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Anonymous users2024-02-12I think jealousy should be regarded as a kind of human nature, we all hope that our lives are better than others, when others are better than us, we will naturally have jealousy, comparison psychology. It depends on everyone's mentality! Successful people will use this as a motivating goal, and those who fail will be more vain and become rebellious.
So it's good to be jealous, but don't overdo it! Otherwise, there will be a negative ripple effect.
Jealousy is a need, a motivation for self-improvement! It was created and given to you, and you will grow up with jealousy!
The key is how to turn that into motivation! In a sense, the stronger the jealousy, the greater the motivation! The more likely it is to succeed!
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Because he lives well with everyone else.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Some people are light and can realize this thing, and self-regulate and transform it into forward momentum. Some people don't have much to do, they are more idle, they don't have any dreams, they can only put their minds on this.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09It's because I don't have it, envy!
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Anonymous users2024-02-08They all think that not getting is the best.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Summary. Kiss, so jealousy is not important, it is not important, it is not important to prove yourself, growth is the most important. Because if you grow up to come true, you will naturally be able to do it calmly and not be jealous of others!
Why I am so easily jealous of others.
I don't want to be jealous of other people, but I can't control my heart, I'm a person who is very jealous of other people, and this baffles me.
Kiss, love jealousy is because love compares. We always feel that that person is so good and that is good, and the main psychology is that why is he good at this and that, but he can't do this or that, and all this is so unfair in his heart. Focusing on the comparison with others, I always can't see the good in others, so I will be jealous.
Kiss, and when you look at that person, you always feel that he is all wrong. The result is to focus our attention on the bad of others, because only then will we be more comfortable with ourselves. In fact, one of the main ways to overcome jealousy is that you are a hundred times stronger than him in other aspects.
Dear, I don't think it's necessary to focus on these comparisons, because you'll be shifting your focus to proving yourself. In any case, the focus should be on your own growth. When you see the good in others, you will find that you can learn a lot of good things from people you might otherwise hate.
Kiss, so jealousy is not important, it is not important, it is not important to prove yourself, growth is the most important. Because if you grow up to come true, you will naturally be able to do it calmly and not be jealous of others!
I want to be better than her, but I can't do it, I can't be jealous, I really can't see other people's good, but she's so good to me, I don't want to be jealous of her, I can't help it, woo woo.
Kiss, try not to force yourself to oppose jealousy, this has a certain negative effect. One is that it will cause annoyance, and the other is that excessive attention will have a reinforcing effect on jealousy. It is enough for you to understand logically that jealousy is unnecessary, and then let go of the focus on jealousy.
In fact, jealousy is just a manifestation of mentality, derived from excessive self-esteem (self-esteem, self-love, etc.). If a person can't let go of his ego, it will be difficult to be jealous.
Kiss, people's hearts think more because the heart is too quiet, that is to say, when there is nothing to do, people's brains will think more about things they don't want to think, so as long as they do more things and distract their brains, they will naturally think less about things.
Kiss, you can talk to the teacher in detail about the specific things or situations<> the teacher will give you a detailed and specific analysis<>
If you have any other questions that you need to ask, I will continue to answer them for you in detail
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