Why did he say he liked me, but he kept missing that girl in his heart

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Give him some time, if you have such an experience, it will be hard to forget, be considerate of him, if you treat him a little better, let him come out of the sadness of missing her and enter your happy world, then he will not miss her very much, will he? For close and distant friends and lovers, we all want it"Gentleness"of putting them"Pull"Come back, with words of care, with sincere care, with the proof of time, with the infection of temperament, they will be moved by you, like to be with you, forget about it"her"It will be very soon, it is easy to love someone, it is difficult to forget someone, and people are more important than tolerance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sometimes memories are hard to erase, maybe for some reason, he can't be with that girl anymore, but he chose you, accepted you, and wanted to forget with some new memories, which requires a process, so his behavior is understandable.

    Landlord I think you should be more kind to him, make him happy, let him remember your good times together, and forget the past quickly.

    It can be seen that you love him very much, you can also talk to him and tell you what you think in your heart, both of you actually have difficulties, if you face them together, I believe there will be a happy result!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How do you know he's thinking about that girl? Did he tell you? If that's the case, then there's no need to worry, because he can tell you what he really wants to be with you.

    If you find out that he is like this, first, if you don't trust him, just divide. Second, if you also like him, then you should be tolerant and give him some time to forget, because this shows that he is a very emotional person, and he will be like this to you in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    That girl was a former girlfriend??? Is it?? So he's your boyfriend now?

    If so, it means that he must be an emotional person, and you think that although you broke up, you still think about her. I know how many times you've felt a little uncomfortable. Since he values feelings and will definitely not treat emotional things casually, he said that he likes you, and he also has you in his heart.

    It's just that he is a little nostalgic and misses the people of the past.

    If not, it means that he will either lie to you, perfunctory you, and decide for himself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Anyway, I think it's a man's selfishness. He doesn't want to lose him, and at the same time he doesn't want to lose you. It's better to give him some time, let him think it through, and let him make a decision.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not that he doesn't like you, but there is something that makes him feel that you are not what he thinks, and you can't do what he expects, so you can only try to communicate with him and do your best to do what you think he thinks you are.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to believe him.

    He said that if he likes you, he must not have disliked you.

    Maybe he thought about her because of guilt or other people's feelings.

    In short, if you like him, you should believe him.

    Either way, if you don't believe him, the end result will change.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Both of you have a place in his heart, give him some time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It takes time to forget a person, and you also fight for a place in his heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because she has a lot of place in his heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you say that you miss the girl you like, her reaction will vary from person to person and may behave differently. Some girls may feel happy and welcome because it shows that you are interested and concerned about her absence. And some girls may feel a little embarrassed or bothered because they may not want to have any further relationship with you. Also, if you already have some kind of relationship or interaction between you, the expression may be more natural and acceptable.

    If she asks why, it may indicate that she has some doubts or uncertainties about your motives or intentions. This doesn't necessarily mean that she hates you, but wants to know more about your thoughts and feelings. If you can express your feelings openly and confidently, it may be easier for her to understand and accept.

    In conclusion, how you express your feelings and emotions needs to be situation-specific, taking into account the feelings and reactions of the other person, while also being honest and confident. Most importantly, respect your decisions and feelings about the macro party and don't try to force her to make a decision.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on how the individual girl feels and reacts. Some girls may be happy and grateful for this, because it shows that they have a very special place in your heart, and at the same time, they may feel that you care about and miss her deeply. However, other girls may find it a little bothered or feel that the expression is too direct or premature.

    Therefore, it is important to understand her personal preferences and cultural background to ensure that you express your emotions in an appropriate way. The best thing to do is to communicate with her openly and ask her about her feelings and opinions, so that you can build better communication and understanding.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you like a girl, it doesn't mean that she has you in her heart, the feelings between men and women are mutually reciprocal, if you think she can show that she has you in her heart, that's just your personal feelings, I think you still need to express it in words, or reflect it through information, you can confirm it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If she doesn't like you, it may be impossible to pull a hand, not to mention other intimate actions, hurry up and confess, it's best to be romantic, so that girls are more likely to be moved!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it should be okay.,Not disgusted by some of your intimate actions means that I also have a certain good impression of you.,If you confess, I personally think you can be romantic.,Most girls like romance.,The probability of success is still higher.。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, the girl is not averse to touching her head, and she also says goodnight to you, which means that she likes you. Don't hesitate, confess quickly, don't miss the opportunity.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This kind of thing can only be known if you confess it, and you don't understand it when you keep hiding it, right? He gave you an ordinary friend with him, right?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can also not confess, and slowly make the relationship more intimate, and become a lover who has not said it verbally but is already an actual lover, so that none of you can do without anyone, isn't it better.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's a matter of course, you have affection for her, hurry up and woo her! I wish you lovers to be married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For a girl, if you can have such an intimate action, and the other party is not disgusted, then she must also recognize you in her heart, confession is originally a boy's business, don't have any worries, and make your own choice boldly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then you should take the initiative to pursue him, you can't just do this, don't take measures. If you don't take that step, it'll always be like this.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    She is not disgusted by your intimate actions, she also likes you, that's for sure, the two of you are like a layer of window paper, each of you has this meaning, so you confess to her now, you will definitely succeed, in fact, you don't have to worry about these, there is no need to say it at all, love just say it boldly, come on!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Seeing what you said in this situation, I should like you, I think if you really like her, go and confess, don't use guessing, no matter what the result is, don't miss it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Like is your appreciation, girls have you in their hearts, it is not necessarily, now girls are more realistic, this mountain looking at that mountain is also a common thing, seize the time to let girls know that you are in love with her, will definitely marry her as a bride.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have been getting along for several years, and it can be seen that you should like each other, so if you really like this girl now, then you might as well boldly confess to her, the more you drag, the worse it is, if you don't confess now, then when will you wait? Don't miss the opportunity. Two people have been together for a long time, they should have feelings, I think this girl should not refuse you, because she should have you in her heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is a high probability of this, otherwise it should be refused.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    She is willing to be with you just like you. Escalate the physical contact first, such as holding her hand when appropriate, and then confess.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're slow enough.

    It's been a few years and it's still in a state of uncertainty.

    Hold on, brother.

    Don't give it away.

    Don't ask netizens.

    You should ask the girl directly.

    It's not going to take a few years, is it?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course you can, a few years is enough, she may have been ready for you to confess to her, show your courage, and say it boldly.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Her behavior must indicate that she has you in her heart. I care about you too.

    If the other party contacts you every night, and says goodnight, not to mention that there are relatively intimate actions with you, you should care more about you in your heart, if you really like her or care more about her, I personally think you should get along with her, treat each other with your heart, and do your best to care for each other. Only by doing so will the relationship between the two people be deeper.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, you don't have time to think about what you don't like.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, if you don't like it, you wouldn't think about it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In your case, there have been a few examples. To sum it up.

    The first option: Actually, if you don't want to add to your pain and don't want to embarrass her, then choose to leave decisively. That is, I don't like her anymore.

    Why? Because, she has someone else in her heart, unless she is a very frivolous person, otherwise, in a short time, she will not give up her liking. And if you continue to like her and show affection for her, it is likely to put a lot of pressure on her and provoke her to become bored with you, for example, she has now ignored you.

    In fact, there are many good women in the world, and love, the best combination is that both parties are in love, but she has someone else in her heart, why should you bother yourself? Therefore, as a man, you must be able to afford to put it down, decisively keep your distance from her, and no longer confess to her. (Now, you may think it's incredible, but in 2 years, 5 years, you'll think it's the right choice).

    The second option: Taoguang Yanghui. If you can't convince yourself that you have to be nice to her, then you can try the second way.

    If you talk to her first, just say that you respect her choice and her wishes, and hope that you can still be friends with her. See how she reacts. If she agrees, then OK, you're her friend.

    You can secretly care for her and pamper her. However, you have to pay attention to the range of movements! Don't make obvious movements, it's easy to make her uneasy.

    Then, in the long-term contact, you can influence her through some subtle actions, and the person she has in her heart may not like her, so once there is fluctuation on her side, your opportunity will come. However, this second trick is a test of your endurance, and I know a few people who have not passed this level, and as soon as the women show their goodwill, the men will meet them, but the result is still not successful. Moreover, the second trick is also risky, in case she and that sweetheart become successful, you will work in vain.

    In summary, just these two paths, it's up to you how you choose. If it were me, I would choose the first one. It's true that you like him, but she doesn't like you, the twisted melon is not sweet, is it? And, as a man, you have to be confident, she doesn't like you, maybe a better girl than her likes you!

    Hope you make a decision that you yourself won't regret!

    Good luck!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, Qi Xuling When you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    Gao Qi. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover, the honorary hand always knows you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), worried about him (her), I hope that every minute you can see him (her), when you don't, you will always think about him (her), when you see it, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) is in love, you will look forward to bringing him (her) with all your love The greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and I am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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