What is the mindset of a roommate who asks me where I am going every time I go out?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I guess I care about me very much.,After all, the people in the dormitory basically act together.,I'm afraid what if I can't think about it.。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Actually, I think I want to talk to me and get closer. If I didn't want to say anything, I jokingly said, "Take my sister and go to the handsome guy." "Every time I go out and come back, they will jokingly say that I will go to my sister again, what a heart. It was easy to pass.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think I really care about my roommate, I want to know when I go, I want to be involved in the feeling of going together, and I must have this kind of roommate who must have a very iron relationship, and do everything together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    They just want you to help bring a meal! I've had this experience, and I definitely want to buy something to let me go out and see if I can stop by and help bring it back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think she asked me because she was worried that she would be overtaken by me, and she didn't work hard. I also have a roommate in the dorm, I'm a sophomore this year, and I'm going to graduate school in the future, but every time I get dressed and want to go out or something, I'm asked where I'm going. I really think it's annoying, but I can't help it, after all, we still have to be together for three years.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I feel like my roommate just wants to know what you're doing. Just like family, I want to know where you are.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My roommate is, but I basically say that I just think he wants to know where I'm going, and if he's interested, he'll go with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you are roommates, greeting you as friends, out of politeness and concern, you can't go out and not even ask!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I guess I care. Roommates want to know where you are and can help you if something happens.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I feel like a nosy person, and I will tell him that I am going to practice, what kind of practice? Don't be nosy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My roommate is the same, I buy a book, she also wants to see what books, I turn on the computer to read runningman, she asks what are you looking for on the computer, I try to avoid her to go to the library, did she say that she feels good in the library? I didn't play with them in the dormitory, but when I went back to the dormitory, she was drawing again. It's really annoying ......Anyway, I don't care what she says, just do my own thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People in our dormitory are particularly fond of asking this sentence, if anyone is not in the dormitory, they will ask, "Who is going to **?" ”。After all, everyone is under the same roof, so these are just a question that ordinary people will ask, and they don't really want to know who you're with**, going**, and with.

    So, if you don't know how to reply when you reply, see if the answer to your reply is a big secret to you. If, you just went out to eat, and they asked you to go, you answered honestly, why do you think so darkly about everyone, and take all the kindness as a purposeful greeting. If you don't want to tell them that you're going to **, they don't have to know, you just just say a place, and everyone won't investigate it deeply.

    If it weren't for the more or less concern for you, everyone wouldn't have nothing to do, gossiping every day to know where you went, so you have to adjust your thoughts, attitudes, treat it as a very ordinary thing, and treat it with a normal heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on what your relationship is like, and what his starting point is for asking this question.

    I heard a friend tell a story that their dormitory usually doesn't have a very good relationship. But he was always asked what were you going to do? Where did you come from? My friend just doesn't understand why the relationship is not good, why do they have to inquire so clearly?

    Because he usually has a lot of things to do, and he is a very powerful person at school, it seems that everyone wants to know his every move, which makes him feel very annoyed. So every time he was asked like this, he sometimes said to go out to have fun, or simply didn't talk.

    Sometimes when I go out, people in my dorm ask me what I'm doing, and I know they just ask and think about whether they want to go with me, or ask me to help bring something or something. So I'm going to tell them the truth and tell them what I'm going to do.

    There are always some people who want to know your whereabouts, as if they are afraid that you will deliberately avoid him and not let him know if you have something good. I always feel that there is something wrong with this person's heart, and it seems that he usually does not do bad things.

    In front of this kind of person, you can talk as much as you want, after all, you are not friends, and you can get by on your face. Why do you have to tell him all about your privacy?

    If it's a very good friend who often asks you and makes you feel that you are not free, I think you can tell him directly, you say that you don't like to be chased or something, and she will definitely understand.

    In short, I believe in a truth, how to be happy. Is making friends also for the sake of two people being comfortable? If only one person is comfortable and the other person is aggrieved, it can't be called a good friend.

    If you want to tell them, you tell them. If you don't want to tell, just find a reason to prevaricate, and he can't shamelessly continue to ask you.

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