What will happen if two people who don t have the right three views have to get married?

Two people have different views and have to get married, after marriage will increase many contradictions, cause unnecessary trouble, make the marriage unstable, the probability of divorce is relatively large, the view of things is different, the angle of understanding the problem is different, the way to deal with the problem is different, and in the end there may be no way to communicate, not speculative more than half a sentence!

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If you don't get married, you quarrel, you can't see what she does, she also picks on what you do, no matter what you do, she can't do as much as the other party's eyes, spending money and arguing, buying things and arguing, eating noisy, even staying at home and playing with you on the computer, she will be noisy when she reads books, and she will divorce in the end.

The three views are the outlook on life, values, and world view, and people who do not agree with these three views are unlikely to become people all the way, and they are reluctant to come.

In layman's terms, the outlook on life is how a person should live in this life, the values are what is the most precious in a person's life, and the worldview is what the world is like.

I think that only people with the same three views can live together in real harmony!

Because life is already so difficult, finding someone who allows you to accommodate you will be thankless and wronged if you don't do well.

When two people come together, if it is suitable, every detail is gentle, if it is not suitable, every fragment is torture.

Therefore, whether it is choosing a friend or a partner, if the outlook on life, values, and worldview is not on the same level, it will be a painful ordeal.

So what can happen, your whole life is spent in torment, so for the sake of your own happiness for the rest of your life, it is better to cut through the mess quickly, and the marriage that comes barely will not be happy.

It's hard to say. Sometimes it's okay to adapt or compromise with each other, and it's okay to live a good life. Sometimes the dog eats the dog and falls into a defeat and a beat and scatters, try to find melons to eat, melons are not easy to find, you have to bet to see if the melons are not delicious, at least quench your thirst.

Then if you don't unify the three views, the others can be unified.

One. The three views are different, and it is not suitable for marriage.

Two. There are many contradictions in the three different views.

People who do not agree with the three views must not get married, and they will often quarrel after marriage, because the three views do not agree, there will be many contradictions, and then the two people will be in a bad mood, and finally they will lose both.

People who do not agree with the three views are generally not suitable for marriage, because a person's three views will determine their own living habits and attitudes, if the three views do not match, in the future married life, it is very likely that there will be a lot of friction, resulting in unhappy marriage.

The choices made by each person reflect each person's personality and emphasis, agreeing to marry someone who does not agree with the three views, it may be that the object of marriage considers more money, family background, and appearance; If you don't agree to marry someone who doesn't agree with your three views, you may consider more personality, sense of responsibility, tacit understanding, ......Personally, I think that the disagreement between the three views also scores specific situations: whether it is vulgar values, low quality or no interest in life, stuffy gourd, if the quality is poor, swearing, lazy to eat, and the view of things is more of a dark side, such a person is any object to avoid contact; And the heart is generally positive, responsible, even if there are many different attitudes towards life and educating children, but the two sides can seek common ground while reserving differences, the original intention is to run towards the positive sunshine, I don't think the problem is big, and people at each stage will change, values, world view is also changing ......

If the three views are not suitable, it means that you will have a lot of differences, many views are different, and if there are often contradictions and cannot be reconciled, it is not suitable to enter into marriage. But it's okay to be tolerant of each other, to be consistent, to be able to change for each other.

If you feel that the three views do not agree, you can't get married, and it's not suitable to get married, because the three views don't agree, there will be daily quarrels and different views, which is not good for both parties.

If the two parties are true love, then it is suitable to step into marriage, because true love means that you can tolerate everything about each other; If both parties don't love each other enough, it's not suitable for marriage because they can't get along.

If the three views really don't agree, it's still not suitable to be together, after all, all aspects are not dealt with, and there is no more communication and affection between each other, it is best not to be together.

People who do not agree with each other are not suitable for marriage, because they have different views, and there will be many contradictions after marriage, so the life after marriage will not be happy, it is better not to get married.

People who don't agree with each other are not suitable for being together, because they will quarrel constantly in the future.

In order to avoid unhappiness in the future, it is better to find someone who is compatible with you to marry.

People who don't agree with each other, if they can get married together. I don't think I'll be happy. Because the problem of three views is one person. o It's hard to change.

Personally, I think that people who don't agree with each other can also get married, because the three views can be slowly run in through time, as long as two people like each other, it is enough.

I don't think it's suitable for people who don't agree with each other to get married, because it's difficult to reach an agreement in life, and conflicts will continue, so getting married will also be like a battlefield tormenting each other.

Unhappy! There will be contradictions if the three views are not unified, but after reading your above, it is that the other party loves you enough, if the other party loves you very much, he likes to be with you very much, and he is sweet together every day, even if he is busy with work, he will find time to meet! Understand that love is mutual, true love is like to be together, no need for any reason!

You should be smart and know how to do it, and good luck!

Unhappy! Because people with different views will not get along very happily and are prone to conflicts, they are not suitable for marriage.

People who do not agree with each other are not suitable for marriage, and after marriage, they will find that two people have different views on many things, resulting in a lot of contradictions.

People who do not have a common language, and it is impossible to have sincere feelings, so it is impossible to truly love each other, and such people are not suitable for marriage.

If such two people get married, then there will definitely be various contradictions and problems after marriage.

Hello, people who do not agree with each other are not suitable for marriage, otherwise they will not be happy after marriage.

People who do not agree with each other are not suitable for marriage, and even if they do, they will not be happy.

People who do not agree with each other are definitely not suitable for marriage, and they will have to divorce after marriage.

If two people don't have the same views, I don't think it's suitable to get married, because two people don't have a common language or common hobbies, and marriage is also a burden.

People who do not agree with the three views are indeed not suitable for marriage, and if two people get along together, if the three views do not agree, it is easy to cause contradictions.

"Values" is also one of the three views, which generally refer to the world view, values, and outlook on life.

If there are couples with different views, it is difficult for them to walk together, and the analysis is as follows:

1. First of all, it is difficult for the two of them to come together, unless both of them are married for the sake of marriage, or they covet something from each other to come together and be together, but we must know that marriage is like wearing shoes, whether it is comfortable to wear on the feet, then only the feet know.

2. Therefore, if the husband and wife who do not agree with each other are together, it is like wearing a pair of shoes that do not fit, both of them will be tortured, every step is very painful, and it is very difficult to go on, they are like a pair of contradictions, just like when we are studying physics, the positive and negative poles are the same, and they are always in a state of rejection or rate, and there is no way for two people to attract each other, refuse, and refuse to merge together.

3. Therefore, couples with inconsistent views are basically very difficult to live a lifetime, and even if they live a lifetime, this life is very painful.

Target. The specific manifestations of the incompatibility of the three views of husband and wife are as follows

1. First of all, the three views are incompatible, we are talking about personality incompatibility, living habits and cultural level discord, the former is a matter of outlook on life and values, at this time many people will form a concept according to their own thoughts and brains, once this concept is formed, it is difficult to pass.

their own efforts to achieve reconciliation and unity.

2. People who do not agree with each other have inconsistent views on everything in their daily lives, and the decisions they make are also different. At this time, it will make two people quarrel, and the three views do not agree, if it is particularly serious, it may not only affect themselves, but also two people, if there is a child between them, the impact on the child is also very large, because in the child's mind, their father and mother do not love each other.

People who don't agree can get married. There is no such provision in the Marriage Act. If people with different views live together, there will be a lot of conflicts, and they will eventually go to divorce.

If the three views do not match, it is better not to get married.

Because in the days to come, there will be various conflicts due to different concepts.

It can be tiring for both parties.

The three views, generally speaking, are the outlook on life, values, and world view. Two people with different views, together, even if they get married, there will be no happiness. After a long time, it will not be in love for a long time, but the relationship will slowly drift away and be tormented all the time.

A marriage with different views is very embarrassing.

Everyone yearns for the happiness of marriage, and every love hopes to "bear positive results". But if you accidentally get together with someone who doesn't agree with your three views, it's embarrassing to do nothing with "one heart".

For example, if you want to go out for a while, the people around you will not support you, but will warn you: there are jackals, tigers and leopards in front, and there is an abyss in the back. Drag your hind legs.

If you are a person who understands art, and the people around you are complaining about the dirtiness of art, or even ruining your artwork. It's really laughing and crying.

When I meet someone, I hope that he can understand himself and give himself the best comfort and encouragement. But the people around him are retreating everywhere, and whatever they want to do is the end of "nothing".

If you go out to see the scenery, it's not really that the scenery is very beautiful, but who accompanies you to see the scenery. If it is a person with three different views by his side, you look at the east, he says the west, and the scenery is ruined!

A marriage with different views is very painful.

The contradiction for a while is understandable, and the contradiction every day is to add to the mood and find it uncomfortable. When I went home, I felt like I wanted to escape.

Just imagine, a man has been working all day and dragged his tired body home, and the dinner at home is not what the man likes to eat, and he feels that the food is difficult to swallow, and the exhaustion will definitely intensify; A woman is looking forward to romance on Valentine's Day, and a man is too lazy to fight, and even thinks that women are too extravagant and uninteresting, such a marriage should be "precarious".

The distance between people and people is the distance between hearts and hearts. Couples with hearts together, even if they are far away, are still close at hand; The heart is far away, and the face to face is speechless, and the ends of the world do not meet.

Always with people who don't agree with the three views, people will be lonely. Such a depressed feeling will make the relationship more and more distant. If it weren't for the fact that there were children in the family, I am afraid that the breakup would be very fast.

Many couples have been noisy for half their lives, but they still go on with each other, but the breakup rate is so high now, which also shows a problem. The relationship between marriage and love issues and values is also advancing with the times. Of course, there are no absolutes.

1. It affects the bottom line and principles, and the other party is more sincere and cannot be together. In the hit drama "The Golden Years", Jiang Nansun and Zhang Anren were attracted to each other at the beginning, and later broke up because of their understanding, just because of different values. Zhang Anren is a person who will do whatever it takes to achieve his ends.

In order to stay in school, he used his girlfriend to expose Wang Yongzheng, and he violated Jiang Nansun's principles and bottom line in dealing with people.

Later, the Jiang family was defeated, and Zhang Anren's approach made Jiang Nansun completely dead. Later, Wang Yongzheng fell in love with Jiang Nansun, although she was in debt, she didn't let him know, it was not that she didn't love, but that she was afraid of hurting the simplicity of love, and she wanted to get Zhang Anren's help, but she just took the opportunity to find a reason for her separation. Speaking of which, Zhang Anren and his ex-girlfriend Yuan Yuan are the same kind of people, but they can't come together because they are too selfish.

One party is willing to compromise and can be together. When two people are together, there will always be one who loves more. Love is a very magical thing, and when it enters the heart and eyes, it can change for him or her.

One party compromises, and two people can be together, but the one who changes will be a little tired. But as long as you are mentally prepared, of course you can be together. In many transnational relationships, even if the value orientation is different, but each other is willing to take a step back, or one party changes, they can live.

As for happiness, no one can guarantee happiness, even if people with the same values, there is no guarantee of happiness. Many lovers or couples come over in the run-in. Love is also a process of trial and error, and if all risks can be avoided, it is meaningless.

The personalities are all strong and can't be together.

In life, our behavior and cognition, the principles of doing things, and the goals we pursue will all be affected by our values.

The person you like has different values, there will be disputes together, and if both people have strong personalities, they will quarrel so much that they will blush and have thick necks, and even say radical words.

If there is more pain than happiness in love, it is better to break up in two and find another lover.

Sensitive and suspicious people can't be together.

Different attitudes towards life can be accommodating, but if one party is too sensitive and over-interprets your values, they will fall into the quagmire of distrust and cannot pull it out.

No matter how hard you try, you can't resist suspicion.

If you can't control your emotions, it's likely to lead to aggressive behavior, so don't be together.

Therefore, before getting married, don't just focus on the external conditions such as family background and body appearance, but also consider the personality and three views of the two people. After all, what really supports you through a long marriage is your three views. If the three views do not coincide, the marriage will break down sooner or later.

Women should remember that no matter how good a man's character is, no matter how much he loves you, but you don't agree with each other, don't marry him, because you never know what kind of contradictions you will have after marriage.