Is it feasible to buy a big house and let my parents and parents in law support together?

I think it's a very good idea to buy a big house and bring my parents and parents-in-law into this house. In this way, the relationship between the two families can be strengthened, and the parents and children will live closer, and it will be nice for everyone to take care of each other and get along harmoniously.

The idea of buying a big house, allowing parents to live with their parents-in-law and provide for them in their old age is good, but it may not be realistic. After all, the personality of the elderly is different, and it may be difficult to get along.

Of course, it is okay to let parents and parents-in-law care for the elderly together. However, it is best not to do this until you have to, because when you are older, your lifestyle and methods of dealing with problems are not the same, and you are prone to problems of one kind or another.

That's perfectly fine. You buy a big house. There are enough rooms for your parents and parents-in-law to live together, and you live together, so that you can take good care of both parents.

If you buy a big house and let your parents and parents-in-law care for the elderly together, I feel that this is also an idea, but if they are together, there should be a lot of things, and it is better to live separately.

If the relationship between parents and parents-in-law is relatively good, this method is feasible, and it is also more convenient, and it is a very good method.

If you have this kind of thinking, it depends on whether your parents and parents-in-law can get along, and it is best to be closer, and buy two sets of adjacent houses, so that there will be fewer contradictions.

This method is very feasible, but it will be very stressful for you personally, because buying a big house is very expensive.

No, there will be a big contradiction between the two, and in the process they will not be able to live in peace, and there will be fights.

With these elderly people, there will be a very serious generation gap in life, and there will be some estrangement, so they are unwilling to live with these people, and even quarrel and disagree.

Because the father and daughter of the wife should pay more attention, and young people generally buy a house very close to their in-laws, so that they can take care of not only their in-laws but also their father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Because fathers-in-law and mothers-in-law can help young people take care of children, they are particularly good to sons-in-law, and there are fewer contradictions, and in-laws are easy to pick on their daughters-in-law's mistakes, and conflicts are prone to occur.

There will be a very serious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in everyone's family. If you don't get along well, you won't pick up your parents-in-law to live.

Personally, I feel that this is just a very isolated phenomenon, which shows that I didn't educate my son well and didn't know how to understand the hard work of my parents. If the house is bought, the son does not let the old people on both sides take turns to live, but only let the father-in-law and mother-in-law live, and he can take back the house, because the son who does not know how to honor his parents cannot love each other's parents very well. If it is because the son's parents-in-law are poor and helpless, and he still has a house and living conditions, then don't be overly careful, this is also a concession for family harmony.

If you don't go, you won't go, it's the same wherever you live, let your son have to pay for living expenses, and live more peacefully by yourself, and your father-in-law and mother-in-law are also working, and if you go, you're afraid that there will be a conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so it's better not to go.

It's very bad, and the host should also have a chance, so not giving the owner the opportunity to go seriously affects everyone, and it's also a very bad behavior.

This kind of thing still needs to be looked at a little bit, and it is also beneficial for children to live separately from their parents, so that they can have their own independent living space and there will be no conflicts. In terms of pension, you can negotiate with your son, you don't necessarily have to live together, you can provide for the elderly in other ways.

I think your son's way of dealing with it is really inappropriate, after all, it is the house you bought, even if he wants to be a good son-in-law, you can give them some living expenses every month, as long as they are still filial to you, don't care about them so much, the children have their own ideas.

Your son is very unfilial, he just treats you as an ATM, and his approach is really too much.

Of course, it is acceptable, because it is the obligation of every child to provide for the elderly, and as a son-in-law, you should also fulfill your filial piety.

You should accept it, it is the daughter's responsibility to support her parents, since you are married to their daughter, everyone is a family, isn't it necessary for husband and wife to share weal and woe and support both parents, not to mention that people will give you a house.

I think it's acceptable, first of all, whether you give a house or not, you should provide for the elderly as a son-in-law, not to mention that the current housing prices are so high, if you have a house, life doesn't have to be so hard, and it is easier to provide for the elderly.

Personally, I think I can also accept their requests, because as a young junior, it is also a very normal behavior to provide for my elders, so I think I can accept it.

Personally, I feel that it is best not to live together, because relatives are far away and smelly close, and if they are together, occasionally there will be disagreements and conflicts, and my son and daughter-in-law will be very embarrassed.

I don't think it's feasible. After all, it is two families, and it will be inconvenient to live together. The two families have different living habits. It is easy to have conflicts after getting along for a long time, so it is not feasible.

Personally, I don't think it's too suitable, don't live together, even if you live in a community, it is inevitable that there will be friction when you live together, and if there is more friction, it will become a contradiction.