How can you be yourself?

I can see that you are a girl who is too infatuated, so although it is good, sometimes you will lose yourself. And when you give him his whole world, he will feel a little heavy. Love sometimes has to be a little distance, so that the two people will not be too tired, and they will be very relaxed.

Do you want to change? First of all, you have to agree with it ideologically. Shift all your attention to him to something else.

For example, do something you like, your hobby. What else? You have to learn to be independent, learn more knowledge, and be a self-reliant, self-confident, autonomous, and self-reliant woman in the new era.

There are some things that don't do everything for him. Broaden your horizons, be optimistic, and be sunny. Don't overthink what he will think.

As long as it's right, be brave enough to do it. Abandon your dependencies, be selfish, and think more about yourself!

Good wife and good mother type.

Leave him for a while, and you'll choose the good ones.

I don't agree with what was said upstairs, 7-8 years together are feelings, how can it be said that they will be separated.

Everyone has their own dreams, think about what your dreams were when you were in school, and think more about yourself. Naturally, he would have less time.

Try to leave him for a few days and miss him for a while.

You've spoiled him, it's hard to correct.

Then try to let yourself go.

Or give up on him.

First of all, if we want to "be ourselves", we need to have an understanding of ourselves. Know what kind of person you are and what you want to be.

Secondly, to make Suidou understand the environment in which he lives, how can he act freely if he does not understand his living environment? Then, know what you want and how you should get it.

Take your attention away from some of the more negative places, find a few good books, take a good look, and read some every day; Find and bend some more positive people, talk to them more, and get some positive energy from them.

In fact, this is a process of understanding oneself and understanding the social appealing clan. Everyone is not born knowing what they like and what they want to do in the future, so in the case of sticking to what they are currently doing, give yourself more time to truly belong to yourself, and let yourself find what you like.

1. Accept yourself

If we want to be ourselves, we must eventually reconcile with ourselves and accept ourselves. Life is a lonely journey, everyone has their own bitterness and helplessness, no one can be an exception, and no one is immune. It is to understand your strengths, know your weaknesses, find your own ability quadrant in the journey of life, and give full play to your strengths.

2. Maintain a love for life

If a person wants to persist in being himself, he must have a noble meaning of life, and all bad deeds serve this meaning. When you deeply understand the meaning of your life and the reason for living, the influence of other people's tongues on you is minimal. The more people who are full of love for life, the easier it is to see the beauty of life, and the heart is full of warm sunshine.

3. Keep learning and growing

Everyone can't be perfect, we all learn in growth, grow and mature in learning. When your ability is not enough for you to have the energy to be yourself, just calm down and learn, learning is not only to reserve knowledge, but also to increase your acceleration, so that you can see more possibilities in life.

4. Learn from excellent people

Being yourself is about making you deeply understand what kind of life you want, and put all your efforts into it, and still have no regrets. In this process, we can't do it behind closed doors, we must continue to absorb excellent ideas and knowledge, continue to learn, in order to achieve the effect of inclusiveness, use new knowledge, new ** armed to serve ourselves, make ourselves strong, and be fearless of the ups and downs of life.

You have to have a pure heart, you have to be kind, you have to have your own pursuits and dreams, and you have what you like, want to do, and what you don't want to do. But being yourself is not without considering the public, there are some things that you want to do but can't do it, you must choose in combination with reality, do what you think is beneficial to yourself, and choose a lifestyle that suits you and will not bring trouble to others. Be good at summarizing, and if you improve, you are on the right track.

You have your own pursuits and dreams, things you like, want to do and what you hate, and don't want to do; However, being oneself is not doing things without considering the public: there are some things that you want to do and can't do them, you must choose to do what you think and are beneficial to yourself in combination with reality, and choose a more suitable lifestyle that suits you and will not bring trouble to others; Be good at summarizing: If you have improved, it means that you are on the right path, then this is yourself, and your choice will not be wrong.

Face up to your abilities and do what you can. Be confident in yourself, such as in doing things, you feel that you can do it; Be brave in the face of difficulties and not afraid of trouble. This is how it is done whether it is a matter of dealing with things or treating people.

There is no one in your eyes, everything is empty, and you are brave to be yourself.

To be yourself means to be true to yourself, have personality, assertiveness, and characteristics, do not need to care about what people around you and outsiders think, do not disturb your thoughts because of the words of others, have your own goals and pursuits, regardless of the worldly vision, do what you like, and go your own way, but be worthy of your conscience, no regrets, and a clear conscience.

Get to know yourself as fully as possible, understand yourself, and choose a lifestyle that suits you according to your own standards. You must have your own goals to pursue and plan your own direction. Be brave enough to pursue your dreams and have things you like, want to do, and hate, and don't want to do.

To be yourself is to do things according to your own will and thoughts, and not to care about what others say. We now live in a mutually beneficial society, life and work are inseparable from the interaction with others, it is impossible to completely ignore others, but we can have our own principles and bottom line, we can have our own criteria for judging things.

It is easy to say to be yourself, but it is very difficult to do, which is the result of a person's growth environment, family education, social education and self-pursuit since childhood, which is the result of more than ten years or even decades, and has long been ingrained and deeply rooted in the subconscious of the individual.

People only have so many days to live, in fact, if you can make yourself happy, don't worry about what others say, just do everything you want to do, just don't endanger your conscience and hurt others, don't do illegal things, work hard, and be a low-key person! Be kind to people who care about you and help you.

If you want to be yourself, you must first have your own standards for judging things, rather than using the unified standards of the public as your own standards. When you use the standard of the masses as the standard, you are bound to be influenced by the masses. And when you have your own criteria for judging things, you can not be influenced by the public.

Find yourself, and define yourself. Wilde, with his usual wittyness, said, "Be yourself, because someone else has already done it."

This may seem humorous, but it tells the basic truth. Yes, if you don't know, understand, and accept yourself in the first place, then you can't be yourself. Your first task should be to find yourself.