I m going to break up with my boyfriend, can you tell him the truth?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's better not to tell the other party the truth, because there is no need to tell anyone about such a thing, who to fall in love with, it is everyone's freedom, and you don't need to tell him, just tell him, my relationship with you is gone, just break up like this, such things are still very common in real life, so sometimes for the sake of the other party, and for your own good, choose the life you want! There's no need for him to know about you, ...... later

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Tell him, it's nothing after all, your boyfriend will understand, and if he really likes you, he will respect your choice

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Better a finger off than always aching. He should have been told. When he finds out for himself later, the embarrassment will hurt him even more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's better to tell him, because it's something he's going to have to face sooner or later, and if he finds out for himself, he'll be even more miserable!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't, never. It's painful to fall out of love, and I feel sad for our male compatriots. 5555555555。You have a sympathetic word in introducing one to him! Let him forget about you. It's true!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't want to see parting, so I'm silent. Maybe years later, you will find out that the person who loves you the most and is the most suitable for you is still the person you are now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Absolutely not! The consequences of doing so will drive him crazy!

    Even men know what it's like to be abandoned.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell him about it. Because I'm in the same situation. Nothing, though. It's just that you might be unhappy for a while.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I must tell him, and I want him to die for the best of him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on what kind of personality your boyfriend is.

    But what do you have to be as open as possible.

    Because after all, it's already hurt him, so don't be ambiguous.

    If he's more impulsive, I advise you to try to be in a crowded place when you speak.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell him, let him die completely, and it's good for both of them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm really afraid that he will be sad that it is better to continue like this with him, but this is not good for anyone.

    Also, since you all know each other, it's better to be honest, there is no right or wrong in feelings, and you don't have to blame yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He's an impulsive player.

    It's better not to tell him the truth.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell him he'll hate you if he finds out about it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tell him, or it will hurt more when he knows pulling.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Tell him to accept the facts!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    don't.

    The reason you broke up with him was that you didn't like him anymore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes! Is it? I don't understand the problem.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Tell him, sooner or later.

    Sad man.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After breaking up with you, Yidong will definitely release the signal that he is single in the circle of friends or with relatives and friends, so that they can find the next one faster. Therefore, if a man tells you when he breaks up: "Don't tell anyone else (parents) about our breakup", it means that he is probably hiding the fact of the breakup, leaving room and room for reunion.

    I have a friend Xiaoya, when she broke up with her boyfriend, her boyfriend said, "Let's stay together, don't let my parents know about our breakup, and I'll tell them later." They live as restrained and awkward as roommates they just met, and Xiaoya's boyfriend has never told his parents.

    One day, when Xiaoya took advantage of the boy's bath, she secretly looked at his mobile phone and wondered if there was a third party, but saw a woman send it to him: "Are you still with that woman?" Xiaoya's ex replied:

    Yes, we have a good relationship, thank you for your concern. ”

    Xiao Ya later learned that it turned out that it was some of Xiao Ya's practices that the male Yan Trembling's ex-friend was dissatisfied with, so he deliberately proposed to break up and let them think calmly about each other for a while, and soon they got back together.

    I don't know how I got to this point of breaking up.

    When they parted, he was rude, showing sadness and constantly sighing: "Why did this happen? How did we get to this day of breakup? ”。

    If so, congratulations, he probably still has you in his heart.

    Breaking up is an established fact, but his emotion shows that he cherishes this relationship very much and is still reluctant to give up on you. The fact that he really wanted to end the relationship activated his "separation anxiety". The man who often says this sentence must have encountered a last-resort, unbearable problem, and he never thought about breaking up before encountering this problem.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe you don't want to be too public, or maybe you just want to break up quietly, it still depends on your personal thoughts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This needs to be judged according to the relationship between the two people, if the other party asks to say the reason, it is better to say it clearly, so that it will give the other party a reason to let go, that is, the other party knows why you gave up on him, and then will make his own decision because of this.

    When two people are separated, if the other party must chase after and ask the reason, it is a respect for the other party in Hanbizhong, because if she does have something wrong and you can't accept it, tell the other party that whether it is to let the other party get rid of such a habit, or to let the other party make it clear that the two of you are not suitable to be together, it is a very important thing for the other party.

    Of course, if two people feel that their personalities are not suitable, one party brings it up, and one party immediately agrees without asking the reason, or the two people can be separated peacefully, in this case, the two people know that their personalities are not suitable to be together.

    If the frequent opinions are inappropriate or the three views are not consistent, the two sides can also understand, that is to say, if one party comes out, the other party thinks that this matter is right, mutual respect, mutual decision, then there is no need to make it clear, because some things are not clear in the first place.

    If you do have a real reason and the other party asks again, then telling the other party is also a sign of respect for the other party and a summary of your love.

    When it comes to whether it is necessary or not, it depends on whether the other party must have a clear reason.

    If you want to separate from the other party clearly, then the other party asks the reason and I think it is reasonable, especially when the other party does not know what reason to disagree, then the reason for you to separate from him at this time is very important, and you must give the other party a reason to let go.

    Therefore, the number of attacks does not mean that you must talk about the mountain and you must explain the reason, but if the other party asks, it is a respect for the other party and a summary of your love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Typical excuses. If you're busy studying, you won't have a new girlfriend after breaking up with you.

    Immediately after the breakup, he had another girlfriend, and you didn't think about it, wasn't this premeditated by him? It's good that such a boy breaks up, lest he harm you.

    If you didn't have any major relationship breakdown with him, and you didn't do anything to be sorry for him, and he broke up with you for no reason, then what I said is ugly, that is, he thinks he has had enough fun with you, so he breaks up with you (I say it ugly, but I just want to express the meaning). Don't want such a man. Don't think about him, it's not worth it.

    The last sentence says that if I want to, I can talk about this later" His words, I feel like a "foreshadowing", I feel that he is tired of playing with his current girlfriend, and then use this excuse to come back to you.

    The breakup was proposed by him, so don't be nostalgic, and don't give such a man any chance in the future. Be yourself, and you'll meet a man who is a thousand times better than him, ten thousand times better.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's clear that I broke up with you just to be good with that girl, but I don't want you to hate him, so I said that I'll talk about it later, the truth is in front of you and you still want to wait for him to tell you, are you still waiting for him to tell you that you actually like you the most and don't like another girl? He's making a fool of himself, and so are you.

    Why can't you just watch him act smartly, and tell him with a generous smile on his childish letter, there is no need for this, even if he doesn't propose to break up, you already know the fact that he split his legs. You also ask him, if everyone asks why you two broke up, what should you say, do you mean that he broke up with you in order to get along with another girl, or did he break up because he was found out by you?

    And you're still in school, so there's really no need to be distracted by this garbage.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't want to expand the damage, now that you know it, you still care if he tells you what he is doing about it, he doesn't want to say it, he has his reasons, besides, is it so important to say it or not to say it? Aren't you asking for trouble? Let the past pass.

    Let's cherish the present and the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Number one, he doesn't want people to gossip about him behind his back after breaking up with you, and number two, he just wants to play with that girl.

    You're still young, and he's given you the opportunity to embrace a better life, so why not thank him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe you want to kill two birds with one stone, and if you get along with another person, you won't make it clear to you, but leave you hope, so if he blows with this girl, there is another girl, that is, you are waiting for him ......

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This kind of rotten boy just dumped you after splitting his legs, he didn't even tell the truth, what will be said later, it is clear that he is perfunctory and wants to delay you, what a bad man!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    He wants to be a good person in front of you, and he doesn't want you to entangle him. Or maybe he just wants to have two choices, in case he and that girl are not good and he will come back to you, so it is very tactful and feels very selfish.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Such a man is simply disgusted with you, why do you still care about him!

    Even if you know such a man.

    I kind of got it.

    Fortunately, I knew it earlier, and I didn't fall deep!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It may be that they don't want to hurt you, or they want to use you as a spare tire, or they just want to pedal 2 boats

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This is human nature, look at it yourself, such a man is not worthy of your love.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because he doesn't want to face the fact that he has changed his mind or that he is trying to deceive you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I want to step on two boats, dump him, and being busy with studies is just an excuse.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After breaking up with his boyfriend, he said that he found the right one and told himself, how to deal with this kind of measure? For this kind of question, we must first look at two situations, one is whether you still love yourself? One is that he still has you?

    If you don't have both, then there's no need to be nostalgic.

    First of all, analyze the first point: Do you still love yourself, this kind of love is not a feeling of yourself at this moment, but a kind of questioning yourself and starting from the heart.

    There are actually a lot of considerations for these, first of all, the reason for the breakup, who is each other and who has failed whom? Is it emotional feud or something else? If you sort this out, then you are re-examining your heart, whether you still love it!

    The second point: Does he still have you, a love, even if it is impossible to easily forget after breaking up with each other, but if you really talk about love, there are a lot of differences.

    From the mouth of the questioner, he has broken up with his boyfriend, and after his boyfriend finds his girlfriend again, he will tell himself, and he can actually feel love from it, but what can be analyzed is that this love shows a feeling of helplessness, and he doesn't want to leave but is gradually pushed away.

    Love, it has never been a fair existence, only to say that to grasp a kind of initiative, otherwise, a love will definitely not come easily.

    People who have experienced love should know that on the way to love, the balance of love is always the never-ending giving of one party, and the other party from passive to active acceptance process, this process is based on the premise of this unfairness, in the case of love, this is not a big problem, but a love to part, the contradiction will be quickly stimulated, which is a manifestation of love.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't live with him anymore, and say it in order to alleviate your guilt, without considering that you may feel bad for the rest of your life, is actually a selfish approach! If he really loves you that much, he shouldn't tell you such a disgusting thing! The truth may hurt the other party, so it's better not to know!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Why Ma wants to tell you that he may still want to get back together with you, it depends on your attitude, and if you say no, maybe he won't be with someone else. If you wish him happiness, then he is angry with someone else.

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