I feel that everyone is especially hypocritical and selfish, including good friends

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Life is like a dream, the years are ruthless, and I suddenly look back and realize that life is a kind of mood, whether it is poor, rich, gained, lost, all of which are fleeting. Think about it, no matter yesterday or today, it is a good day to be able to suddenly open up, regardless of family, friendship, love, and it is a good mood to cherish forever. I remember a friend said; Don't forget what you once had, cherish what you have gained more, don't give up what belongs to you, don't remember what you have lost, and work hard to get what you want.

    When you are tired, you will put your heart on the shore, if you are wrong, you will not regret it, you will know how to enjoy life when you are satisfied, you will understand that you are strong when you are hurt, there are always stars with wind, there is always a gorgeous dusk, there is always a night of meteors, and the meeting is so wonderful. Face life with a quiet heart, and face clumsy with a tenacious heart. Take care of yourself, don't hurt yourself, and make yourself happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's a psychological low ebb, I feel like a hedgehog, and it's not cool to look at anyone, it's all very fake.

    Try to approve of others, to smile, to compliment, to be tolerant.

    When you notice that everyone around you has changed, you have changed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Me too....Seeing that everyone hates fake and wants to die, why are you not selfish enough and ruthless enough, is it better for people to talk and be bullied? Ay! Human nature is inherently evil....Sad!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's best to have friends who can help, it's normal not to help, learn to be tolerant, learn not to rely on anyone, and let him be hypocritical!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Agree downstairs. Because it's just a superficial friend, the kind of friend who is only called a general friend, not a friend who is not a heart-to-heart friend, in this case, you are also just a general friend to him, and there can be a lot of general friends, but a few sincere friends are good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You've said it all, just friends on the surface

    So hypocrisy is normal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People have two sides, outside and inside, making friends in general, making friends who are not necessarily sincere, one inside and one outside, and there are few true friends.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, but to varying degrees.

    Because the essence of human beings is to have seven emotions and six desires, they will definitely exist to a greater or lesser extent.

    According to the depth of each person's psychological level, his judgment and performance of external things are determined.

    If you find that you have it, you can face it up to it, because you have to understand that this is an absolutely natural thing.

    But you can examine whether your selfishness and hypocrisy have reached an unhealthy or sub-healthy level through how you behave in the outside world. If this emotion has reached an abnormal level, you can correct it by adjusting your mentality, mood and behavior.

    However, you must understand that selfishness and hypocrisy are natural things, and as long as you establish this right mindset and a mindset of humility and progress, everything will not be difficult.

    Hope you are happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This world is full of deception and selfishness, everyone is pretending, some people are pretending to hurt others, some people are pretending to be so that others will not hurt, everyone is selfish, that belongs to nature, but the difference between being a little more selfish and a little less.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Selfishness and hypocrisy may have become synonymous with bad people, but is everyone like that?

    I don't think so.

    There are still sincere people in the world, and you don't have to think so badly of everyone in the world.

    Pay attention to everything, be selfish, for your own well; It's okay to disguise it so you don't hurt yourself, or if you don't hurt others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone loves themselves too much, because only they are the most sincere to themselves, so they have to protect themselves, and it is because of this that they are selfish.

    There's nothing wrong with protecting yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, everyone has it.

    The hypocrisy side is only shown to varying degrees.

    Because people want to survive in society, there is competition in order to survive, and in the competition there is a connection to the ability of the individual, and some hypocrisy is because of the means used to achieve certain ends.

    Sometimes you have to be hypocritical on certain occasions, and you should understand the truth that the law of the jungle is the strongest!

    Some friends are worthy of your heart's work for him, and some are just ordinary friends or can only be regarded as superficial friends, so hypocrisy is only for those who need to be hypocritical to them, not in front of true friends.

    We have to admit :

    Sometimes just getting to know a hypocritical person will leave you with a good impression.

    However, after a long time, as soon as the veil of hypocrisy is lifted, there will naturally be no good imprint in the bottom of one's heart.

    Hope you can adopt, thanks!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not hypocrisy. It's reality. It's yourself who is hypocritical. Because I'm always thinking. I'm so good to him.

    Why did he do this to me?

    So if you are realistic. I don't think others are being hypocritical.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, it doesn't mean that all of them are like this, everyone will form a unique personality because of their environment, so each zodiac sign will have a scumbag in it, and unfortunately we just happened to meet it.

    The lion's vanity is heavier, and sometimes there will even be inconsistencies between the inside and the outside, especially for face, if there is a contradiction, even if he finds that he is wrong, he will hold on to the end.

    Libra cares more about peace and ease in ruined life, and they really care about places that they don't like to quarrel with. Whenever there is a contradiction, they will bear the brunt of it and then convince you in a reasonable way.

    Scorpios just care about their own feelings and don't trust others. Therefore, always maintain vigilance against the people around him, and the scorpion in this state is indeed very disgusting.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My friend is a Capricorn, selfish, one thing in front of people and one thing behind the other, and he also sees people who don't answer the family, and often makes small moves behind his back.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, Leo people are duplicitous, what do Leos care about the most when they do things? It is their own face, they want to be the boss in the eyes of everyone, and the feeling of worship does not stop, this is what they want to see the most. Leos say "I'm all for your good" in everything, in fact, when faced with their face, they will decisively choose to save their own face, and you have become insignificant at all, but they like to say that.

    obviously only cares about his own feelings, but he wants to say that it is for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Friends need to echo each other and be suitable. Friendship is also not to be forced.

    It is necessary to have the same life goals and plans. At least it should be similar to your goals and strengths, and it should have the effect of motivating each other. The friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, and he does not do something purely for the sake of the end. The discussion of work and study is beneficial to one's body and mind.

    If, your friend is hypocritical, it will make you feel miserable. Because, you want to be friends with him and echo each other. However, because of the incompatibility of the personality, you have to force yourself to do something that you don't want to do.

    It's like going against common sense, and it won't be agreed. It's easy for you to break a tree crookedly, but can you guarantee that you won't regret it? Is this what you want?!

    Friends are hypocritical to you and will make you feel resentful. Then choose the right way to stay away from him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First, break off friendship, because there is a good saying, different ways do not conspire with each other. Two, as I don't know, I agree with the first one, but it's still important to think about yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    See if he's hypocritical to you or to others.

    If it's hypocritical to you, it's good to slowly distance yourself from it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because where there are people, there is selfishness. It's instinct, and it's already there that instinct has been there since the day someone has been, and I guess that's the price.

    It's just that selfishness and hypocrisy are better for some people to control themselves, and some people are undoubtedly exposed.

    In fact, we are all selfish, but not necessarily selfish are bad, your selfishness towards your lover may make you do a lot of things to love her, when your family is bullied, your selfishness to your family will make you stand up, as for hypocrisy, hehe, isn't society a big melting pot of hypocrisy, sometimes a little hypocrisy is not a very excessive thing, everything is divided into two sides, isn't it, and some selfish and hypocritical people do a lot of great things, I am also a selfish person, But I'm willing to open up my heart for you, isn't this also a thing that is done for you? It's not great, there are still small dedications, I don't want to score, I don't want experience, I just hope to help you, :)

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