Have you ever made it all the way from college to marriage, and how do you maintain your relationshi

When the love period is over, you have to use your brain to find a way to maintain the relationship instead of giving up easily. In order to end the frequent quarrels, I thought of a way, we wrote a letter to each other, in which we first analyzed each other's strengths and weaknesses and then analyzed our own strengths and weaknesses, and then exchanged, after the exchange, we found that our analysis of ourselves and each other was very consistent, at that time there was a special feeling of spiritual integration, and the emotional level immediately rose and transitioned smoothly.

Yes, I think the most important thing is the communication on the heart, chat more when you are usually fine, and meet on weekends and holidays, which is a good way to communicate, and understanding the state of the other party will also make you more at ease, without suspicion, suspicion, and there will be no so-called breakup.

My wife and I have been in a relationship since our junior year and have been married for two years now. We have a map of China and a photo album, we will go out to travel once a semester during school, take all kinds of **, although we are busy at work, but the habit of vacation travel is still maintained. Traveling together can really strengthen relationships.

Let me boast first, I'm a warm man, hahaha. In the past 4 years since my girlfriend fell in love and now been married, I have been trying to create surprises for her, giving flowers and gifts or something is already commonplace, couples decorate their homes one after another, I think that a life with affection can be enjoyed, so I can maintain this college relationship, hahaha.

Don't say that I have scheming, when the woman's parents knew about my existence, I coaxed her parents to be better than my own parents, because I think it is 10,000 times more difficult to coax the other party's parents than to coax my girlfriend, hahahahaha, I have been in love for 5 years and am now married.

06 years to college, 13 years of marriage, although has been a long place, but we have never lost contact for more than 24 hours in the past eight years (not yet), whether it is a text message or **, this shows that there will be no cold war between us, this contribution is mainly in him, the noisy sky can not be cold, the cold war in a different place is too easy to misunderstand.

I have been in love with my boyfriend for nine years and plan to get married at the end of this year. From high school and college are in the same school, graduated and lived together, and have been together for so many years, we are very aware of all each other's shortcomings, but we all accept to tolerate each other, and getting along with each other is an interactive process, whether it is showing love or dissatisfaction, you must feedback and receive, otherwise you will gradually accumulate to complete disappointment with each other because of a little dissatisfaction, communication is very important.

Eight years in love, five or six years in a different place. She has been married for two years and has been in a different place since her marriage. The baby is half a year old. Emotional stability. The biggest secret is that the contact cannot be broken, and the two meet regularly.

Handle the relationship between feelings and studies, if it is in a school, reasonably allocate the time with him and her, arrange your own work and rest, and let everyone have their own space. Be humble to each other, understand each other, and trust each other.

My boyfriend and I both have a common hobby, which is **, hahaha. When we were in school, we didn't talk about exercising together, especially during the winter and summer vacations, we would each set a small goal for each other, so that we could supervise and encourage each other, and we wouldn't forget about me during a vacation.

It is the feelings that enter the marriage hall, and it is the money that maintains the marriage feelings!

Although I am only a freshman, I feel that I can go to that time with the person in my family, and I feel that the most important thing is to have three views, and then there is love and trust

1.Don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love.

But in my life alone, your excellence attracted me and made me want to fall in love. In college, there are many people who treat falling in love as a play, so they should choose carefully and prefer to lack rather than excess.

2.Try not to be in a long-distance relationship in college.

It's better to be in one place, so that you can be there when I need you, and it can give both people a sense of security for each other. Reduces a lot of unnecessary troubles.

3.The appearance is in the back row.

It's important to be comfortable with each other and have similar personalities. Don't set the standard of appearance for choosing a mate so high. You must know that the university is a plastic surgery center, and after four years, it may be counterattacked.

4.Two people should have a common goal together.

Even if the goals are different, two people should pursue the effort together. Influence each other, make progress together, and be self-motivated. Don't fall in love and fall in love with the whole person.

5.When a boy is courting a girl, don't treat him like an ATM.

In college, the living expenses are also the parents' expenses, and if you spend other people's parents' money lavishly, won't your conscience hurt? Try to go back and forth when you go out on a date, and don't always make guys pay for it.

6.Be sure to find someone who crosses paths with you.

If the level is about the same, there will be a little more common language. So, if you have something to do, go to the library, the playground, and the club to meet some people.

7.After falling in love, girls should not be too pretentious.

Don't use the excuse of "I'm a girl" and let the boys help out of course. Isn't it true that the road will not go after there are no boys? Learn to take care of yourself, learn to be independent, eat and sleep on time.

8.Don't be in a relationship after a relationship.

Now that you have a boyfriend and girlfriend, don't mess with flowers and grass anymore. Keep an appropriate distance from other friends of the opposite sex. In addition, listen to your girlfriend more, and her girlfriend said which is really accurate green tea, so delete it quickly. (Aquaman, when I didn't say).

9.Don't try to change the other person.

Everyone has different habits and hobbies. Feelings are mutually reinforcing, not one person sacrificed for another person to change in exchange.

10.Don't stick together every day.

The best relationship is companionship, and the main thing for two people is trust. As long as they have each other in their hearts, they will definitely go far.

1. Treat love correctly.

When college students fall in love, they should correctly handle the relationship between love and study. Falling in love is a major event in life, but it is not the whole of life. College students should focus on their studies because learning is the main purpose of college students.

Academics are higher than love, advocating that academics should be the mainstay, and it is not advisable to fall in love too early. But don't think that love is a stumbling block to your studies, if you handle it well, love can also play a catalytic role in your studies.

2. Cultivate the ability to love.

1. Cultivate the ability to welcome love.

If a college student has love in his heart, he must dare to express it in the right way; If you are faced with other people's expressions of love, you must be able to make trade-offs and make a timely choice of acceptance or rejection. Able to withstand the psychological distress of courtship rejection or rejection of courtship.

2. Cultivate the ability to reject love.

You should have the courage to refuse love that you are unwilling to accept or that you think is not worth accepting. There are two points that should be paid attention to when refusing: First, if you really don't want love to come, please be decisive and resolute in the tone of refusal, and do not tolerate the slightest indecision, otherwise it will cause greater harm to the other party.

Second, it is necessary to master the appropriate way. It is necessary to master the way and degree of speech. Although everyone has the right to refuse love, it is also necessary to achieve a minimum of respect for others.

3. Correctly handle the frustration of love.

1. Face up to reality. As a wise college student, you should understand that the pain of falling out of love lies in the word "love", love is two-way, mutual, based on the love of both parties, losing either party, love will be unbalanced, and love will end in failure. At this time, no matter how deeply the lovelorn partner loves the other party, it is unrealistic, and as a reasonable college student, you should face this reality.

2. Sublimation. Don't be depressed because of a broken love, thinking that life and life have lost their meaning. You must know that love is an important part of life, but it is not the whole of life, and it is necessary to sublimate the broken love into a kind of motivation to work hard as soon as possible, and devote it to study or work as soon as possible.

It is necessary to take a correct view of love, put the position of love correctly, and handle the relationship between love and study, love and life, and love and marriage.

It is very normal for college students to fall in love in college, and it is very difficult to avoid being hurt in the relationship, which is basically impossible to do, but there are some ways to reduce or avoid some damage. First of all, it is necessary to understand that feelings are mutually giving, so don't give unilaterally all the time. The second is to protect yourself in the relationship, don't deliver important things casually, and finally understand that feelings talk about fate, fate has not arrived, and it is useless to be anxious.

Learn to be self-confident and self-reliant, and make yourself empowered and positive.

If you don't want to be emotionally hurt, you don't have to touch your feelings, and most adults get married and divorced.

I think it's very difficult to fall in love in college to get married, all the love we had when we were students, and in the end there were very few people who were able to walk together and enter the marriage hall, because our love in the student days was very simple, and the two people didn't think about the future life at all, just because they were attracted to each other, so they were together. All the future economic conditions, the working environment, and the requirements of both families are not taken into account at all, so often the love of college students can rarely come together, and we often part ways after graduating from college, because of work, because of the reason that we want to continue studying, or because of various economic reasons of our parents, because, after leaving the university campus, we are really adults, and we must have our own responsibilities, so at this time, we will often be forced to break up due to reality.

When I was in college.

Bai is in love, at least Du is beautiful. You don't have to worry about the future, you can go to the cafeteria today to eat and answer meals, you can go to the library to review together, and you can take 1 car home together to be happier.

These happiness are actually very pure, and they are not mixed with any interests in it, even if the other party is not good enough, it doesn't matter, even if the other party's home is too far away from your home, because two people feel that it is the happiest thing in the world when they are together.

But after graduating from university, you need to face a series of practical problems. For example, the economic conditions and work strength of the two of you, whether you can afford to buy a house, raise a car, and have children in this city, these practical issues need to be considered.

So because many people who choose naturally parting ways, because two people continue to be together, it will only make us disgusted and regret each other's original feelings, and you will find that each other will become clear and absent unconsciously. You will find that the other party is no longer the simple little girl you were at the beginning, and that is the most distressing.

Because people who fall in love in college, they often fall in love with the heart of having fun, and some people feel that the people around them have a partner, and they have to find one for themselves.

However, after graduation, even if the two really have a relationship, they will be limited by various conditions in reality, including housing, family, work, etc., and eventually have to break up.

Love in college is really love for love's sake, and of course there are those who are too precocious, which is not among them. They can live the life they want according to their own wishes in the right university, although it is not as rich as after work, but it is better to be in a good mood, physically and mentally refreshed, even if it is hate, it is hated thoroughly, and love is hysterical!

However, when it comes to finding a job, you will encounter a lot of obstacles, such as distance, some people say that time is the best medicine for pain, but distance is the opening of pain. Because of the distance, so separated. Because of the distance, it hurts!

Distance is only one factor, and there is also the opinion of parents, some people are separated because of their parents' disagreement, there are many such students and new social people, and some of my colleagues are like this.

No matter what, as long as you experience it, it's beautiful, just remember!

College is not too difficult, the relationship is suitable, and I also got married when I was in college. Come across a suitable one.

The people of the dao are very important and specialized, and if they are not suitable, they will definitely not be together.

A lot of boys in college like to play games, and girls who are usually more stable may not be very acceptable, but if it is a girl who encounters a bad situation, it may be that boys will be tired all day long, and there is another point, the three views do not match, and it is difficult to be together with different interests and hobbies.

For example, when I met a boy who worked hard to make money and bought too many expensive gifts for girls, but when the intern boy came out to rent a house, the girl ran away, so it is definitely not okay to get used to it, and the girl will think that you are very rich.

I won't order the others...It's too much to say.

If you want to get married, you must find someone of the same age who is not much different. This kind of love may be more reliable, but if the age gap is too large, it will go quite far. And you must know yourself and your heart, and be able to communicate with each other for a long time.

Maybe we all have to understand each other. There is a commitment, and it must be trustworthy, practical and stable. That's the most important thing.

Thinking that everyone is young, they will not be very mature, and some will lay the groundwork for the future, and then they will not get married. It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to get along with each other, and this truth is ......