Troubles This relationship, should it continue? It needs to be encouraged or discouraged. 20

Let me tell you something.

Sister, I can call you that, I'm 20 years old, and it's a pity that I haven't had love. I envy you for having the so-called love, at least you have.

I haven't, I think too much about things when I think about them, and I think too much about whether I am worthy or not.

I've had a lot of crush on girls, but unfortunately no one accepted me.

To tell you the truth, you are not worthy, it is he who is not worthy of you.

Reality will tell you in the future that your man must be worthy of you! Because there are many eyes in reality, people are terrible, if you are really with him, after marriage, even if you force yourself not to think about these problems, it will not work. Look, my friend's husband is much taller than the woman, so it looks like a good match.

Even if you don't say anything, he will have low self-esteem in his heart, and his personality is more introverted, unlike me who is very extroverted. He won't be able to think about a lot of things. So don't push him.

Keep your distance until you are formalized. In fact, there is friendship between people of the opposite sex.

Also, think about it, will your parents let their beloved daughter marry someone who looks like a martial artist? Will they trust him with your whole life?

There may be cases where men grow in height after marriage, but it is rare.

Let's open it. I've always believed in such words, and I can only comfort myself with them all the time:

What is yours is yours, and no one else can take it away;

If it's not yours, it's not yours, and you can't keep it.

You're still very young, and things aren't as simple as you think.

Okay, no more wordy.

If you have something, write an e-mail to me: yhx

It's mine. I am a student of the Foreign Language Department of Xingtai University, male, 177cm gone.

Notice that you deliberately emphasize your height and weight.

Looks like you're concerned.

Actually. Feelings are such a thing, I really can't say.

It depends on whether you care more about him or more on the outside.

You still have to choose your own feelings.

What others say is just advice after all.

Sometimes it's really envious of kids your age.

You can do whatever you want and have no regrets.

Go"Crazy"Let's do it once.

When you open up, you'll find that there is no such opportunity at all.

If you like it, you can be together, and you don't care what others say. Liking is not puppy love, and to a certain extent, it can promote learning. Ignore the boring classmates and do what you really think. Happy to you!

Break up, be decisive, don't affect your future study and life for this piece of work, the sooner the better.

I think it's too early to fall in love, and the most important thing now is to study. If you like it, keep your distance.

There is only love and non-love in love, there is no match and unworthiness, if the two love each other, why not do it.

At this time, you must first ask yourself in your heart, whether the other party is the person you really love, whether it is really worthy of your love, and whether it is worth maintaining and operating yourself! Then it also depends on whether the other party really pays for this relationship, whether it is sincere or perfunctory! If you feel uncomfortable because the other party doesn't take it seriously, then you really have to think about whether you want to stick to it, after all, if the relationship between two people is just one person paying, it is difficult to maintain!

It's more about communication between the two of them. Some aspects or things feel uncomfortable, don't take it to heart, as time goes by, your problems are getting bigger and bigger, so when you encounter problems, communicate and solve them as soon as possible. Except for the bottom line, you can't regress, everything else is okay, and it is said that the person who regresses in love loves each other the most.

In the end, how can there be no contradictions between the two of them, if you are a boy, let yourself be more of your object, it is normal for girls to be willful; If you're a girl, be considerate of your partner, he must have his own reasons.

One thing, a relationship, if both parties have paid, but there is only a little friction, then we can take a turn and admit a mistake, both parties calm down, to admit their mistakes, then we can also find emotional encouragement and experience from stumbling. If it is unreasonable, one person pays it, and the other party will intensify it. Then there is no need for us to continue this relationship.

On the road of feelings, no one is smooth sailing, will encounter big or small setbacks, if we encounter problems and do not solve them, then the root of the problem is still there. Your retreat this time, so the next time you encounter a bigger problem than this, you still have to retreat? Forcing yourself to encounter obstacles, it's good to cross the past, cross the past, and shape a stronger self.

Feelings are not easy to come by, and they need to be maintained by two people, and when problems arise, they are more humble and less quarrelsome, and problems can often be controlled and solved. The two of them communicate well, be more understanding and tolerant, and I believe that it will be dealt with, don't let the person who decided to marry you regret it.

Should choose to give up, since it is not appropriate for two people to be together. Not particularly happy. It shows that the two people are not very suitable, and they should let go decisively at this time.

You should choose to give up, because these unpleasantness has made the two of you feel estranged, even after the two people get back together, the relationship between the two people will not return to the original.

You can insist on solving the problems between two people, no matter what you encounter, you should sit down and communicate with each other well, talk well, find a solution that suits two people, and the relationship will get better and better.