I m engaged and I m happy, but I wonder if that s how love started ?

Is it hard to say that your love started on the day you got engaged? Wishing you happiness! Happy forever!

Learn to miss love in marriage, bless you! ~

Hehe, it should be the beginning of marriage.

If you knew each other before, it was when you loved each other before.

If you are determined, but you are not in love, it is not the beginning of love.

Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, love will die without burial!

Marriage also needs romance. But romance often turns into waste after marriage.

As the saying goes: only desperate people choose to get married!

Didn't you have any love before? That's how to get engaged .Dizzy.

I wish you happiness for the rest of your life.

Then you can taste it yourself!

I don't agree with the statement of the 9th floor, how can a person who chooses to get married be desperate? I think married life is just a little less romantic and a little more things to worry about, but family harmony is also happiness, and living a happy life is happiness.

Now is the first time you have entered your life, and there is still a long way to go, so hard to say that you know now that the two of you will love each other for the rest of your life? Are there no setbacks? No, the road will be more bitter in the future

You have stepped into the grave of love!

Shouldn't it be now, aren't you in love before you get engaged?

You know that your wife is not educated, but you still marry her? What was it for? Marriage is a very sacred thing, you actually use it as a child's play, and now that you are a person with children, you have to consider not love, but family affection.

There are more and more single-parent families nowadays. The damage to children is really too great. Didn't you ever love your wife?

When you're courting her. Life in the world, in just a few decades, the Chinese population is billions, so we can't like just one person. It's not that we like a lot of people and we have to be together.

Because, now is not antiquity. You are not an emperor either. What you have to do now is "responsibility".

Take responsibility for what you do, or you will regret it in the future.

What kind of person do you think she is? Do you think she will accept your child with your current wife?

Let's talk to your wife, maybe she doesn't have a common topic with you.

Make your own decisions, and taste the bitter fruits yourself.

All I can say is that you can choose the following.

1 decisively divorce your wife and pursue your so-called love, at least I respect you for daring to be 2 and never get along with the girl you like, and in the future you will do the same for other women you like, and you will be willing to take on your responsibilities as a husband and father.

The kind of man I hate the most is that I keep saying that I want to be responsible for the family and children, but I can't control myself, in the end, the responsibility is actually not fulfilled, and I don't pursue my so-called love, and I live very painfully all day long, and even feel good about myself and think that I am a responsible man, or even a love saint! This kind of man is too much for you to look down on!!

First of all, you have to talk about it, make your wife realize the seriousness of the matter, continue to do this, you can't get over it, and then think about what you plan to do in the future, whether to continue to get along or get divorced.

Be sure to tolerate each other's mistakes, extramarital affairs kill people,

First of all, when you were with your wife, you must have found that she had merit. If you are married and have children, you have to take responsibility first, and you still want to fall in love and fall in love, which means that you are not mature enough. You have to think more about your wife's advantages, if you keep grasping her shortcomings and magnifying them infinitely, it will definitely be bad.

Another self-examination is whether there is something wrong with what you have done, and if you have it, you will change it, and if you don't, you will be encouraged. As for you like a girl again, it means that there is something wrong with your own thinking, since you feel that it is impossible, you should let go of your thoughts, some words cannot be taken back, and once you do some things, there is no turning back. For the sake of children, you should also be like a gentleman, more tolerant, it is not easy to be a man, especially when you meet this kind of wife, it is recommended to go on the right path, don't go crooked.

Divorce, desperate to love, that is the next decision, do you have the courage and ability to face everything at that time? Not necessarily. So it's not easy for men, this is cultivation.

After getting married, it is a responsibility, think more about the children, think about the children, it is not impossible to find a good solution without hurting the children and the wife, everyone has the right to pursue happiness.

This is a matter of principle. If you can't accept that your man can't fight for you, you should leave him.

How tired, why bother. I am looking for a quilt.

If you are like him, hesitate and hope that the day of sin is yet to come.

Someone has to make the decision, otherwise we will be unlucky.

Think about it! Getting married is a big deal! Divorce is a bigger thing than the sky!

Getting married for the sake of getting married Is this the love you want This is not the love I want The love I want is the marriage with love Not a vague marriage.

Married for married, yes, that's what I wanted.

There is a kind of deep love, which has nothing to do with husband and wife, but is always concerned.

It's a heart, a deep concern for another heart, and when you're lonely, you turn your heart upside down;

This feeling will be sweeter than honey and more beautiful than flowers, because you remember the happiness you once had, and your face is full of happiness!

This kind of deep concern is the most distant thought, but also emotional sustenance, this kind of deep love, it is not a husband and wife relationship, but it is better than the ordinary husband and wife feelings.

It is not only the companionship of the soul, but also the unforgettable warmth, but also the interdependence on the road of life.

Since then, in each other's lives, there has been more missing, more care and concern.

I answered similar questions in the autumn and winter of last year, and enthusiastic netizens answered them with me. Just now I called my stupidest girlfriend ** and said I was getting married... Last year, I was the scorer with her, and I suddenly felt so proud.

Your parents do have a problem with their character, like you said. At the beginning, they didn't let you continue to study, beat and scolded the children, and couldn't educate, which was indeed their problem.

But your conduct is really no different from theirs. You are an adult, your parents have no obligation to continue to support you, it is you who are married, you should have taken out everything you could, and then if it is not enough, if your parents are willing to help you, you have to be grateful, not complain.

Life in different families is indeed very different, but it is by no means a lifetime. My father and his three brothers, one from a rural family, can now be said to be very different, and many of my relatives are like this.

So young man, it's easy to complain about others and society, but you can never solve the problem, find the reason from yourself and change yourself is the right way.

Since you are going to get married, let yourself have a good attitude, no matter what, a happy marriage is to have confidence, if you are not married and you do not have the mentality to live a happy life, it is better not to get married, saving both people pain. Good luck.

Love is the process, marriage is the result, then it depends on whether you value the process or the result.

He and I used to love each other, to the year I should get married, we were forced to break up, but also separated, when I told him that I was going to get married, he didn't believe it, until our friends told him, he didn't believe it, he called ** to me, don't get married and wait for me to go back, I said it's too late, I gave you a lot of time before, but you didn't respond, I have promised my parents, I will get married tomorrow, even if I love you again, I won't be because you don't care about your parents' face in front of relatives and friends, we're just like that, let's have a good time in the future, that's how we end.

I want to tell you that the final result is up to you, and my decision is not necessarily right, think carefully before you agree to another person, and once you have made a decision, don't think about anything.

1.You have to decide who you like the most in your heart, and whether he can bring you the life you want to live, and whether you are satisfied with this life.

2.In view of why he is engaged to you, he is indifferent, 1) he has given up (2) he still likes you, but he can't help it, maybe he is not an impulsive person, he is relatively slow, so he can only bear it silently.

3.So I think it's that is, in today's life, happiness is something that two people strive for, like for example, when you are at the engagement ceremony, a boy suddenly appears and takes you away on the spot, you will feel very emotional in the TV series, and when it comes to real life, it will have a series of troubles, first of all, your parents can't let you go, because your engagement makes both parents lose face, even if you marry the boy in the future, your parents will block it, because TV is a dramatic thing, not suitable for scene reproduction. So I advise you, after thinking it through, before making a decision.

You have to know that you said that he loves you very much, do you think so yourself, or did he say it, and when did he say it, such as breaking up and not giving up, or saying it when you were in love.

Love and career, they are not the relationship between fish and bear's paw, you can't bear to give up any of them, right? First of all, if she really loves you, she will not let you give up her career, on the contrary, she will do her best to help you work hard in your career, don't give up to anyone easily! To remember"Husband and wife are concentric, and their strength is broken"There's nothing impossible!

Even if there are great difficulties ahead, we should at least try it, and even if we fail, we will not have regrets, because we have worked hard for it, and we have a clear conscience! If it really comes to that time, you don't have to be sad, because you have passed the test of life and death, and you have not given up or betrayed each other, and you have obtained the most precious thing in the world"True love"Finish! You say not?