Some women don t want to remarry after divorce, what are the reasons?

The reason is that they originally thought that marriage was beautiful, but after experiencing marriage, they realized that marriage is actually very realistic and full of all kinds of big and small contradictions, so they finally got rid of it, so don't risk getting married again.

Women are tired of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and they are often reluctant to remarry after divorce, because no matter which man they marry, they have to face the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is the most tiring part of marriage.

Because I've already been hurt once, I don't want to get hurt again. At the time of the divorce, she had a falling out with her ex-husband, so she decided not to get married again.

Disheartened with marriage and afraid to love.

Disappointed and fearful of marriage.

Because many women don't want to get married in the first place, the reason why they get married is because their parents and elders urge them to get married, and now women in this society can live the life they want through their own efforts, and there is no need to look at men's faces to get a better life in other people's mouths.

It may be because they have been hurt in their previous marriages, they no longer believe in love, they no longer trust men, or it may be because they have not met the right person, or they feel that they can support themselves and do not need to be cared for by others.

Because these women have had enough of marriage and they don't find the right person after the divorce, they don't want to get married.

Sometimes, marriage is like a risky bet for a woman, and when she meets the right person, she can love sweetly and live happily for a lifetime. But once you choose the wrong person, life will fall into endless distress and entanglement, and even a kind of torture, not only is it difficult to enjoy the beauty of marriage, but often you have to accept the sad ending of divorce in the end.

Xiaojuan encountered such a marriage, and after marriage, she found that her husband was extremely selfish, short-tempered, only himself in his heart, and had no sense of responsibility for the family, which was completely different from him before marriage.

After enduring the torment for seven years, Xiaojuan found that her husband really had no possibility of getting better, and she was completely chilled by this marriage that only she paid alone, and she finally chose to end this relationship that had lost its temperature.

After the divorce, Xiaojuan was very sad, she couldn't understand why she couldn't get a good return for her dedication? Gradually, she came to the conclusion that marriages were sad and that men were unreliable. Therefore, later she lost hope in marriage, refused to go on a blind date, refused to remarry, and made up her mind to take her daughter to live the life of a single mother from now on.

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After seeing Xiaojuan's divorce, she began to live a single life, and completely broke off the idea of remarrying, and her father couldn't sit still. He doesn't want to see his daughter deny his life because of a relationship failure, which is to punish himself for other people's mistakes, and it is also irresponsible for his own life, he still hopes that his daughter can muster up the courage to start a new life.

For this reason, Xiaojuan's father found his daughter and had a long talk with her. He said to his daughter, "If you can figure out these things, I will agree that you will not marry again." ”

1. Do you really feel happy in your single life?

Human life is short and hurried, and having a happy and relaxed life is the desire and pursuit of each of us. If you can really live happily and feel happy in your single life, then I will support your choice. After all, it is most important for people to live comfortably and happily, and they should not care too much about what kind of lifestyle it is.

But if you are not happy now, your heart is full of depression and melancholy, and you can't feel the joy of life at all, then I still advise you to give up your plan to be single, and restarting a new relationship will make your mood different.

The biggest reason for the decline in the willingness of men and women to divorce in contemporary China is the improvement of women's economic status and the excessive tolerance of women by the law. First, the economic status of women. Women have the same level of education as men, they participate in social work and are equal to men.

Some women earn even more than men so that they can live carefree so that they are not in such a hurry to get married.

The other is that the law is too lenient for women. First of all, the freedom of marriage, there is no certain limit on the age of marriage, so that women are not so anxious about marriage, coupled with the rise in the cost of marriage, both men and women can use marriage to raise money, before the man paid a lot of financial and material resources, after marriage, the woman's feelings are not harmonious, and the man's property is huge after divorce. In this way, he received a lot of money, which was not easy for men to survive for generations.

The high divorce rate is not what I want to do now, the reason why this can not be done is actually that the marriage relationship is not strong, although the current society is a completely free love society, but the communication circle at work is very small, so most people are still introduced by people on various dates, and then get married and have children, this is actually no different from their parents in that generation, when there is a bit of true love, they always find a way to solve difficulties when they encounter them, rather than always thinking about enjoying but not wanting to work too hard! Want to have without paying! The greatest pursuit is to enjoy life, not to strive for a better life!

The essence of the bride price is to buy and sell marriage. When a man gets married, he buys a house, a car, and a bride price, plus his mother acts as a nanny.

After getting married, he handed over his salary card to make the princess happy. In a word, this society is too rubbish, it can already live well, do you care about anything else? The degree of social commercialization is too high, if you go to a city to travel, high-rise buildings, prosperous, and you have no chance, the cars around you are like water, you can't sit without money, there are crowds, all for the sake of interests, then you are isolated, only the rich, is the absolute truth!

Therefore, the degree of social commercialization is too high. When the material conditions are good, the spiritual requirements are getting higher and higher. Both men and women don't want to be wronged, and they don't want to give too much Society advocates freedom, but it doesn't protect the weak So more divorced women choose to be independent and be good to themselves!

Because he encountered a lot of difficulties and setbacks in his last relationship, this person especially does not believe that marriage can bring happiness to him in life, so he does not want to get married.

Answering someone who said that the most difficult company in the world to run is family, and the most difficult relationship is husband and wife. As a result, many people who have withdrawn from marriage will be disappointed in marriage and relationship, and will be bored. This psychology generally stems from two thoughts:

One is that you are really hurt by feelings, you don't have the courage to believe in feelings anymore, and you are always afraid that you will experience pain when you enter marriage again, and finally end in divorce. The other is that I am very disappointed in my marriage, although it is also very painful, but this disappointment is more indifferent from the bottom of my heart, thinking that there is no point in forming a marriage, and thinking that remarriage in the end is just to make trouble for myself. However, in the final analysis, people who no longer have thoughts about marriage and resist starting marriage again are generally hurt by marriage.

Being hurt by marriage and the pain of divorce is indeed a great blow to women, but such pain will really change the emotional path of a woman's life, should a woman live alone?

may have been hurt a lot in the original relationship, and I felt that if I got married again, I would definitely encounter the same damage, so I chose not to get married, which has left a shadow.

This is because women have been hurt by marriage after divorce, so they don't want to remarry at this time, and they already have feelings of resistance to marriage.

After the divorce, some women remarry soon after, and some people experience failed marriages, and they have a fear of marriage and are unwilling to easily enter the marriage hall. This kind of people who have not entered the marriage hall again for a long time belong to the group of people who do not want to remarry, they are afraid of experiencing a failed marriage again, so they have become extra cautious and cautious about marriage.

Marriage is a happy and happy thing, and divorce is a sad thing corresponding to marriage. As the saying goes: "It is better to demolish ten temples than to get married", a woman in marriage, if she is not full of despair about marriage, will definitely not come to the step of divorce.

After the divorce, some people are quickly favored by the opposite sex and start a new relationship. After remarrying, they lived happier than their first marriage. With the first marriage experience, let the woman know what is most important, and she can also smoothly avoid the previous "minefield".

In addition to remarried women, there are also women whose marriages have stagnated and have always kept themselves single. They are not against love, but they begin to reject marriage, and this situation arises from the fear of marriage.

Women who are reluctant to remarry after divorce are all because they have been hurt and hit in the previous marriage, which makes them despair and fear of marriage in their hearts. A failed marriage will make people feel hopeless, unwilling to enter the marriage hall again, and afraid of experiencing failure again, making themselves physically and mentally exhausted.

Some women who revolve around their husbands, children, and housework are not respected and valued in marriage, and their lives become petty bourgeoisie after divorce. This contrast makes women reluctant to remarry and continue to live a "yellow-faced woman" life.

There is no perfect person in the world, and there is no perfect marriage, a good marriage not only needs love, but also needs the husband and wife to manage after marriage. There is no shame in divorce, but there is no shame in not having the courage to remarry.

Divorced women later lived very happily, they were able to realize themselves, and their lives were more glamorous; People who don't want to get married again may be injured in a marriage, or they may not want to run a marriage anymore and feel very tired.

Divorced women later lived very happily; People who don't want to remarry choose end-time marriage because they are afraid of being hurt again in the next relationship.

Some divorced women are doing well, and some are not doing very well, and they don't want to remarry because they don't believe in love.