I don t want to hurt, how can I separate from him

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You. Say nothing more.

    You just can't wait?

    Don't look at anything else.

    For his sake as good as you.

    Hu abuses you every day?

    Harassing you every day?

    You can't wait even two months?

    Ay. Pull it down.

    There is no such thing as a hurtful breakup in this world.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you should be honest and sincere to explain everything to him, who do you really love? Of course, show your guilt, I hope he forgives, and it is better to explain everything now than to make him more painful later! I think you should say it after he finishes the exam, don't affect his study, you can bear with it during this period, after all, he is very good to you, you can make it clear in person after the exam, you can also write letters, you can also Do whichever you think he is easier to accept, as much as possible to reduce the harm of a person who has always loved you!

    You must be moved by affection, know with reason, so that he can accept you, because you love Chen, and he will soon know about you, let him know from your mouth is better than others telling him, do you understand? If he can't accept it for a while, don't worry, give him some time, you can do the work again, let him figure it out, and be willing to fulfill you, I think this will not affect his life, and you can also become friends! Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is recommended that you just wait for him to take the college entrance examination first. After all, the college entrance examination is the most important thing for him now, and whether the test is good or bad is related to him for a lifetime. The others will have a chance to talk to him calmly in the future.

    If you're a little tired of him right now, just say I want you to study hard and don't want to bother you. I hope you do well in the exam or something. This way he can also take the exam with peace of mind, and you don't have to see him.

    In fact, you should also take a good time and think clearly. Like a person is not just a comparison of appearance, family background. It is to experience and choose with heart.

    I wish you someone who loves you and that you love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Choose Chen He loves you more, just put it in his heart Women have to choose to love themselves, but they also have to love themselves This kind of love is perfect enough!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Such a good boy ** to find it, you should be content! Maybe when you are with Chen, you will think that you like Hu, and no one can say for sure about feelings. Alas! ~

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    For Hu's sake, you wait until after his college entrance examination to talk about it, you are already sorry for him like this, don't let him play abnormally in the college entrance examination! A double blow!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't want to hurt him, don't break up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You ...... about it

    I can't help you, I can't help the top.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ways to break up without hurting each other:

    1. Don't deceive, tell the other party the reason for breaking up directly:

    Because of some people, they either disappear directly, or tell all kinds of lies, and choose a very extreme way to end the relationship. People who don't understand the reason for it, they are always on the sidelines, and they are easy to get angry about it and can't let go. Therefore, when you break up, if you want not to hurt the other party, you must make it clear, the most direct way, but the easiest to accept.

    2. Affirm the other party's efforts and don't denigrate the other party

    I believe that if you can go on, no one will choose to break up. Since you can only break up, when you talk about breaking up, you must not say bad things about the other party, saying that you are really blind, regretting that you have loved each other, and even blindly denying the past of the two people. You see, not only does it make no sense to tear each other apart, but it hurts each other severely.

    Since you have loved each other once, and you have loved so passionately, let this relationship end well.

    In fact, the relationship is not afraid of ending, but I am afraid that I have not said goodbye well, and then I have been thinking about it in my heart, thinking that it is not over yet. Then Yun Ku kept thinking about it like that, there was no way to say goodbye to the past, and there was no way to start a relationship again. So when you break up, if you want not to hurt each other, it's best to have a calm chat with each other and say goodbye to each other solemnly.

    Reasons for a relationship breakup:

    1. The lack of core values, the lack of self-attractiveness, and the inability to meet the core needs of the other party.

    2. There is no ability to empathize and understand the feelings of the other party.

    3. Without effective communication, chickens and ducks talk to you, and there is no comfort in getting along with you, and even uncomfortable <>

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