How do you explain your ideals to your parents?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-26
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My dream is to open my own shop and sell the food I make, and I will make it for my parents to taste and let them approve it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I show them the information published by the authorities and give examples of successes, let them know that I have the potential to become like them, prove to them what I am capable of, and make them trust me from the bottom of their hearts.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I explained that my ideal is to do design, such as refrigerators, air conditioners and color TVs. Later, I took out my iPhone and smashed it on the table, saying that I was engaged in these things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My dream was to do Internet operation and promotion, and later I explained to my parents that I was getting a computer.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think when I ask you about your ideals at home, the point of interest is not in your job, but in your salary and work experience. So in this case, just answer it this way: more money!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My dream was to be a special effects makeup artist, but my parents really couldn't understand it, and then I turned a young man into an old man, and my parents knew that I was so good!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I majored in urban management, and my family said that I was a chengguan stall, and I explained to him for a long time, and took them to my place of work to solve the misunderstanding.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I would ask my sister to go and tell my parents that I was going to do something I loved.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I prefer to show them the results and achievements of my efforts after I succeed, and I can see them at a glance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Take them to the studio where I work, see the paintings and ideas I designed, and tell them about them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, as children, we should not blindly ask our parents how to treat us, we should go into the world of our parents more, express our love to our parents more, take the initiative to undertake housework, communicate more with our parents, learn to empathize when there are differences, say hello to our parents when we go out to play, and fight more with our family members when we go to school, and communicate with our families.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Able to patiently point out mistakes when I make them and guide me to correct them. This way, I don't have to worry about being scolded for making mistakes, and I have the confidence to try something new.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My ideal parents can grow up and study with me, talk freely, and give me guidance in life, so that I am not confused.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My ideal parent would be someone who is very understanding and can give their child a lot of love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    We do not have the right to choose parents, parents must first care for their children, not too much spoiling, parents should be harmonious, to respect the elderly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My ideal parents are to live in harmony and love each other, not to quarrel all the time.

    When I was a child, my mom and dad would always quarrel, and the two of them would fight at every turn? Then they started fighting, and Dad was even beaten into the hospital by Mom, and Mom was injured by Dad ......The two of them just made a lot of noise, until now. But it's okay now, maybe it's because of their age, the two of them don't fight anymore, and the two just dislike each other.

    My ideal parents, my father is gentle and polite, and my mother is gentle and considerate. But it seems that neither of them can do ......Forget it, I've grown up and started a family, so I can't care about the two of them, and the two of them won't divorce anyway......

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Respect our parents' opinions: Our parents' expectations and care for us are out of love and care for us, we want to respect our parents' opinions and opinions, but also let them know our thoughts and decisions.

    2.Targeted communication: We can communicate and communicate according to the parents' thoughts and concerns, so that they can understand the reasons for our thoughts and decisions, and also understand their worries and concerns, and give reasonable solutions and arrangements.

    Through effective communication and exchanges, we can reduce misunderstandings and contradictions, and make each other more understanding and supportive.

    3.Try to compromise and compromise: If the parents' requirements and ideas conflict with our own, we can try to compromise and compromise to find ways and solutions that are acceptable to both parties, so that both parties can get a certain amount of full support and support.

    4.Find ways to let parents know about their lives: Let parents know how they live and work, let them know that their lives are fulfilling and happy, and reassure and support their decisions.

    5.Give parents time: Sometimes it takes a certain amount of time and process for parents to accept, we need to give them enough time and space, respect their feelings and ideas, and at the same time stick to their own decisions and principles.

    6.Do your own thing: We need to focus on our careers and lives to make our lives more fulfilling and enriching, so that parents can also be reassured and supportive of our decisions.

    7.Patience and persistence: Sometimes it takes a certain amount of time and process for parents to accept, we need to be patient and persistent, let them know that our decisions and ideas are serious and firm, and at the same time, we must continue to communicate and communicate effectively with them, so that they can gradually accept and understand their ideas and decisions.

    8.Look for other support: We can look for other people who support and understand us, such as friends, colleagues, counselors, etc., to share our thoughts and feelings, and get their support and encouragement.

    In short, the understanding and support of our parents is important to us, but we must also stick to our own decisions and principles to find our own happy lifestyle. Through effective communication and exchange, we can get parents to understand and support our decisions, while also respecting their opinions and opinions, so that each other can be more understanding and supportive.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Parents who prevent their children from falling in love freely can actually communicate with their parents. The reason why parents intervene in their children's love is because they are worried that their children will find a partner who will not make them feel very satisfied. The starting point of parents is always for the good of their children, and this should be believed.

    No parent wants their children to be careless about marriage.

    Parents who prevent their children from falling in love freely must take a stand. Things like marriage have to be decided by themselves, and the future life partner must also choose by themselves. After all, it is a person who has lived with him for a lifetime, and if he does not choose it himself, even if he can get married, he will be considered by his parents to be a satisfactory life partner, and he may feel a pity in the end.

    Feelings can only make their own decisions, and only their own hearts know whether they are happy or not.

    Many parents ignore the issue of believing that the marriage of their children should be decided by their parents. In fact, it is good for the children's marriage to be their own decision, if the parents intervene too much, it will be detrimental to their marriage, and it will also produce a lot of ***. For example, children's mentality will become more and more hypocritical, and they will slowly confront their parents.

    Emotional things are always known only to oneself, and others can't feel them.

    If parents intervene in their relationship, if they don't stop it at first, no matter how many people they talk about in the future, they will be ruined by their parents' opinions. Because with the first, there will be a second. Don't always think that your parents can find a good love partner for you, after all, your parents are planning to get married.

    The marriage partner that parents want to find is the kind that lives at home, and they don't care about the feelings of their children. After all, the marriage of my parents' time is different from the current marriage situation, the age is different, and the concept of marriage is different.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Talk to your parents, boring one.

    Say what you think, and if it makes sense, trust your parents to take care of the difference, or which parent you are closer to, and it might be better to talk to him first, and then sit down with the other parent.

    I wish you all the best!

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