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If it is not suitable to break up early, if it is a feeling that has become family affection, I advise you to cherish it, because no matter who you are with, after so many years, the relationship will fade and sublimate into family affection. Do you feel willing to break up now? It's easy to cultivate an excellent lover and give it to others, if you don't remember it at all, I think you already know the answer.
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The difficulty of marriage is to keep the dullness after marriage Not everyone's married life is as thrilling as you imagined, I really feel that there is no emotion, then divide it Find your own ideals, people live for this life Don't wronged yourself!
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No matter how long you've been together and how long you've been married, the main thing is that you don't have children yet, if you're really unhappy, then you must leave, if you have children and want to leave, it's going to be very painful... Because you're not happy, you're not happy.
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What do you mean by emotionlessness? Do you think of each other as relatives? Or are you tired of each other? Love is like that, and once it is calm, it needs a catalyst. Let's create some romance appropriately.
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In fact, sometimes you can think about the reason for fading out and marrying him, since you have chosen the other party as your lifelong partner, you must still have feelings, but you are just cold.
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It's not that there is no emotion, but that two people are used to being together, like family. After so many years together, it's not like when we first got along.
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You divided, changed again, and after another eight years, there was no emotion again, and again?
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When two people are together, it is love, and after being together for a long time, it is not love, but cherishing.
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Get your mindset right. The once vigorous love will eventually return to dullness, and it is just like a dream in retrospect.
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It's just that after a long time, there is no freshness between each other, and you should try to find the feeling you just started!
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It's normal, they know each other too well. Separate for a while, and there will be surprises right away.
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Who can accompany you every day! The person who can accompany you through the ordinary and stay in the end is the best destination.
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Eight years should be dull, this is life, you have to adapt.
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It has become a family relationship.
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It's normal, let's go out and travel together.
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It's normal, it's been like this for a long time together.
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I want to open a little! I'm going to hang out.
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It's not easy, let's have a baby.
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Are you married? If not, break up.
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Maybe your husband has something on his mind! He doesn't let you worry.
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It's not bad to have a candlelit dinner once in a while.
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Yes, how could it be as sweet as when you were young.
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Oh, eight years of emotional experience?
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No feelings, break up! It's a long day!
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It's been seven or eight years, and I can't say anything about it without emotion, otherwise I would have divorced a long time ago. Prove that you still have feelings. Since you feel sorry for her, continue to cultivate feelings. Divorce is the worst option of last resort.
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In 7 to 8 years, the relationship will fade, which is normal, and love will eventually become a family thing without sex.
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It's a bit of a matter of course to take this as a habit, thinking that his kindness to you is all right. After all, aesthetic fatigue is recommended to be separated for a short period of time to rebuild the feeling of not being seen for a day.
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It's been a long time, after all, you've spent so much time and so much youth, and you've probably spent the best years with him, so I thought to myself that there was no special selective problem anyway, and it was good to be together before, so I'll just get by.
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It's been eight years, and it's not easy to say that it's going to be put down.
There will always be contradictions, communicate more.
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It's been 8 years, it's not easy, at this time you should think about the experience of getting along with your parents, the closer the person, but it doesn't need to be so vigorous, plain is true.
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It's been eight years, and it's long since it became dull, more like a relative, and I'm used to it, in fact, you should get married.
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Because he's become a part of your life....
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After being together for a long time, there is a kind of dependence on him, and he is regarded as family.
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The two of them will become very dull after being together for a long time, it is normal for him to be fierce to you, my husband's temper is even worse, we have been arguing since we were pregnant with a doll, he scolded me for a little thing, I know that he has that kind of temper, just don't hear it, nothing has happened.
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The two have been together for a long time, and they have become a lot more dull, and they understand the advantages and disadvantages thoroughly. I advise you not to be angry, think more about his merits, and feel much more comfortable.
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The love that can get along for 8 years, no matter how deep the relationship is, it will be washed away by the blandness as family affection, it will be annoying when you are together, and you may not be used to it when you are separated! Cherish it!
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In this case, there are two possibilities, one is that he is a little almost taken for granted with you, and the other is that he is a little uninterested in you.
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There should be children, right? Have the fucking effort and energy to take care of the children more, your children are not as hypocritical as you, right?
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He shouldn't have said such a thing, and if he did, he would be angry.
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Be patient, the seven-year itch, and think carefully about whether he is really bad for you.
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Look at things with a normal heart.
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It's time for you to get married, it's been a long time.
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Are you regretting being with him?
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Let's just say that after a long time, love slowly becomes family affection.
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I think it's very wrong to say that your girlfriend is a watery poplar, a girl and her boyfriend go to different universities in different cities. If the conditions are good, it is normal to be chased, and it may be that you have something wrong about breaking up, such as boys who are often absent when their girlfriends need love because they are playful, or they are very busy because they play. She would.
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It took the girl eight years, and it would be said that I didn't feel it anymore.
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I've been with you for eight years, and when you give up on her, it's obviously not what a man should do.
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True love only lasts about 18 months, and you've both been eight years, so it's basically not love.
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It's been eight years together, and what more do you want to be vigorous, ordinary days are the best.
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Talk to her face-to-face, but even if you marry someone else, won't it be dull after eight years? Think clearly.
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Getting married, even if you're looking for a girlfriend to live with her for eight years, the ending is the same.
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Get married! Life is ordinary, I have been talking to my boyfriend for 5 years and I am about to get married! Bless you.
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The knot must be knotted, and it is impossible for her not to feel it, because you have been together for 8 years! Saying that you have no feelings is that you are running away.
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I propose to get married, you can say that the old man has seen it.
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Yes, because she gave you the best period of her life, you should be responsible.
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It's normal to not feel it, but it's still feeling after 8 years, after all, there is a word for a seven-year itch.
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I want to be vigorous for the rest of my life, and I am not afraid of heart disease.
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You've all been eight years, and you're only dull and tasteless.
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It's meaningless to be reluctant to be together, if you really can't get by, hurry up and separate, the sooner the better, while the child is still young, if you force yourself for the sake of the child, then you are too wronged yourself, why in this life? Isn't it just for yourself to be happy?
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Give up on him, be kind to yourself, and the child should understand in the future that a marriage without feelings is worthless, and you can't count on the myth of holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son.
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Eight years of this relationship? Think it through before it's too late.
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For the sake of the child, endure, for the sake of yourself, leave.
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People say it's a seven-year itch, you've been married for eight years, and you still don't have feelings.
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All choices are for the sake of the children!
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After getting married, the trough period, at this time you have to go through a period of excess, after which you can grow old, at this time, most of the pressure on his career is too heavy, you have to care more about him, so many years, have passed, there are still feelings, don't always bother him, you can send text messages, eat regularly, make porridge for him every night, be good to men, relieve stress, stretch the stomach, in short, you have to love him more than before, but don't deliberately, don't be discovered, don't ask for anything in return,
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Is he treating you badly, or are you not caring enough for her? If you care about each other, you won't be emotionless!
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