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So far, like a cup of tea, the entrance is refreshing, light and mellow, isn't it beautiful. What's the matter, it's not bad to be a little presumptuous once in a while. It's just, please stop here, just don't spoil this beauty, hehe.

I believe you can grasp it, and you need to be reminded that this is a happy thing in life, don't bother yourself anymore.

Hehe, I want to ask you, is that girl your first love? First love has a profound impact on a boy. And the person you first fell in love with may be deeply imprinted in your brain, even if you think you will forget her forever, but things about her may inadvertently enter the deepest part of your memory.

There are a few more things I want to ask you, why did you break up with your ex-girlfriend? quarrelsome, not suitable, or something else. You can, and can face her again, and prove that you have a deep friendship with her, do you think she is more suitable to be your good friend and break up with her?

If so, your breakup must be simple and peaceful. Another question is, why are you in a relationship with your current girlfriend again, if you think that you should have the experience of falling in love in college life, or that you are really lonely, then I want to say that this girl (your current girlfriend) may be just a girlfriend under your self-suggestion, not the person you really love. Reading this, you may want to contradict me by saying:

I love my girlfriend and have a good relationship with her", I want to say, could it be that you yourself imply that you are her boyfriend, and you should show it"Love"What about her behavior? Well, I remembered a sentence that my classmate once said, liking someone doesn't necessarily mean being together. Perhaps, your ex-girlfriend is the one you really like, and you should organize your thoughts.

The human brain has a mechanism that when you really like someone, any other short-term external factors (such as your ex-girlfriend, or a beautiful woman) will not affect your love for your current girlfriend! You might as well take out two pieces of paper and list what you admire about these two people, compare them, and face your true heart. Actually, I don't recommend that you fall in love during college, thinking that you are not old enough, you don't have time, and you are easy to fulfill your responsibilities.

You probably want to show your excellence in front of the people you have pursued! Because she didn't admit you before.

It's also possible, because sometimes people's ideas are really changeable and weird. Perhaps, that girl has been hidden deep in your heart, and you think you have long forgotten her, but in fact, she has been staying in your heart as the most beautiful shadow. It's not good to say much about whether to go or give up as a bystander, it depends on your own heart, which one you love.

Moreover, the key is, whether that girl really likes you, if not, it means that you are in unrequited love again, and the ending will not be too good

Since it hurts you so deeply, can we still be together? Will you forget that injury? If it were me, I wouldn't have forgotten it, and I would never have forgotten it.

Even if you love him very much, so what, you can tolerate him for the first time, but can you guarantee that he will not have a second time? I suggest you continue to choose to forget, so that it hurts a little less.

Learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

There is nothing wrong with loving someone.

Forgetting is not the best approach.

A person who has loved with his heart will never be forgotten.

You can keep that good in your heart.

If she's going to be unhappy because of your insistence.

Don't show it in reality.

Because that would tie you up.

It will also tie her up.

When someone who loves you comes along, you're going to slowly forget.

Be sure to know what you want.

Think about it.

In the meantime, have a good talk with him. Determine your position.

Think about it and don't let yourself regret it.

If that's the case, you can also love him in another way, such as silently blessing him.

You know that there is still a long way to go, and you should find a more suitable one.

And in fact, almost everyone goes through this.

Most of them will have a breakup experience.

Remember that there is a saying that the number of times you fall in love is the number of breakups minus one.

Look at the creation of the handle. If you are lucky, you may experience a very romantic love with a happy ending, and then you may be friends with this first person, or continue, so that you will know how to love and learn to be loved in the future.

If you meet someone you shouldn't love, or if both parties or one party don't know how to love, the ending is very bad, but after this, you must not be slumped, you must know that the road is still very long, and you will meet the right one.

At the same time, I want to tell you that you must cherish what you have and never give up on yourself and the world no matter what.

Know what you want.

And you have to understand! Any setbacks or obstacles can be a good experience for you to get to know yourself again.

Be sure not to be impulsive and not to regret yourself.

I wish you happiness".

If. This love does not belong to you, so please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, but in fact it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future. Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss.

The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and I always feel that I have lost the meaning of life. However, a friend told me

You have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks? We are all ordinary Hongchen men and women, unable to earn the love network of love and hate, and unable to escape the whirlpool of love and being loved.

After the heartbreak and sadness, there is endless loneliness. Lonely? Perhaps.

But savoring the chic after loneliness, thinking about the happiness other than him, thinking about no longer having to rack your brains to guess his mind, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little more relaxed? Is it really let go? I can face him calmly, even though there is a faint indescribable sourness in my heart, but I no longer cry, crying because a person's memory is in my heart, and I will not disperse it no matter what.

There was such a song. Are you afraid of loving me? 》：

Are you afraid of loving me, have you forgotten your tears? The heart is waiting for the rain to fall, and the tears have reached the cheeks; Are you afraid of loving me, isn't your heart dead? One step is nothing more than a cliff.

I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?" "The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid.

The heart full of holes is so fragile that it can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let you go, and let myself have a way to live, condensing you into a painting, deeply engraved in my mind, looking, thinking, but I will no longer be the person in the painting. You can better appreciate the beauty of the painting when you are outside the painting, isn't it? Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely:

Goodbye, cherish! Turn your head and walk away freely, letting the back be deeply engraved in your mind. When you can recall the moments of your past with a relieved mind, you can appreciate the beauty of letting go.

God let me meet you at the wrong time, and I cried; However, God is fair. Would you cry if, he asked me to leave you at the right time?

In fact. Loving someone doesn't have to be about getting her. If you really love her, learn to respect her.

Love is inherently changeable, and whether it can go to the end depends on the efforts of both parties. Love may be a moment, for a while, and after that process, you will not love, and you may be tired at the time, but the result is not satisfactory. The best decision is to cherish the present.

You have to take the initiative among yourself.

Ask him directly, do you want to be an ordinary friend, or do you want to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, if you want to be an ordinary friend, so be it, if you want to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, you tell him to work hard, to buy flowers, to buy flowers, to do something.

If you want to be together, don't take it too seriously, or just confess that I like you, if you don't get engaged to me, I'll be engaged to someone else. If you want to be together, it is most important to let each other's families know the most important thing.

This man is either timid, or he doesn't even know what to tell you! I can't boast about that step! Provoke him with the method of agitation!

The result of the method is to make him understand that he can't live without you! Another way is to find someone who knows both of you well to do ideological work with him! Let him have to face this problem!

The last way is for you to have a showdown with him! This kind of male description doesn't like you enough! Don't!

He may not be able to express his feelings.

Such a man is not worthy of your love, he doesn't even have the courage to love someone, what can he do? If you really love him, find a friend you both know and ask him what he thinks.