What should I do if I have worked for two years and have no savings, but my parents have been asking

The first thing that must be said is that your parents ask you for money, and you should give it, so do your parents know about your income? If you don't know your income, you should take the initiative to explain it to your parents, if your parents don't know your income, think your income is very high, and ask you for money, I think it's too normal, so I think you should first tell your family about your income, and then what is the reason why you have no savings for two years of work? Is it that wages are too low, or is consumption too high?

If it's because you spend money indiscriminately, you don't have a deposit, you don't have money to give to your parents, then you have to get rid of this problem of spending money indiscriminately, so one you have to do is to explain, and the other is to reflect.

Let's be honest. It's good to post the passbook and the bill directly.

Summary. We must first love ourselves well in order to love our family well, we can send red envelopes to express our hearts during the holidays, but it makes no sense when the money is handed over, because we just worked and did not have much salary, if all of them are given to our parents, it will be more difficult for us to go in the workplace, and we can wait for our salary to increase if it is more, and the money we can give to our parents every month will gradually increase.

Like the kind of one where all wages are handed over, many times it is the parents who carry out moral kidnapping in the name of their relatives.

After working for three years, I didn't have any savings, and my parents took all of them, and my parents kept asking for money.

You are back in Haoshi Town, Honglu I am a psychological counselor Peng Dao, I have seen your problem and am analyzing it for you, please wait

Hello, whether our salary should be all given to the parents wheel hall, this is a worthy question, in fact, the most important thing is to see what the parents use Tongtong lead your salary to do well, if it is just their own daily consumption, generally not all the salary, you can transfer some pocket money to your parents every month, yes, but all is not feasible, sometimes we give, when we encounter difficulties, parents will not necessarily return to us.

We have to love ourselves well before we can love our family, we can send red envelopes during the holidays and quietly shout to reach our hearts, but there is no point in handing over the money, because we just work and don't have much salary, if all are given to our parents, it will be more difficult for us to go in the workplace, we can wait for our wages if it is more, we can give our parents more money every month, like the kind of all wages handed over, many times it is the parents in the name of their relatives, moral kidnapping.

Summary. Expand: Ways to save money:

1. Reduce the frequency of live broadcast consumption and pay attention to the live broadcast room, and only keep the cheap ones that are just needed; 2. Clean up your wardrobe, trade in the old for new consumption, unless you like it super much, don't buy new clothes and bags; 3. Don't buy so many spare items, because you will continue to buy them when the inventory is full; 4. Gradually reduce the number of credit cards, keep one for urgent use, and display the balance of the savings account for each money spent to remind yourself how "poor" you are; 5. If you can bring your own food or go to the canteen to eat, try not to order takeout; 6. When you frequently want to eat a big meal, quickly find something to eat to fill your stomach, so that you don't have a sense of hunger; 7. Learn to use multiple things and reduce the purchase of items with very low usage; <>

<> my parents give me money every month and tell me to save it, but I don't save it, what should I do?

Dear, I'm glad to answer your <>

What your parents mean is that you know how hard it is to make money. Saving money is not very painful, and it is not noisy to sacrifice your happiness to obtain, but to tend to rational consumption little by little, and cherish your happiness when you consume! <>

<> expansion: ways to save money: 1. Reduce the frequency of live broadcast consumption and pay attention to the live broadcast room, and only keep the cheap ones that are just needed; 2. Clean up your own wardrobe in the sedan car, trade in the old for new consumption, unless you like it super much, don't buy new clothes and bags; 3. Don't buy so many spare items, because you will continue to buy them when the inventory is full; 4. Gradually reduce the number of credit cards, keep a fan that you can regret when you need it, and show the balance of your savings account every time you spend money to remind yourself how "poor" you are; 5. If you can bring your own food or go to the canteen to eat, try not to order takeout; 6. When you frequently want to eat a big meal, quickly find something to eat to fill your stomach, so that you don't have a sense of hunger; 7. Learn to use one thing for multiple purposes, and reduce the purchase of bitong products with very low usage; <>

Summary. In fact, your parents give you money to save it, to put it bluntly, they just want you to save some money and you can use it when you encounter major events in the future, so that you will not be poor and white, you have used it all, it must hurt their hearts, if you can't control your consumption psychology, you can tell your parents that you don't need to give you money in the future, you give them back every month, let them help you save, I believe your parents will be very pleased.

Hello, dear, I'm honored to answer for you! [flower socks good] <>

Mom and Dad give me money every month to save but I didn't save it, you can tell the truth, if you use the money and silver in the right place, you can talk to your dad directly, I believe Dad will definitely understand you, if you use the wrong place, you can also have a showdown with Dad, otherwise you will be more embarrassed after your parents find out.

In fact, your parents give you money to save to put it bluntly, they just want you to save some money and you can use it when you encounter major events in the future, so that you will not be poor and poor, you have used it all, it must hurt their palms, if you can't control your consumption psychology, you can tell your parents that you don't have to give you money in the future, you give them back every month, let him think Li Roll helps you save, I believe my parents will be very pleased.

Parents were able to save money because they had lived through an era of material scarcity. In the past, due to the backward economic conditions of the country, industrial production did not have the height of modernization, and it was relatively inconvenient to eat, wear, and use, so the standard of living was limited. Therefore, in order to ensure that their offspring can live a better life, parents must have strict saving habits and financial management concepts in their lives, and be able to abide by financial discipline, so that they can show it in practice.

First of all, in the era when parents grew up, people often did it themselves. Most of the items needed in life need to be made by hand, sewing clothes, shoes, growing vegetables, raising chickens, etc. This self-sufficient lifestyle makes people cherish things more in their lives, pay more attention to the life and life cycle of items, and will not be easily eliminated or replaced.

In this way, you can save a lot of living expenses, and it is relatively easier to grasp your financial situation.

Secondly, in those days, the development of the financial market was still very limited, and people's financial management methods were relatively simple, mainly deposits and investment in real estate. People can get a fixed interest when they deposit their money in the bank, instead of investing it in the high-risk financial markets, so the investment risk is greatly reduced. At the same time, because the value of the house is relatively more stable, there will not be many unstable investment situations, making real estate a relatively reliable investment option.

After the last few rocks, parents also have their own unique financial concepts, financial habits and consumption concepts. They tend to have strict self-requirements, do not enjoy life excessively, and prefer to make money more effective. They can be budget-conscious, know how to refuse unnecessary material consumption, and are more willing to use the spirit of thrift to take control of their finances and make them more valuable.

To sum up, parents can save money because they have cultivated thrifty living habits and financial awareness in the era of material scarcity, and have achieved success in practice, so as to achieve a good financial state. The excellent qualities they embody in life are also worthy of our inheritance from generation to generation.

To be honest, I can't really help you

But I can be sure that there is a deep estrangement between you and your father, and it is precisely because of his father's incomprehension since childhood that you want to get ahead in everything, so you are under pressure at work...

Stress certainly makes people progress, but after all, you are young, impulsive, and lack of experience in dealing with things, and you may lack the means to deal with this pressure, so you have been unsatisfactory at work, and your father's incomprehension has led to your obsessive-compulsive disorder

I'm guessing from your description, but people with OCD have a desire to vent and the urge to show others

The only thing I can do is tell you how to soothe yourself

1. When you can't change something, you can do something that you feel comfortable to alleviate.

2. Spend more time with warm, positive people around you

3. Read more books It's normal to be young, lack of experience, and unsatisfactory work. But don't be discouraged, what kind of person you want to be, just do it boldly Unsatisfactory is only temporary, it is the accumulation of experience!

4. If you can, it's best to build a bridge of communication with your father, father and son have no hatred, only two generations between each other don't understand. So learn to communicate with your father

Have a nice day!