high, it will damage my own body, if my own body collapses in the late pregnancy, the child can not be saved, the doctor let us consider, It's really hard for us to make that kind of decision.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then Dink, life doesn't have to have children, some of the money from IVF several times can be used for the elderly, buy pension insurance for yourself, and you don't have to worry about anything in your old age.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If not, there is no one. If you like children enough, then adopt one, otherwise, don't do it at all, it has to be discussed with your other partner.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can do test tubes, and now the technology is very mature.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If a man has a problem, he will divorce, and he can't settle for it, and he can't delay himself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Married for four years, childless, divorced, his family kicked me away, and now I am very confused about the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Pregnancy and mood are very important, if both parties are okay with the examination, then go with the flow, relax your mind, let go of stress, and good luck will come naturally!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A man in my unit has been married for more than ten years without children, and the two are not in a hurry, the twelfth year his wife was pregnant, gave birth to a big fat boy, and gave birth to a son after a few years.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I just didn't get any results for 8 years, I did IVF, and I'm 3 months pregnant.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Urging every day, annoyed to death. Now that I am 10 weeks pregnant, there is no joy but all kinds of pressure, worrying about fetal arrest, worrying about Down's worrying about malformations. I really hate those seven aunts and eight aunts, as well as neighbors. Actually, I've only been married for less than two years.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    We've been married for seven years now, and we don't have children, because I have multiple uterine fibroids, and I'm on my way to IVF, and I don't know if I can make it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can do IVF, now the domestic IVF technology is very mature, and the success rate is very high.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Some things are not rushed, and the child and you are fate.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Infertility can**. The cause of a woman's infertility may come from the woman herself or from the man. After checking out, you can use the program you use.

    **The final result is good, and you can reach the goal of reaching the number of pregnancies. However, it is necessary to decide the best positive and destructive plan according to the actual condition, so relevant examinations and laboratory tests must be carried out first.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your husband and wife go to the hospital to check your body to see if there are any problems, and then make the next step, wishing you a healthy baby as soon as possible.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You can drink traditional Chinese medicine for conditioning, or use some home remedies for **, you can also do surgery**, or you need a whole body examination.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You should adjust your life status, and go to the hospital to get some tests and **, you can go to drink some medicines.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can drink traditional Chinese medicine for conditioning, or go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination, and you can also understand the situation of ovulation.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is recommended that both husband and wife go to the hospital for a special examination, and the doctor will give professional advice according to the specific situation.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Both husband and wife should go to a regular hospital to receive the corresponding **, check whether the body is correct only for certain diseases, if the body does not have any diseases, you can choose IVF, or other ways to conceive. World roll.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    To determine according to the actual situation, you can go to the hospital for an examination to determine what **is, so that you can choose Chinese medicine.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think we can use the way of drinking Chinese medicine, or the way of drinking Western medicine, or the way of acupuncture, or the way of diet, but I think the most important thing is that in the daily life, we must eat more fresh vegetables and fruits.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This should be determined according to the doctor's examination, be sure to pay attention to your physical condition, cooperate with the doctor**, relax your mind, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    At this time, Qin Jimu should go to the hospital for a full body examination, to see if there is something wrong with the body, according to the doctor's instructions to regulate the body, and then get pregnant. Lead reed.

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