Why is it so painful to be with someone who loves me 10

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I've tried this too! There was once a question that wasn't that if you had to choose, you would choose the person you loved or the person you loved. At that time, I was also naïve to think that I would choose someone who loved me.

    But when I tried, I realized that it wasn't like that. It's really, really painful to be with someone you don't love. Don't believe what others say, as long as he loves you and treats you well, he is really happy.

    But the results are often the opposite. Because you don't love him. So even if he does more.

    It doesn't change the fact that you don't love him. I advise you to break up with him. One you can't give him what he wants...Your heart.

    Second, you are so reluctant to be with him. You yourself are unhappy and don't say it. And it's not good for him.

    Because the longer it drags on, it's not good for both parties. So I personally think. Or the happiest with the people you love.

    Because even if you have a disagreement with the person you love. There's a quarrel or something. But the joy he gives you.

    And the greatest joy in the world. Isn't it?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The lack of communication caused your relationship to become more and more distant, to the point of wanting to leave. If there is something to discuss, you can put your problems out first, say what you think, and slowly he will discuss with you if he has something.

    The most direct thing is for two people to put the current situation out, two self-examination, criticism and self-criticism, will make progress, both feel that they are good, and they are not wrong, and things will be worse.

    Increase the amount of activity you get together, such as listening to ** together, going to a place you want to go *** together

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's that you yourself didn't really like him from the beginning, right, why make yourself so miserable?? Two people should be happy together, no worries, this is the true meaning of two people together Even if he loves you very much, maybe you don't want to hurt him, but this result is not what you want! The two of you don't want to live for a few days, but for a lifetime Do you want to let yourself live in pain?

    Maybe the person you love hasn't appeared yet, maybe he's coming to you, boldly look for your love

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because you still have someone in your heart, or your dissatisfaction motivates you all the time, you will be very happy if you change yourself, it is really not good to break up, it is difficult to find someone who truly loves you, bless you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't love him, there is still room for development, so let it go early.

    It's always dragging you like this, and he's tired.

    Being with someone who loves you is not about saying good, but about taking action;

    You don't hate him, but you let your heart go, let him in, when he loves you, you accept, I'm talking about the acceptance of the heart, you always say that you love you and you should be with him, but in your heart you have already locked your heart up.

    In this way, even if the person who loves you, you do not accept the love he gives you, so can you not suffer?

    Open your heart,

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because you don't love him.

    Your love is only one-sided, don't delay him, and don't force yourself anymore.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you've already said that it's someone who loves you, not someone you love, so you feel miserable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You didn't love him at all!

    You're just deceiving yourself!

    But you don't think that after a long time, you will get bored!

    Choose the right opportunity to explain everything to her, and even if she hates you, you will have a clear conscience!

    Because you told him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Did you really feel that he loved you? Did he change his mind? If you are right and wrong, then he is the only one who can give you happiness, and you must keep him despite all difficulties.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love makes you physically and mentally exhausted, but the choice is destined to continue from the wrong day. Try to fall in love with him, it's good for both of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're so him that you can't fall in love with him all the time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's too egoistic.

    Learn to live hypocritically.

    Time changes everything.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Simple: because you don't love him!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take a short break and look at your heart!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Me too. and cannot be separated.

    I can only change this situation little by little.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. My dear, if you choose to love you, maybe the other party feels sorry for you, he does it himself, he spoils you very much, you can suffer less, but there may not be any change in your heart, because you don't love this person, so no matter what he does, you don't like it.

    Is it painful to be with someone you don't love or painful with someone you love.

    Hello kiss, I'm happy to answer for you, kiss this is also a situation, generally speaking, it is a little painful to be with someone you don't love.

    My dear, the one who doesn't love, maybe he loves you, so maybe you will fall in love after a long time, it's not certain. If you choose what you love, then what if he doesn't love you, after a long time, but you pay unilaterally, you will also work very hard, and in the end, you may face the risk of collapse.

    My dear, if you choose to love you, maybe the other party feels sorry for you, he does it himself, he spoils you very much, you can suffer less, but there may not be any change in your heart, because you don't love this person, so no matter what he does, you don't like it.

    My dear, if you don't think too much about it, it will be a little more painful to be with someone you don't love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Falling in love with someone who can't be together is a very sad and painful thing, it will produce a lot of helplessness, and it will be very regretful in your heart, as if it is like a piece of cake in front of you, and you can't eat it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1.I looked at the space four or five times, but I didn't dare to leave a trace. 2.

    When I can't see him, I always remind myself that we are impossible, and when I see him, I forget everything. 3.Like a moth to a fire; Knowing that there is no desired ending, it is still unreserved love.

    4.I can't help but make a mistake, and all my heart is sad and uncomfortable. 5.

    It's heartache, it's heartache, it's heartache. 6.I want to cry, I feel so helpless, I really want to be with you.

    7.More and more unable to restrain it, almost to the end, but not to the end, impossible but not dead. 8.

    How bitter it is to love someone, only you know best. 9.If I could, I'd rather not know him, because then I wouldn't be delusional.

    10.I didn't dare to chat with him, so I could only look at the king's battle record to see what time he went to sleep.

    Asking questions and falling in love with mom.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This kind of pain is piercing, unforgettable, it is a regret that you can't forget in this life, and it is the most uncomfortable to have a fate, and this pain will accompany you at every stage of your life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is indeed very painful to love someone who cannot be together, but you also have to gradually get used to this pain, because not everyone who likes can be together, and time will dilute everything.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love can't be obtained, no matter how painful it is, it will pass. You may feel that life has no direction and life has lost its taste, but time will smooth everything, as long as you don't give up on life, everything has hope.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Love is not the most painful, because what you can't get is always in turmoil, looking at the person you love, but not belonging to yourself, every day is very struggling, very tormented, very uncomfortable.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It will be very painful, because I like each other very much, but if I am not together for various reasons, I will be very disappointed, and it will be difficult to get out of such a situation.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This feeling is particularly painful, knowing that two people can't be together but are reluctant to let go of each other, which will cause a big blow to themselves.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's very painful, and it will also affect your mood a lot, and love is the most uncomfortable thing in the world.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is especially painful, because falling in love with someone who can't be together, there is never hope, it is endless pain.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find.

    If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has one.

    Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

    If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

    Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

    The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When you love someone and can't be together, your heart is very painful. Life is like this, and it doesn't mean that you can sleep all the time. Everyone can have troubles of one kind or another, and the same is true in love.

    We may have met the wrong person at the right time or the right person at the wrong time. This is a very bad situation for us. It can be said that it is love and has to be loved.

    So for people, sometimes it's very painful that people who can't love each other can't be together. It can be said that the pain is difficult to express in words.

    And two people actually love each other, but there are many factors that can't be together, and there are where they are. There are a series of relationships such as geographical location and their parents. seat-related impacts.

    You may just think about her all the time, but you can't be together, so it is difficult for us to choose a series of life. All we have to say is to keep living our current life.

    Your heart may be very painful, and you will often think of him after you have quietly, but your life will go on, and you still have your parents and relatives. So you have to cheer up. There's nothing you can't get over.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is still necessary to be happy with a person who is consistent with his three views and has a similar background, after all, marriage requires mutual understanding, mutual help, and mutual success in order to go a long way.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Question: What do you do if there is someone who is really nice to you, someone who will miss you every day, and someone you like at first sight.

    If I liked him at first sight, I would definitely give it a try.

    Can the question give me a reason, I'm confused right now.

    Of course, this is based on my personality.

    Stop losses in time. Ask whether you should feel it over a longer period of time or feel it for a while before making a decision in case some people are slow to heat.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's more painful to be with someone who doesn't love you, and it's also painful to be with someone you don't love. Feelings can be cultivated slowly, the person you don't love, he loves you happily.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, love and non-love are just a belief, two people together to understand each other, cherish, love each other, a beautiful and happy family depends on mutual support, not one person can complete the endure.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Personally, I think that as long as you can be together, feelings can be cultivated, but often you don't even have the opportunity to be together.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's all painful!

    In comparison, the latter is more painful, without a sense of existence, since he is not loved, he can't be stupid enough to love each other with all his heart;

    Although the former doesn't love each other, at least he is loved.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Do you have a bad relationship with your husband?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    That's just touching, not true love! My girlfriend chased her crazy high school classmates before she dated me, which can be said to be heartbreaking, but my girlfriend was just not moved until she met me, and I asked her that person was so good to you why you didn't accept him? She said I didn't like him

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