Crush is not painful for you

For me, yes. I had a crush on my boyfriend, the kind that doesn't talk about anything. From not having a girlfriend to having a girlfriend, he never dared to say it.

I often hear him say how he and his girlfriend show affection, obviously feeling uncomfortable to death, but I can only pretend to be very happy to bless him, it can really be said that it is a kind of torment, falling in love with someone who shouldn't be loved.

Crush is actually wishful thinking and self-absorption, self-selling stupidity, love is not obtained by confession, love is a matter of eyes, you love him, unless you are a thief, knowing that your gap is not ordinarily big. Actually, it's good to be friends, if you are very introverted, and outsiders are not optimistic about you, then he will not be wary of you everywhere, so that you can also quietly approach her and slowly let her into her heart, which is why there is a couple that everyone is not optimistic about but has become a husband and wife.

Yes, having a crush on someone is painful, especially when the crush is talking to someone else, it is very uncomfortable in the heart, and you have to bear pressure and cause a burden on yourself.

I think the crush is not painful, on the contrary, sometimes it is very sweet, because I am more introverted, I am not good at expressing any ideas, at the age when the love first opened, I have always had a crush on her, sometimes I feel very sweet, although I regret that I did not confess to her at the beginning, but the past will eventually pass, and now I have my own family, my own life circle, even if it is a dusty memory.

You don't really fall in love, your lover's every move affects your nerves, and he doesn't know it at all, you have to endure the torture of your crush, and you have to look at your crush, talk and laugh with other people, and deceive yourself not to tell him that you can still be friends, saying that you can't even be friends, but your relationship is unequal from the beginning, he jokes without scruples, and you are careful to protect this friendship.

I have a crush on someone from 08 to now, almost 10 years, and I am still loyal to him, I have never had a good impression of other men, and the most I am disgusted and disgusted with other men, other men in my eyes, I still can't compare with him, but I don't feel pain, it's just because when I was young and restless, he met all the beautiful fantasies I had about the opposite sex at that time, so that in the next 10 years, I didn't meet the external conditions that could better meet the other half than him I wanted, so I think this is a mutual exchange, he meets all the external conditions I have for my other half, and it is fair that I give him only 10 years of my life. ‍‍

I have a crush on a boy who has a crush on me, but because of my lack of self-confidence, I never dare to face him, even every time he talks to me or approaches me, I try my best to avoid it, in fact, I just don't have confidence, but I ignore him there. In my opinion, he is a male god-level character, and I am at most an ugly duckling who will never turn into a swan. It's been two years, and I still like him, and some warm moments still pop up to this day, and then there is a burst of regret.

There are many people who have had a crush on me for so long, but I have always rejected it directly, and he is the only one I like. Now, only by trying to enrich yourself is good enough, can you raise your head confidently and elegantly in a corner of the world, and look at the person you want to watch.

When I have a crush on someone, I think of her face every morning and night when I open and close my eyes, and then wake up in my thoughts, or fall asleep in my thoughts. When you are young, you will care a lot about the person you have a crush, but after that time, who will have a crush on whom? After all, a crush is too painful.

A crush is a person who is put in the bottom of his heart, he can't ask for it, he can only have a crush, watch him make trouble, watch him laugh, and see that his life does not have a little figure of his own! You still have to smile and say that you are happy, but in fact, your heart is dripping blood.

Crush is the most uncomfortable thing in love! You often silently observe the person you like, see what changes he has, what he does, worry about him, and be very distressed! In fact, love has to be said to be more comfortable, even if you think you can't do it, you have to be bold to confess, even if it doesn't work, there are no regrets.

People who have a crush are really painful. Because she is too young and too jealous, she is the kind of person who does not lack a boyfriend, so when I see her holding hands with her boyfriend and hugging her, I feel uncomfortable. It felt like seeing my beloved childhood toy snatched away from me, even though she didn't belong to me at all.

Love is a problem of the century, and people with crushes have more concerns. Because of low self-esteem, I feel that I am not good enough, and the other party should not like me; felt that the other party did not have enough expression, and he did not dare to confess first, feeling that he was not reserved enough; I'm afraid that I will be rejected when I open my mouth, and in the end, I don't even have to be a friend.

In fact, the reason why love is sad and painful is not in the love itself, but in the fact that we need to respond, so pure crush will not be too hard, because there is no too much expectation, there is no expectation that love will come to your head, as long as you see each other every day, you will be satisfied.

However, most crushes are not like this, they are looking forward to and waiting for love to come every day; Waiting for the other party to confess first, so, a look or a word from the other party can make a person have a tsunami in his heart.

I can't solve the distress of these people, but I think a person who lives clearly and clearly in love should be happier.

For example, in love, what we are most entangled with and want to know the most is whether the other party loves us or not, so we try and observe in every way, but in the end we still don't know the point.

Actually, I would like to say that love that is not clearly expressed as an adult is an illusion. What is adult love? It's together! It is the barrier of time and space, whether poor or rich, I want to walk with you for the rest of my life.

If a person says he's had a crush on you for years, but never wanted to be with you, you'll think he's just telling you a joke.

So don't always ask someone if he loves you or not. You must have tried all sorts of things before. Those messages he didn't reply, the topics he didn't answer, and the appointments he didn't attend, he couldn't have rejected them more clearly.

If a person tells you good morning and good night, gives you breakfast, and gives you care, but only does not say "I love you", then you might as well wait and give him a deadline, after all, there is always a process from raw to mature between people and people.

But it's important to remember that every relationship has an expiration date, just like everything has an expiration date. A person who truly loves you must be eager to run to you, even if he feels that he is not good enough now, he must want to keep you first and tell you "I love you".

So those feelings of love that are not clearly expressed are all illusions. You may be just one, not the only one. The phrase "I love you" will be late, but it will never be absent.