How to pursue a gentle boy, how to become gentle with a boy

Pursuing a gentle boy, we have to chat with her often, talk about what is in our hearts, so that the boy will have a good impression of you, and you have a common language, after a long time, the relationship between the two people is close, then he will express his personal thoughts, and take the initiative to date you, watch movies, etc., for a long time, you may be together.

If you want to pursue a gentle boy, then you must first have more contact with him, chat more, and let him know you a little.

Then after a long time, you can still flirt with him and joke with him.

Since the other party is a gentle boy, then you have to be kind to the other party, take the initiative, and let him slowly become interested in you and like you.

Gentleness is a very important trait for a boy.

Of course, the gentleness we want to talk about today is definitely not a sissy, it is a habit of dealing with people, of course, it is a reflection of the boy's respect and humility to the girl.

Having said so much and being practical, what do you have to do to exude the gentle charm of a boy?

Let's take a look!

When talking to a girl, give an affirmation first.

People who are used to retorting other people's words are very annoying, and it's not just girls who are annoying. The art of language is vast and profound, and many times you may not understand what a person is saying, so you think you understand it and then refute it, which is actually very rude. Often, you will find that what others say is not what they say, but unfortunately, your bad temper and impatience give others a more impressive image than the opinions you express!

When talking to girls, remember to speak slowly.

Boys and girls have different ways of thinking, and if you have something to say, you can talk slowly to let others follow your train of thought or leave some time to change your thinking and improve the effectiveness of communication. Speaking too quickly is often counterproductive!

You can't assume that your views are correct.

There is a sentence in high school textbooks: "There is a precedence in hearing the Tao, and there is a specialization in the arts." Boys should pay attention to one point, many times their opinions are flawed, and when it is time to listen, they should pay attention to listen to the views of girls.

For example, there are often boys who think that girls like to wear makeup is very expensive, to be honest, what is the point of boys playing games and buying **? Empathy, don't look at the problem from one angle, you can often get more perspectives!

Don't be suspicious of girls.

Suspicion of girls is the greatest harm to girls, and no one wants others to doubt what they have said. When you start to doubt what a person is saying, your relationship stops there!

You can't be sarcastic about girls.

This is especially important. Being ridiculed is an embarrassing thing, no matter how good your relationship is, being ridiculed is still a very impolite thing, in short, remember to praise the advantages of girls when communicating with girls, even if there are really shortcomings, remember to remind them gently!

If you're a boy, do you decide to be a gentle guy when you see this? Or, you're lucky enough to have a gentle boyfriend!

First of all, you must have a strong desire to be a gentle boy so that you have the motivation to do it. Since you have asked this question, it means that you are very willing to change.

Second, the transformation from the bottom of the heart is the real transformation. Gentle boys, temper is very gentle, not impatient in case of trouble, this point is honed through the accumulation of knowledge, the baptism of social practice, interpersonal relations and so on.

The practical methods are as follows.

Second, often empathize. Look at the problem from the perspective of others, which will help us better understand what others are doing, so that when others do something wrong, we can be more tolerant of them, and we will not lose our temper so easily.

Tell you something superficial.

1. Have a soft expression, don't be fierce, don't be cold. Smile.

2. Attitude is friendly, don't be rude.

3. Etiquette.

4. Don't be in a hurry when you encounter something, use your brain more.

5. Be careful. 6. Think more about others.

7. Wearing gives people a clean and generous feeling.

That's enough. In fact, appearance is more important...

But you can cultivate it the day after tomorrow.

Be careful not to mess with the heat. Don't be "gentle" with others without restraint.

Protect those who care.

And then. Love to the depths, natural and gentle.

There are many ways to show tenderness, such as language, voice, and movements, which can be gentle, and looks can also give others a gentle feeling...

Be careful, you have to guess her thoughts to know what he wants, otherwise he will say that you are a straight man.

Gentleness is to kick people according to their fart, talk and choke each other to a dead end.

Pity and love, boys prefer to protect the weak and have machismo, so love is born of pity.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, I'm Mr. Wu, focusing on emotional issues, how boys become gentle, I think you should meet a particularly beautiful person, want to be very gentle to her, or you want to be very gentlemanly, loved by everyone, how do boys become gentle, I think from the mentality to change, become friendly and kind, improve their self-cultivation, gentle and elegant, after the mentality changes, slowly do more interesting things, the heart is full of joy, be a gentleman to girls, and be kind to parents, As time goes by, you will develop good habits and become more and more gentle, come on, I wish you success.

Don't identify with those who pretend to be cool and alternative, they are people who have nothing to do and find excuses to let themselves have nothing to do. The real cool is on the inside, and you have to have a strong heart. Have the faith that you will not be tormented and succumbed to the passage of time.

It's not because I'm in an ivory tower that I say I love the world, it's because I know it's dark, dirty, and ugly outside.

Love and live. Youth is so short, don't sigh old. Occasionally you can stop and rest, but don't crouch down and look around. When you've walked a path, remember not to look back.

1. Don't be in a hurry to talk to others, don't be too anxious to express your thoughts, and don't rush to speak, when others are finished, think for a few seconds, and then express it slowly. This is also the most basic etiquette, and it will also make a woman feel very soft. 2. When you get along with anyone with a smile, before you speak, or before you communicate, put your smile on your lips, and your whole face presents a very natural smile.

Those women with a smile on their lips will always give people a feeling of gentleness, softness, and tactfulness. If you want to learn to be gentle, remember, first learn to smile. 3. Understand everyone you communicate withNo matter whether you like each other or not, as long as you have the patience to communicate with each other, you must learn to understand each other.

In this way, you can be worthy of that gentle, soft, delicate word. Fourth, learn to listen patiently, a woman with a gentle personality will definitely be the woman who has the patience to listen to others. Generally, the people you talk to will treat you as a confidant, or as someone you can trust, except for those with ulterior motives.

For people who trust you, the look of your heart will be charming when you listen to them. 5. Use polite language as much as possible when speakingNo matter what you do for her, you will say thank you, and you will say goodbye before leaving. Such a woman, even if she has a bad figure and a beautiful face, we will feel that she is very soft and very willing to get close to such a woman.

6. Try to be gentle in tone, don't be rough and rude, don't pretend to be sassy when talking to others, but be as gentle as possible, don't be rude.

Tell you something superficial.

1. Have a soft expression, don't be fierce, don't be cold. Smile.

2. Attitude is friendly, don't be rude.

3. Etiquette.

4. Don't be in a hurry when you encounter something, use your brain more.

5. Be careful. 6. Think more about others.

7. Wearing gives people a clean and generous feeling.

That's enough. In fact, appearance is more important...

But you can cultivate it the day after tomorrow.

Be careful not to mess with the heat. Don't be "gentle" with others without restraint.

Protect those who care.

And then. Love to the depths, natural and gentle.

Girls must know how to deal with life and not always be too stubborn, but if it is due to personality, you can make yourself a little softer and not too sharp. I have always felt that "great wisdom and foolishness" is a very powerful realm, don't think that girls who pretend to be stupid and cute are hypocritical and pretend, they really know how to communicate with others softly, not full of thorns.

Gentleness is originally a kind of inner cultivation, and when your quality improves, people will be more polite, so it also looks gentle. Therefore, it is recommended that the landlord consider others more before encountering things, don't always be too stubborn, sometimes too stubborn will make you lose a lot, although your stubbornness is good in some aspects, but there will be a lot of unnecessary troubles in life. There is also a little more softening in speaking and doing things, don't be in a hurry, understand others, be careful with others, know how to be coquettish, know how to pretend to be stupid, have your own principles, and be stubborn when necessary.

1. Love what you love. Once a man falls in love with someone, he will unconsciously favor his preferences towards the person he loves. When you go out to eat, you order what your lover likes to eat, buy only what your lover likes to play, watch movies only watch what your lover loves, and leave everything you like behind.

2. Worry about what you are worried about. When you have troubles, as a boyfriend, he does not turn a blind eye, but sees that you are uncomfortable, he is more anxious than you, and actively thinks of ways for you, solves problems, comforts you, and relieves you.

3. Endure all your bad problems. Everyone is imperfect, maybe you are lazy, unhygienic, don't like to dress up, and have a bad temper, but there is such a man who is willing to endure everything about you, never dislikes you, and may say that you are annoying, but still eat your leftovers, wash your stinky clothes, put your cosmetics in order, and let you vent when you lose your temper, and don't return a word.

4. I'm afraid you'll be affected. Many people think that it is normal for a boyfriend to pick up and drop off his girlfriend to and from work, but if he doesn't have a heart that treats you gently, can he do it? Isn't he extremely tired from a day's work?

I'm afraid that you will be tired, afraid that you will have an accident on the road, and I am willing to meet you early, so there is a saying of pick-up.

1. Know how to take care of each other in small details, such as crossing the road to protect her, helping her pull a chair when eating, and tilting an umbrella towards her on a rainy day.

2. Every night when I fall asleep first, he will carefully put my head on his hand when he lies down, hold me in his arms, and touch me to make sure that my hands and feet are not cold, so that I can sleep with peace of mind. At that time, I was mostly confused, but that love couldn't have been safer and more comfortable.

3. He understands your fragility and takes care of it carefully.

4. After having a strong ability, you can still maintain a kind and humble heart.

5. Once, when I got up at night, it was very cold, and when I returned to the quilt, he hugged me in a daze, and I thought at that time, I can do without the whole world for him.

6. Always protect the girl in a woman's heart.

7. Respond to your vexatious troubles with a smile.

8. Kiss her forehead afterwards, hug hard when parting, and follow her favorite posture when holding hands.

9. Admit defeat. If you have such a gentle, careful, and powerful boyfriend or husband, even if you are making trouble unreasonably, please always guard his side, accompany each other, and grow old slowly.

Be cherished

First of all, it is stated that men are gentle! Treat the woman you like, you will think of everything about her, and you can take care of her with your own heart, which does not require money, because it is only a heart, but this heart is the most beautiful, the purest, and the most enviable thing!