My boyfriend slapped me, should this relationship continue?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-27
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    As the saying goes: "It is better to teach people to teach their children than to teach them to divide their wives!" "The relationship between you, we outsiders are stupid, we shouldn't interfere!!

    However, I would like to remind you: think about the reason two people are together, whether it is because of love, or it is a momentary improvisation, or something else!! The most important thing is that people who love each other think of each other for each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Look at the situation, is it very heavy?

    Or is it just formal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do it at such a time of quarrel ... I'm a boy, and I don't think we can be together. That's it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Are you willing to give him up? Do you love him? What do you love about him? Why are you together? Have you suffered his bad temper? Ask yourself to put. Only you know best. We are all outsiders. What you see is a short description of you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is absolutely unforgivable for a man to hit a woman!

    It is a must! The first time you hit you, there will be a second time!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Resolutely don't hesitate Mom and Dad, give birth to us and let us live on our own, why should we beat him, the person who loves you is reluctant to beat you, and the person who beats you will not end once it starts.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I hate boys beating girls the most, so don't let this man be.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The point is to see if you can still tolerate his violence.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm also a man, I love my girlfriend very much, I want to love someone to have her in my heart all the time, women are for love, not for fighting. There's only one possibility, and that's that you don't cuckold him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is a first time, and there is a second time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I am a male. I feel like two people have been fighting together for a long time, and it's normal to quarrel. But I forced the man who hit the woman. I don't feel like a man like this deserves to be around any longer.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I am a man, and I have always despised men who beat women, and this person is not worth following.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Basically, I don't think men should hit women.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let go, don't continue, unless you like to be beaten, a man can't hit a woman even if he has a bad temper, but as a woman in the other half, he should also be his occasional docile cutie.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why continue? If he really loves you, he is reluctant to hit you. If you really love each other, you won't be fighting too often.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Friend, you said that he started beating you, do you think it is still necessary to be with him? Whether it's a boyfriend or a husband, as long as we can come together, it's a kind of fate.

    When two people have lived together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be small problems and episodes. But no matter what happens, no matter what the problem, we can't start beating people. If you encounter a problem, we will solve it.

    Even if a man has great ability, he shouldn't beat his little woman, everyone doesn't know, and some contradictions are getting deeper and deeper, and they will even become enemies. You said that it was a good thing for two people to be together, why did they end up being enemies? If there is something, we will talk about it, and if there is a problem, we will solve it.

    When two people live together, they should be more understanding and tolerant.

    We should understand each other, respect each other, support each other, take care of each other, and solve problems by means of communication. Don't do it, don't say who's better than whom, if you break someone, you won't have to suffer pain, and you'll have to pay to go to the hospital. Isn't it cost-effective!

    When encountering things in life, the first man should first do self-reflection, and then empathize with him, some problems are really easy to solve. This is the standard of a man who is a man of all degrees, a man who stands up to the sky. A man who makes a woman love a man if he wants to do it, ah don't be the kind of man who makes a woman want to break up with you right away.

    Some men think that it is right to hit women, and they still think that they are very awesome and powerful. Actually, buddy, this is a very wrong idea and practice. Now is a society governed by the rule of law, and even husbands and wives cannot casually beat people.

    So I think that a person who can use his hands to beat his own woman will make everyone look down on him for this kind of behavior.

    Isn't there such a saying in life! If there is a grudge, it is also a grace to be resolved, especially two people who live together, and they should not do it, because they are together because of fate, not because they are together because of hatred. If there is any problem, we can solve it through communication.

    If it really comes to the point where it can't be solved, should we also get together and disperse? The man should not use his hands to beat someone, and the woman does not need to be beaten. Because such a man is not worthy of your love, because he does not understand love at all!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There will be countless times when there is a first beating, and it is impossible to hit someone once and not fight again, because he thinks in his heart that he can do it. So it seems unlikely that we should resolutely separate from him, or that we must make him completely promise not to do it again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it were me, I would choose to break up, no matter what the conflict can't be solved with violence, let alone the person I love deeply, how can I be heavy-handed.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My boyfriend slaps me in the face during an argument and I won't be with him. Because I can know that he is a person who can't control his temper, if I forgive him this time, he may do something more excessive next time, and I will not give him this opportunity.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I won't be with him, no matter what the reason, it's not right to hit someone, there is a first time and a second time, hands-on means no quality, acute child, there is a problem should be calmed down and solved, not this way of dealing with it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm not going to be with him anymore, because I don't think the men who beat girls are going to be very good people, and the second time will be the second time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I won't be with him anymore. People like him tend to be violent, and I am worried about my future life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it's once in a while, and he apologizes, you should be generous, and you should forgive him for this little thing.

    First of all, it's not right for your boyfriend to slap you on the spur of the moment. But he apologized to you immediately afterwards, which shows that he can know his mistakes and correct them, and his performance is still good. If he apologized sincerely, then he should be forgiven or forgiven, just tell him not to do this next time.

    Secondly, your boyfriend hits you on the spur of the moment, which shows that you also have something you can't do, which makes your boyfriend very angry. Therefore, you should also find out the reasons from your own side, change them if you have them, and encourage them if you don't. In the future, you should also try to be calm and stop making your boyfriend angry.

    Again, boyfriends and girlfriends have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that some disputes and contradictions will occur, and sometimes quarrels and fights cannot be completely avoided. And a slap in the face is not a big injury, nor can it be considered a very serious violence.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hit back, don't want this kind of man, hit people zero times and many times.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Break up, for whatever reason, men shouldn't hit women.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's time to break up, and boys shouldn't hit girls, it's a bit excessive.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it's true that you've done something wrong, make it clear to him that you shouldn't hit anyone anyway.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why don't you break up? Men can't hit women for whatever reason, and there will be countless times if they do it once, so they insist on breaking up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I felt like I should break up, and I couldn't accept my boyfriend doing it to me, even if it was just a slap.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on the situation, if it is indeed your fault and he apologizes to you, I don't think it's necessary, but if he hits you for no reason, then I think it's okay to break up, after all, it's not right to hit a girl, and it's not good.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can break up, the choice is yours. You don't need to ask anyone, if you get married, ask someone else about the matter between your husband and wife, it means that it won't be long.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on why, if you just hit someone when you're upset, you have to wait for him to slap him a second time before you wake up?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    See if you have done too much to your boyfriend, if you don't break up early.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Divide it, a man beats a woman, as long as there is a game, it will be divided immediately.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's better to break up this way, it's the man's fault that the man hits the woman.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    When two people are together, it is a run-in, don't break up easily.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Have a good chat with him, not necessarily to forgive him, but make it clear to him on this issue. If he doesn't give you a reasonable explanation, then what are you waiting for, just don't forgive him, and you won't forgive him in this life.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I'll answer you this question, I was slapped by a friend, I don't have to break up, I have this time with anyone, it's nothing, it's love to scold! Occasionally, she is not old, nothing is wrong, think about whether she is at fault. When we are together, we all understand each other, support each other, help each other, and endure each other so that whether it is a friend or a marriage, it can last a long time, my answer is over.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Look at what is the reason for hitting you, if you do something sorry to hurt him, then forget it, if he has violent tendencies and can't control his emotions well, it's better to break up early!

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