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I will still believe it, because two people divorce, maybe just because it is not suitable, but there are still feelings, so they will continue to look for the right person.
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I don't believe it, because the person I trust the most and the marriage I trust the most have been betrayed, how can I believe in feelings anymore.
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Divorce is just meeting the wrong person, and the right person in the end always appears at the end, so of course choose to believe in feelings.
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I definitely don't believe it anymore, after all, a woman's best years have been sacrificed to marriage, how can she believe in ethereal love again.
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I think I will believe in feelings, because feelings are very pure, and divorce is completely a matter of living habits.
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I think it's still very happy to be a fool who believes in love, and I'm willing to continue to believe in love, otherwise who else can I trust, do I want to die alone?
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I will always believe in feelings, even if I am deceived, because the existence of feelings is the meaning of our existence.
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No, I think divorce is a lifelong pain for a woman, and it can't be healed.
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Well, always believe! It's okay if it's not your own. It's even better if it's your own.
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It should be difficult for a person who has experienced betrayal to entrust his whole life by believing in a relationship.
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I guess I will never do it again, because I have already given my heart and soul once, but I have been betrayed, how can I continue to be stupid.
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No, the world is as black as a crow.
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My heart is broken, how can there be love. I won't love it if I kill it.
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If it's an ex-wife, I don't believe it, I'm looking for a love that belongs to me, as long as you pay, there will always be a return.
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I'd believe it because the worst scumbag in the world was found by me in a short-term marriage and no children.
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Divorced, you can still believe in love, first of all, love is based on the level of mutual attraction, as long as two people attract each other, there will be love, which has nothing to do with whether or not to divorce.
It is impossible for a person to love only one person in his life, and at different ages in his life, he will fall in love with someone who is not the same in the world. Therefore, after divorce, women can also pursue the love they want, and it is not only women who are not married can pursue it.
After all, the failure of marriage is not caused by love, but the person chosen is not the ideal appearance, and the failure of marriage with a person does not mean that love is also a failure, and many people are only not suitable for living together.
Love needs to be mutually attracted, and marriage is better than complementary, which is why many like-minded couples end up not coming together. Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, and this is because after marriage, love becomes simpler and more insignificant. The relationship between husband and wife slowly turned into dependence, and love slowly turned into family affection.
Therefore, divorce is not because love is gone, but because human nature is too complicated, and after living a life, you will slowly stop feeling the good side of the other party, and only see the shortcomings of the other party, so as to slowly show the greedy side of human nature, no longer satisfied, and eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
Love is different, whether you are married or not, or if you have experienced the failure of love, love is there, impartial, whether you can feel it depends on the feelings of the two people in it. Love is a very delicate thing, you feel it, it is always there, you feel that it is no more, it disappears without a trace.
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How likely are you to be happy after a divorce?
After the divorce, you can still find your own happiness, and when you meet the person you love, you must also work hard to grasp it, fight for the collapse and repentance, and don't give up the second marriage because the first love failed and the marriage failed.
When you are in love, you will respond to each other's needs. Because during the love period, all you see is the other party's advantages, and after the love is over, it is the process of accepting the other party's shortcomings, which needs to be tolerated.
Looking at the world, how can there be a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, with the calmness and calmness of the hills and valleys in the chest, and the ability to make trade-offs will balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.
We always marry the good of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the bad of a person.
One: One is quietly determined to carry love.
It's lucky to get married for love!
When you get into marriage, you will understand that if there is no love, you will live a miserable life.
If you think about it, two people who are not related by blood, whether male or female, want to establish a long-term and stable relationship, except through love, there seems to be no other way.
If the purpose of your marriage is to say that I don't love you in the first place, I got married when I should have gotten married.
At that time, I really didn't know if you delayed others, or if you hurt yourself.
Never marry for the sake of getting married, take responsibility for yourself and your marriage partner.
At any time, love should be the premise of marriage, don't enter marriage without love, otherwise when you meet love after getting married, you may be upset.
If it's not suitable, it's the best, there are no two people who are born right, they are two people who run in and grow together, and you don't even want to run in with someone you don't love.
Two: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.
What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.
Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.
I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.
When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.
However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different.
All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.
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2018 was a special year for me.
During this year, I got divorced. When I came out of my marriage, I was at a loss, but more of a relief. In the past few years of marriage, I have been revolving around my ex-husband. Sadly, it didn't get his love for me. On the contrary, he disliked me more and more.
He was a very short-tempered man. Before he had children, he occasionally got angry. We've had fights before, and I've cried a few times about it. But after giving birth, he went even more too far with me. I am often murdered, and I am very angry at a little thing.
I don't like to quarrel, I haven't had a fight with anyone since I was a child. But he likes to quarrel, and if he doesn't quarrel for a day, he feels uncomfortable.
I bore him a baby, but he never cared about me. Because of the child, he woke me up in the middle of the night. I'm afraid I'll rest a little longer.
We didn't get along, and one time he got angry with me over a little thing, and I left him.
I went back to my parents' house, but he didn't persuade me to go back, and he didn't come to pick me up.
We have been in a stalemate for more than half a year. Finally I understood. He doesn't love me anymore, and continuing to do so will only hurt himself more. So I divorced him.
After the divorce, I started living a single life. The first thing I did was **. After a few years of marriage, I didn't pay attention to my figure, I did gain a lot of weight, looking at myself in the mirror, I decided.
After a few months, I lost quite a bit. It turned out that I couldn't buy clothes because I was fat, but now I can buy them.
I went to learn makeup again, and I had never worn makeup before. I found that after putting on makeup, I was more energetic. I finally realized that a woman should pay attention to her appearance.
I've met two or three boys in the course of a year. We chatted for a while, and when we met, we found out that it wasn't my type of person.
Although I have been divorced once and have been hurt in love, I still believe in love. I'm not immersed in the past, and I've put it down to write these instructions.
I hope that for the rest of my life, I will be happy with the person who makes me laugh, not with the person who makes me cry.
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Those who divorce also go to love, and science shows that the survival period of a love is only 2 and a half years. Therefore, it should be said that it is slightly reasonable to say that I don't believe in marriage anymore. There is a difference between an imaginary marriage and a real marriage, and disappointment and disillusionment are important triggers for divorce.
1.Imaginary marriage: After getting married, the girl finally has something to rely on.
I'm angry, and he'll coax me. I'm lonely, and he'll be with me. When I'm troubled, he listens to me.
I don't work, he can support me. Reality: Everyone is an individual in a relationship.
Husbands and wives, fathers and sons, brothers and sisters, and friends are all the same. For example, when you encounter troubles, he happens to be at work, and you can't stop talking. This will make the mood worse for both parties.
The best choice is to digest yourself first when you encounter troubles, and wait until the other party is in the mood to sometimes send Hashikima to listen to you, and then you will talk. You have to understand a truth, even if two people grow old together, one of them will die first, and the remaining one will still have to face the dust and live alone. 2.
Imaginary marriage: After getting married, have children as soon as possible. It's good to be born early, anyway, it's all going to be born.
Reality: If you and your significant other are not ready to have children, please do not rush to have children for the sake of parents' opinions, and do not rush to get pregnant because of age. Please believe that the arrival of a new life is definitely the biggest event in life!
It's not as simple as adding a pair of chopsticks. Ask yourself, even if you don't have money. Can the guarantee of strength also educate him to be a good person?
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I believe that marriage and love are personal choices, but the influence of the general environment on the relationship does exist. Although there are some challenges and difficulties in the middle of modern society, there are still many people who have successfully established healthy and happy marriages and love relationships. Here are some points to consider:
1.Meaning of Marriage and Love: Marriage and love are important emotional and social relationships in human life that can bring opportunities to support each other, care for each other, and grow together. For many people, marriage and love are important pathways to happiness and fulfillment.
2.Self-growth and understanding: Before entering into a marriage and love relationship, it is important to understand your own values, needs, and goals. Through personal growth and introspection, it is possible to better choose the right partner and build a strong relationship with them.
3.Communication and Tolerance: Successful marriage and love building requires good communication and tolerance. Learning how to communicate effectively, understand and respect each other's differences is key to maintaining relationships. Constant communication promotes understanding and problem-solving, enhancing emotional connections.
4.Balance between reality and ideals: While the ideal marriage and love may not be perfect, a positive and healthy relationship can be created through the efforts and commitment of both parties. It is important to pay attention to the challenges and difficulties of the real world and to make continuous efforts to improve and develop relationships.
Most importantly, everyone has different experiences, values, and needs, and attitudes towards marriage and love will be different. It is important to make decisions based on your own circumstances and values and work together with your partner to build a stable, healthy and happy relationship. If you have any concerns or confusion, consider counseling with a professional marriage and family counsellor who can provide more specific advice and guidance.
Of course, there are a few other aspects to consider:
5.Self-growth and independence: Before entering into a marriage and love relationship, it is important to cultivate one's own independence and self-growth. Developing your hobbies, pursuing personal goals, and fulfilling your self-worth can make you more fulfilling and fulfilled in your relationship.
6.Know and choose others: When choosing a partner, try to understand the other person's personality, values, interests, and goals as much as possible. Finding a partner who matches you can increase the stability and harmony of your relationship.
7.Seek support and help: Whether in a marriage or a love relationship, there are various challenges and difficulties.
Don't be afraid to seek professional help and support when needed, such as a marriage counselor, counsellor or relationship specialist, who can provide guidance and solutions.
8.Maintain a balanced and healthy life: In addition to focusing on marriage and love relationships, you should also pay attention to your own personal health and happiness.
Maintaining a work-life balance, developing good self-care habits, and keeping in touch with friends and family can provide better support and stability in relationships.
The bottom line is that everyone's situation and needs are unique, so whether you choose it or not, the key is to respect your decision and make the one that's right for you.
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A divorced woman does not believe in love, she believes that money is more affordable than love. This is also why girls will firmly grasp the economic power in their hands after marriage.
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If you are divorced, you still believe in love, and don't be in a hurry to find everything to go with the flow, and be careful of those who don't mind using posture to quarrel with you to live together, and then because you are a scumbag who is married for the second time.
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