Would you believe that there is a pure friendship between people of the opposite sex?

There is absolutely a pure friendship between the opposite sex. Between those of the opposite sex who have long been commensurate with buddies. Naturally, there will never be any filthy thoughts. It's pure, don't want it.

I don't believe that there can be no pure friendship between the opposite sex, but both parties are unwilling to take the initiative to pierce this layer of window paper, or maybe one of them pretends not to know, if you don't like it, it is impossible to exist this kind of friendship for a long time, people are emotional animals, it depends on who can't hold back to say it in the end.

I believe that there is a pure friendship between people of the opposite sex, as long as they put each other in a position where they can never be violated, and keep an appropriate distance when they get along.

I don't believe in pure friendship between people of the opposite sex. There is really a good relationship between men and women, and that is why one of them likes the other very much, even if he can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, he can't bear to be friends.

Existence, not all that everyone thinks is love.

My answer is: no. I'm sure there will be a lot of people who will contradict me. Don't be so anxious to overturn my answer, the following words, you taste, you taste. Let's combine your own situation to see if it's true!

We all have opposite-sex friends, but does true pure opposite-sex friendship really exist? In fact, the key to existence lies in whether the two sides can grasp this "degree" enough. Regardless of whether there is or not, in fact, there are the following situations.

1. Men like women or women like men. (Belongs to unilateral liking).

Second, both parties like each other. (belonging to mutual liking).

Third, they don't like each other, they are pure friends. (I think this is rare, since it's just a friend, why should you be special about him?) ）

The question is coming, since you like it, you can't just confess.

Yes, but 90 percent of people don't confess to their best friends of the opposite sex. Because doing so may not even be able to make friends, and from then on on the road to strangers, and it will be embarrassing to meet. Of course, this is in the event of failure.

What's more, it's too familiar, and I'm embarrassed to start! You say yes.

Because I don't know if you like me or not, you don't know if I like you or not. So we're careful to be friends.

Do you also have such friends of the opposite sex, you like them, but your relationship is brother and sister, or sister and brother. It's a good relationship. This also lays a solid foundation for regular contact in the future.

Neither of us dared to step out of the line of friends, because if we did, we would never come back, and I thought to myself that I could get along with her in such a close relationship, and I felt very satisfied.

If you really care about it, then please don't casually go beyond the boundaries of "friends", and if you succeed, it is of course a good thing. If you fail, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Maybe it's your regret that you can't be a couple with him, but it's your happiness to be friends with him.

The joy of being friends with them has outweighed the joy of being a couple!

I think there is, I had a very good friend of the opposite sex when I was in college, we were like best friends, we would share anything delicious or fun with each other, and we would also tell each other about our troubles, but we really didn't feel for each other.

does not exist. Personally, if I don't have a good feeling for a man of the opposite sex, I won't want to have too much contact with him, and I will keep my distance.

It depends! Yes, but it's rare. Because true friendship is mixed with some affection.

Everyone is different, you think there is, you think there is nothing, you think there is not.

There may be a pure relationship between men and women, but there is no pure confidant of the opposite sex. The idea of developing the opposite sex into a confidant, or feeling that the opposite sex is one's confidant, is not pure in itself. Men and women appreciate each other, attract each other, feel the fit of the soul, and inevitably develop in the direction of love, regardless of whether there has been physical contact or not, the soul has long crossed the line.

For married people, the most important thing among the opposite sex should be their lover, and they go to other opposite sex to find their needs, which in itself is denying the status of their lover in their hearts. If other alien properties bring you a feeling of knowing each other beyond that of a married partner, then the breakdown of the marriage is not far off.

The best way for married people to treat the opposite sex is to only talk about things, not about love. In life and work, there are many people of the opposite sex who need to be contacted, and married people should have a clear sense of boundaries with the opposite sex, which is not conservative or feudal, it is a kind of protection for both parties, and everything must be grasped in a measured manner, especially with the opposite sex.

Doing things is doing things, cooperation is cooperation, people with strong ability maintain respect, people with great charm really appreciate, the best attitude is to watch the fire from the other side, retain one-sided evaluation, less soul interaction, I know that you are enough, it doesn't matter if you know me or not. Only talk about things, don't talk about love, married people, any emotional needs of the opposite sex are asked in marriage, don't ask for other opposite sex to give you simple emotional sustenance, there is no free lunch in the world, you profit from emotion, you must pay the price in emotion.

Of course, there is a pure friendship relationship between the opposite sex, and there are many good combinations between men and women in this world. Mix and match, like the Legend of the Phoenix. Shen Teng and Ma Li.

It is possible to have pure friendships between people of the opposite sex, but at the same time there are complex emotional relationships. Although friendship and affection have something in common, they are fundamentally different. If the relationship only stays in the pure stage of friendship, both parties respect and understand each other, and there is no ambiguity or emotional understanding of one party to the other, then this pure heterosexual friendship can completely exist.

But in real life, due to the differences between men and women, as well as the gap in physiology and psychology, it is easy to have complex emotional relationships. Sometimes, because of the emotional understanding or some ambiguous words and deeds of the one party in trouble, the originally pure friendship becomes complicated. In this case, it is easy to hurt the feelings of one party and even destroy the friendship between the two.

In short, whether there is pure friendship between the opposite sex is not so absolute, the key lies in the attitude and handling of both parties, and it is necessary to avoid deviations in emotional understanding and ambiguity and guidance between each other.