Life is not painful in itself

Uh-huh... Sometimes it's painful, but that's just part of life. If you don't believe me, go to bed early, have the best breakfast in your neighborhood early tomorrow morning, go for a walk in your favorite park, and meet up with your best friend ...... you by the wayDo what you want to do most.

Of course, your god of fate always likes to mess with it and won't let it all go smoothly. As long as you can persevere, even if you don't get 100% of the best, in the process, you will find that life is actually bittersweet and bittersweet.

It depends on your life mentality. The Buddha said that the debts of the past life are repaid in this life. In that sense, it's a bit painful. But people have to keep looking forward, optimistic people are like the sun, shining brightly.

Life is boring, but you don't have a choice, you can only live well, but don't always find trouble for yourself, we always look for trouble for ourselves, that is to ask for trouble, there are a lot of things we don't have to pay attention to, become a little lazy, too lazy to care about the mess, just live a good life.

Life itself has no color, it's just that different people live different lives, and if they live a wonderful life, they will be happy, and if they live a decadent life, they will be miserable.

If you look at him as painful, then he may be miserable, if you look at him as happy, think that every day is different, do something little that has not been done every day, you will feel that life is full of novelty and happiness

Happiness is precious when there is pain. You can decide for yourself the tone of your life, whether it is pain or happiness, and it is possible to change it slowly.

Life is not bitter in the first place, but it is very bitter if you are persistent in life.

Let's just say that life is inherently painful, and there are all kinds of ups and downs.

It's the person who suffers, and he can be happy, but the superfluous worries, the superfluous desires lead to a lot of suffering.

To live, it was meant to suffer. Everyone knows that death only takes one decision! But everyone wants to know the unknown world after suffering. And the bitter fruit can be seen everywhere, and the world cannot bear to turn a blind eye to it, so that life can be continued.

It is the same life, some people can live happily, some people can live miserable, just like a musical instrument, some people can skillfully control it and play beautiful music, while some people can only make noise and ask for trouble.

Life is like a glass of boiled water... When you join Coptis chinensis, you will naturally be miserable... When you add honey, it will definitely be sweet...

And what you add is up to you. You say, is life itself painful?

No, it depends on your desires and abilities.

Because of pain, we will experience happiness. If you are blindly happy, then you will be numb, will there be happiness?

Those who have lived in pain will say that they are in pain, and those who are happy will smile in their dreams

You can see that life is already cheating on you. But it's okay, work hard to make life painless. After all, you only live once.

Everyone's experience is different, and pain is inevitable.

When you lose your enthusiasm for life, you feel miserable, and you find your purpose in life, and you work towards it

Life is meaningful when pain and happiness coexist.

There should be no pain in being optimistic.

The key depends on how you think about --- happiness or not, it depends on the state of mind.

Depending on your attitude towards life, being happy will not be.

See where you come to taste it!

Seeing this topic, most people will casually say how there is no pain in life. Yes, the concept of time in life is based on a lifetime or a year.

A person's life is different. Some people can live for a hundred years, with a full house of children and prosperous children; Some people are less than one year old and die early, which is also counted as a trip to the world; Some people die young, old and young, and they have not completely completed their personnel and died.

If life is judged by the length of the world, there is a lack of rigor. If life is miserable, why do people do everything possible to prolong their lives and live a few more years. Therefore, life suffering is not enough to affect the pursuit of longevity.

Whether there is pain in life, how much pain there is, hundreds of people say it. I am very sure that there is no such thing as a life without pain. Pain and happiness are like twins and depend on each other.

Just as "good and bad depend on each other", if you choose to be disappointed and sink in pain, it is not only a good policy, but also the most stupid performance. Enduring the pain is already welcoming happiness and choosing hope.

Everyone's life has both common and individual problems. Life experiences and results like "Alive" are only literary stories. Concentrate the great misfortunes of the world on a family and a character, and give readers or viewers more direct and reminders:

Life is not easy, face it bravely. The ancients understood that there is a dialectical relationship between everything, and people living today understand some truths even more.

There is pain in life, but there is also happiness in life. Some pain comes from the heart, and untying the knot is the sunrise of Yunkai. Some sufferings are natural and man-made disasters and are irresistible.

It is up to us to deal with and resolve all the pain after it has occurred. The recognition of the bit, the right way, and the speed of time to relieve suffering will all proceed according to the law of the development of things.

Life without suffering is imperfect and impossible. Only those who have experienced pain will cherish their joy and happiness, and will embark on a colorful road of life.

Hello, Lost, I am glad to answer your doubts, you have encountered the most crucial guidance of your life today, and after reading the following parable, you will have an epiphany. You will start your most glorious chapter.

Van Gogh and God.

Legend has it that Van Gogh was received by God in the glorious heavenly court after his death because of his outstanding genius, and was awarded the honorary title of "Genius Painter" by God.

Puzzled by this, Van Gogh asked God: "Merciful God, I have created immortal works that are out of the ordinary, and I always think that my paintings are the best; Yet people think I'm crazy, and no one appreciates me; Why don't you favor me and confer on me the title of 'Genius Painter' in Heaven on Earth, so that I can enjoy the glory and riches, so that I can create more wonderful and wonderful works of genius in Heaven on Earth? But you have made me suffer from purgatory on earth all the time?

God said, "My dear child, it is difficult for a good heaven on earth to create a genius, and only purgatory on earth can make a genius." I have always held you in high esteem, and when you are not yet a genius, I must put you through the trials of purgatory on earth before you can become a genius painter. ”

Van Gogh asked, "Then why do you want me to suffer from the loneliness of the world all the time?" ”

God said, "Only by bearing the loneliness and loneliness of the world can you become a star in the admiration of all." ”

Purgatory makes geniuses, loneliness becomes stars!

It's too stressful, try to relax yourself.

I can't help it! You took part in this game of life! You have to follow the rules.

Let it be, I think!

I think you yourself are a person who wants to be motivated, but your willpower is not strong, and you can't persevere, so you can't achieve the desired goal. You also understand the persuasion of the people around you, but you just can't focus on yourself.

I think it's too anxious now, because you should find something to do first, and it's better to find a job, so that you can recognize your own value and ignite hope for life.

In fact, it is not a bad thing to have requirements for yourself, but if you can't achieve what you want right now, then do something small first, and don't care what others say or think, even if it's your parents. Because you're on your way to success, it's just that you're starting to be slower. Life is just a few years.

It's really short, to live happily.

I recommend you to read this book "Time as a Friend" - New Oriental - by Li Xiaolai.

Hope it helps.