After a divorce, a woman ignores her children, what is the psychology of this?

Divorce is a great blow to both men and women. But for women, life after divorce can be a little more difficult. If the child is awarded to the man – the woman also has the right to maintenance and visitation.

But it's not good to ignore the child. After all, the child is two people, even if they don't get custody, but they don't care about it from now on? That's their own child, and the child will think about his mother.

But there is also this possibility: after the divorce, the woman wants to find a job, find a partner or something. So the busy doppelganger is also negligent with his children?

But there should be very few women who ignore it completely. The biggest possibility: the woman hates her ex-husband very much.

I don't want to see him, but when I see my children, I will inevitably contact and meet my ex-husband. In order to avoid trouble and unnecessary sadness, this divorced woman even became a victim of this divorce. Although there are extenuating circumstances, it is still a bit excessive.

Of course, she may miss the child in particular, but you don't know it. But it must not bring psychological shadows to the child, otherwise it will be an irreparable regret in the child's life.

Your gritted teeth now, your patience now, will have immeasurable regrets in the future. If this situation is due to marital unhappiness, we can try to analyze it from the following aspects.

1.Both spouses have clear provisions on the custody of their children before the divorce. In other words, after the divorce, one of the man's family members tells the woman that the woman is not allowed to visit or care about the specific circumstances of the child without the consent of the man's family.

In this case, even if a woman wants to visit her child, she does not dare to come. In order not to disturb the man's family life, or even more afraid of affecting the child's physical and mental health growth. At this time, you can only secretly inquire about the child's growth without the knowledge of outsiders, or secretly look at the child's ** to comfort your own wounded heart.

2.There are exceptions to everything, and it cannot be ruled out that some people will really show indifference and indifference to the growth of their children after divorce.

This is rare. Such a person may feel divorced now. Children are not raised on their own.

It's not about your future self. There is no need to care and take care of it. So I'm relieved in a way.

I think the best thing I should do is to get out of the shadows as soon as possible and forget about the past. Find a new relationship and start a new life.

Finally, I want to say that in the world of love, there is never anyone who is sorry for whom, only who does not cherish whom. Some people go away and turn around and leave for the rest of their lives. If you look back, you can't find it.

May we cherish the fate we have. Cherish the people of the present. Thank you for meeting.

Be grateful to have you in your life.

Because I don't want to have a relationship with the man, or because I have a better development, I don't want to be dragged down, so it's like this, and it may be because of a particularly bad life.

When it comes to divorce, many people's first consideration is who the children belong to after the divorce, many people take it for granted that women should not want everything after divorce, as long as the children, once there are some divorced women who ignore the children, some people may be curious, what kind of psychology does such a woman have?

The hatred of the ex-husband and the psychology of the child are not all women will give 100% maternal love to the child after having a child, and everyone's psychology towards the child is different, so after divorce, it is understandable that a woman ignores the child to a certain extent, and it is also a normal situation.

And among these women who don't care about their children after divorce,There are many people who are often implicated in their children because of their hatred for their ex-husbands, and even some people will feel that after seeing the child, it is as if they have seen their ex-husband, and there is no way to accept all this, so there is hatred that makes women ignore the child.

But this situation is only short-lived, maybe after a few years, the hatred gradually begins to let go, and when you begin to gradually realize the importance of the child to yourself, then you may also care about the child at this time.

In addition, not all people are born to like children, maybe after saying this sentence, many people say, if you really have children, you will like it, but I don't agree with this sentence.

Whether a person likes children or not has nothing to do with whether they have children or notIf you really don't like children, even if you have children, it's useless, and people will hate children even more.

Therefore, some women are born without children, so after divorce, they can't bring a good life to their children, so they leave their children to their ex-husbands to raise and ensure that their children can have a good life, which is enough, and if they don't like children and don't want to get along with children, then ignore children, which is also a human nature.

On the contrary, if you force people who don't like children to be with their children, it will be a harm to the women themselves and the children themselves.

If you want to start your own new life, although divorce is not a big deal now, since you are divorced, it means that you will still form a family again in the future. Then we must face the problem of future life, let me ask, if it is a divorced girl with a child and a divorced man with a child, then who of the two people is better to start a family, it is obvious that even if a man has a child, the probability of marriage will be higher than that of a woman, and once a woman has a child, the probability of marriage may be relatively low.

Therefore, in order to be able to start life again after divorce and to be able to find better happiness, many women will also ignore their children after divorce.

This is a very selfish psychology, and it is very likely that this woman does not want to have anything to do with her children in her life, which is a responsible attitude.

Maybe the woman feels that after the divorce, this marriage has nothing to do with the children and herself, and it has nothing to do with what the children look like, so the woman will ignore it.

After the divorce, the woman ignores the child, it may be a woman, she has found her other half, maybe she wants to start a new family, so he will ignore it.

This is a particularly bad psychology, especially bad for children, and it is not responsible at all.

Maybe I really don't love it, or I don't dare to look back, and it's really painful to leave my child.

I think it's mainly because she's emotionally broken and doesn't want to have anything to do with her ex-husband anymore, which is very common.

If alimony is given, the crime of abandonment can be committed.

Some women don't care about their children after divorce, in fact, they don't have any psychology, they are just irresponsible people, they have no feelings for their children, or they don't want to have any contact with their ex-husbands.

This is a very bad state of mind, some women feel that their children are a burden after divorce, so they don't want to care about their children.

This should be a very irresponsible man, so he can be described as a scumbag. Whether you are in marriage or after divorce, the child is always his, so the responsibility is always there. You can't ignore your children just because you're divorced, for such a man, we can only use scumbags to describe him.

Of course, if we want him to be responsible, communicate with him first, if not, we can go to the court to sue him, and let him do his duty, after all, the father is not so easy to be, you can't ignore the child because of the divorce, and in the long run, it is possible to commit the crime of abandonment.

Target. The crime of desertion refers to the obligation to care for and raise a person who is old, young, sick or otherwise incapable of independent living, and if he refuses to carry out his or her own obligation, it is the crime of abandonment.

Such a man is not worthy of marriage and should not have children, because he has no responsibility and responsibility.

He's an irresponsible scumbag