The so called confidant is mostly love but not, is the confidant true love?

A confidant is generally not true love.

Two people become confidants, which means that two people are in the process of dating, one sincerely treats a man and treats the woman as a best friend, and the woman also treats the man as a best friend.

Two people are together, with the same thoughts, the same ideas, when they encounter difficulties, they help each other and understand each other, but such two people have a distance, that is to say, between two people, they cannot do intimate behavior, and they must maintain the distance between men and women.

Best practices for getting along with confidants:

1. Mutual appreciation, there is an insurmountable bottom line: good confidants of the opposite sex are those who appreciate and trust each other. I once met a friend of the opposite sex, and we talked about everything about each other, whether it was life, work, or emotions, we were all open and open with each other.

2. Know how to help, but keep boundaries: good people of the opposite sex will help each other in communication, and they will listen quietly and quietly when the other party is in a bad mood, and enlighten softly. <>

The final outcome of love is to grow old with the person you love, but many times it is not love, you can only love deeply, but you can't make deep friends, which is the regret of love and the charm of love. The intersection of life does not necessarily arise from love, but only from being. There are two kinds of intersections in life, life and emotion.

The intersection of life is breadth, and the intersection of emotions is depth.

The dissatisfaction and grievances that many people gradually accumulate in love and marriage can be boiled down to four words, love but not. In Love Without Love, love is not the problem, the question is how do you deal with your needs. Many people respond to this by blaming, complaining, flattering, reasoning, etc.

And we need to learn to face our needs in the right way, which is to love ourselves.

I know why I don't get what I love.

I know it in my heart. And I know it's unlovable.

Love and confidant is not self + love confidant is self.

Hello dear. There will be many kinds of feelings in this world: family, love, friendship, and a kind of friendship, under the love of the cover of Lu Xun's "confidant love", among them, family affection is the bond of blood, love is the attraction of each other, friendship is mutual help, and confidant affection is the companionship of the soul.

Confidants are not necessarily husband and wife, and they don't have to be together in the morning and twilight, but even so, the hearts of the two people who know each other and burn themselves are connected, even if they are far away, they seem to be close at hand.