How to cultivate intimacy with an apathetic and unforgiving partner?

I think that people are emotional animals, and they are all emotional animals, and a person cannot always be indifferent and ruthless, so if you want him to change, it is not impossible, the key is that we must use the right method. In my opinion, this requires us to become a giver ourselvesIf you care enough about him and love him, please don't care about whether your own efforts can be rewarded, in your continued giving, he will definitely see and feel your enthusiasm and affection for him, slowly, it will trigger his thinking.

And, in addition, there is often some effective communication between you, for example, in life, you often take care of his food, clothing, shelter and transportation, even his siblings and parents, at first he may not think so, slowly, when you have done these things first, you can tell him, what have you done for him? As you spend more time together, you also have times when you are sick, you also have times when you need his care, and there are times when your family and friends need your help.

You've taken the initiative to help him do this, so what can she do for you at this moment? Because people's hearts are flesh and blood, especially when two people are together, I think the other party is indifferent, and he will also be moved by your deep affection, he will definitely think, how did you treat him, and how should he give you back as him? I don't believe that she will always be indifferent, so there is no absolutely cold and ruthless partner, probably because of his special experience in childhood, which caused him to dare not show his sincerity to others.

He is afraid of the betrayal of others, so he closes his heart and is not good to anyone, so that he can protect himself from being hurt again, when you can make him deeply feel your love for him, I believe that if you give him enough security, he will definitely changeThis requires you to spend more patience in the early stage, learn to persevere, and I believe that it will not be long before he will change.

Both parties should increase the time together, and during the New Year's holiday, both parties should remember to send blessings and gifts, and do something for each other with their own hands.

It's basically hard, but you can care more about her in your life and communicate with her often, which can further increase the intimacy.

Often invite him out to participate in some activities between couples, strengthen the relationship between two people, and at the same time let two people get to know each other better.