The sadness of the post 90s, the emotion of the post 90s

The so-called post-90s and post-80s are an excuse for some boring people to make some seemingly reasonable remarks, don't care about those, instead of thinking about how you are post-90s every day, it is better to do something meaningful, read books, help parents do some housework, help friends relieve boredom, there are many things to do.

Each era has its own characteristics.

Those who insult the post-90s.

Is there no sorrow in your days?

The times have made us who we are.

Is it the times that are sad in this way?

Is there a mistake in the construction of science and technology, and there is a mistake in the progress of the times?

It's a big climate.

We can't change, we can't change.

The so-called three years a small ditch five years a big ditch.

The post-90s generation refers to people born between 90 and 99.

Those seniors who insulted us don't say that I have a generation gap with you, just me and my younger brothers and sisters after 95 have a generation gap.

lzYou are the master of the post-90s, and I am also in 91, but we will eventually be covered by the new climate that is about to sweep in, but we will not care about it and will not insult it, we know that the earth is turning, and the times are changing!

I'm also glad to be born in the 90s.

There is such a rich life.

We really should cherish it.

An era makes a generation.

So you don't have to pay attention to other people's saliva about the post-90s generation at all.

Hehe, no matter what age people are, there are places of sadness and pride.

In the eyes of the older generation, the post-90s generation has all collapsed, and the post-00s generation is also in a state of withering. There is such a state, in fact, because the elderly have a misunderstanding about many of your young people, and the generation gap between the old and the young is very deep. In the minds of the elderly, they feel that they cannot understand what young people are doing, and in the minds of young people, they feel that the elderly have no way to communicate with them, so the misunderstanding between the two sides will be deeper.

First of all, many elderly people feel that the clothes worn by young people are a place worth complaining about, and in the minds of the elderly, all the clothes worn by young people are nondescript, and there is no way to accept them. So the young people will be instructed, and the old people will not approve of what the young people say. For example, some young people will choose to swear when they vent their inner emotions, in fact, the elderly will also choose to swear, but the old people don't like young people to swear, so it will lead to more problems between each other.

Because many older people think that young people are always at home doing nothing and doing nothing. But in fact, you can clearly find that there are some problems in the country, and these young people will be the first to rush to help the country. Older people have a misconception about young people, and most older people think that young people are very hypocritical and that young people don't do anything, but in fact, young people are not.

We need to change our misunderstandings about each other, so that we can become closer to each other. Nowadays, most young people are more caring and enthusiastic, and after encountering some problems, they will take the initiative to help the elderly.

Because in the minds of most of the elderly, most of the young people have now lost their positive courage, but will be willing to do some unrealistic fantasies, which has a huge impact on the down-to-earth way of dealing with the older generation, so the old people have a certain deviation in their thoughts about young people.

First of all, because the current society is very materialistic, and the pressure of life is also very high. The young man knows that he will not be able to achieve the goal of buying a car and a house, so he prefers to lie flat.

Because the older generation thinks that today's young people are very lazy and do not want to make progress, they think that the post-90s will collapse and the post-00s will wither.

Spring brings the wind, and the wind brings tenderness and warmth. Walking in the spring breeze, warm and soft, everything is so beautiful. It's just that the trajectory of the world and the wheel of the world are not open, and this will change due to the change of seasons. It was supposed to be a beautiful moment, but something was wrong because of the experience.

Thinking of his own experience, he unconsciously sighed, the post-90s generation is too difficult. The post-90s generation has caught up with a beautiful era, and all kinds of things that are convenient for life and enjoy life are emerging in an endless stream. It's just that these belong only to a few.

In comparison, the post-90s generation is really too difficult. The post-70s generation caught up with the era of going to the sea, as long as you are willing to work hard, you are not afraid of hard work, most of the work can make money, and countless brands and stores have appeared in that era. The opportunities of the post-80s are not as many as those of the post-70s, but they caught the last train of real estate and the first train of the Internet.

After graduating in the 90s, the times have changed in 12, and many majors that were still popular when they applied for the exam became a sinkhole after graduation. put in the same effort, but what you get is far less than the post-80s and post-70s.

Some people say that the post-90s generation is the Beat Generation, but who wants to be beaten? It's just that the speed of many people can't keep up with the speed of social development. After graduating in 12 years, the generation of new things in society and the elimination of old things are much faster than the growth rate of the post-90s.

When the post-80s join the work, the salary is 3500 (north), the house price is 2000, and when the post-90s join the work, the salary is about 4000, and some are less. The house price is 8000. In the past ten years, wages have risen by less than 15%, but housing prices have quadrupled, and the post-90s generation has no extra money to enjoy life, let alone save money.

The times are developing too fast, in 1987, Big Brother entered the Chinese market, communication equipment began to develop, and now, the function of mobile phones has become more powerful I don't know how many times. The post-90s generation is running hard, but most of them can't keep up with the development of the times. Who doesn't want to be the trendsetter of the times?

The country is developing so fast and so well, and I am proud to be a Chinese. I just looked back at myself, it was a mess, and I didn't know if I was dragging my feet.

Adult heartache! How difficult is it for a post-90s woman to pretend to go to work after losing her job? Those who have not experienced it themselves will never understand this feeling, and those who have experienced it will never forget it.

At this time, the inner world is very complicated, full of anxiety, confusion, fear of family worry, disappointment. It's all because you don't dare to face reality. I believe that since it has happened, we should face it calmly, and blindly avoiding it will not solve the problem.

It was in 2020, my wife quit her job due to the birth of a child and stayed at home, and my elderly parents also lived with us. At that time, his monthly income was quite considerable, so he never thought about what would happen if he lost his job. At the end of the year, because of the problem of benefit distribution and the stiffness of the leadership, he impulsively proposed to resign.

With my lactating wife and elderly parents, I don't want to add extra psychological burden to them. Then I went out on time as usual, went home on time, and when I got home, I had to pretend to talk to my wife about what happened in the company, and so half a month passed, and I went to a KFC every day for half a month to sit down, order nothing, and start submitting resumes. I didn't tell my family until half a month later when I completed the onboarding procedures at the new company, but I still kept silent about my experience in the past six months.

People have to go to middle age, there is no time to be quiet, there must be someone to carry the weight of the people to middle age, in the face of the old and old life will really have a lot of last resort, dare not easily jump ship, dare not easily start a business, dare not easily confide in front of the family. But as the pillars of the family, they dare not and cannot fall easily, no one is born strong, everyone gradually becomes strong in the long-term training. Summary:

If you are going through this situation, please cherish this experience of your infiltration, it will be a whetstone for your success in the future, if you find that your family is going through this, needless to say, be more tolerant of him, at this moment only love can motivate him to move on.

I will do my own thing in my life every day, and I will be very tired when I go to work and regret it. In order not to worry parents. Some people don't work until 12 o'clock in the middle of the night every day.

After the 80s and 90s, if there is no accumulation of original family capital, most people will struggle to earn the first pot of gold in their lives. This has nothing to do with whether you work hard or not, because this generation has experienced the country's reform again and again, and it is indeed the most stressful generation. In 1980, the country began family planning, and many of the post-80s and post-90s generations were independent seedlings; In 1997, the university began to charge fees, and the post-80s generation gradually entered the university; In 2008, housing prices rose sharply, and the post-80s and post-90s began to get married and buy houses; In 2015, the birth of a second child was encouraged, and both men and women were facing the pressure of childbearing; In the next 2030, the country's population will age, and they will face the pressure of four old people and two children, plus housing loans and car loans.

Their parents' generation is looking for a partner, and they are more pragmatic and sincere, and when they are looking for a partner in their generation, they are looking for real gold. At this time, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher year by year, and there are more and more older women and men left. You say you are poor, you have a job, you say you are rich, you have no money in your pocket, you say you are lazy, you go out early and return late every day.

Why is this generation so tired? Because they know too much and see too much, the gap between reality and expectation is getting bigger and bigger, working hard for a month, paying off mortgages and car loans, and giving 100,000 to hundreds of thousands of bride price money for marriage, which is so scary that people can't stand it. Why do so many people not want to get married?

Because they know that firewood, rice, oil, and salt need to be smashed with money, and now that there is no money in this society, do you dare to get married? Do you dare to have children? Many people around you may say that it is good to be happy and happy in this life, but in fact, if you can't make money, your family will not be happy, your parents think you are incompetent, your lover thinks you are not motivated, relatives and friends think you are incapable, if you don't make yourself worthy, the boss will find someone to replace you every second.

This is the most real status quo of the post-80s and post-90s.

Some people will comment on the post-90s, "the post-90s generation is the generation that leads to the decline of national morality", and it is "the most decadent generation in China". Many people think that the post-90s generation is the generation that stretches out their hands for clothes and opens their mouths for food, and the generation that is soaked in a honeypot all day long, so this also creates a bad personality of the post-90s generation such as laziness and playfulness.

However, dare to ask you those who criticize us post-90s: Are those outstanding post-90s students also what you imagined? If you want me to say, you should be good at discovering our strengths!

Let me say that I think we post-90s people are full of personality and charm. You must know that the era of the post-80s generation has passed, and the post-90s boom has already come.

Mr. Liang Qichao once said: "The wisdom of the youth is the wisdom of the country, the wealth of the youth is the wealth of the country, the strength of the youth is the strength of the country, the independence of the youth is the independence of the country, the freedom of the youth is the freedom of the country, and the progress of the youth is the progress of the country." ”

Yes, we are the flowers of the motherland, the future of the motherland, and the hope of the motherland is pinned on us. However, our personality will not change because of the magnitude of the task......

The post-90s generation may be a little willful, maybe very eager to break free from the shackles of parents, or maybe prefer freedom.

We born in the 90s may be very elusive, maybe our language is a little rude, or our behavior is a little naïve.

90 of us are the pearls of our parents, and they take us in their mouths and are afraid; Hold it in your hand, afraid of falling off; I carried it in my arms, afraid of losing it. The more they love us, the more we want to break free from their arms. As a result, adults call the act of not following the trajectory drawn by adults "rebellion".

As everyone knows, we still have our own ideas, and adults will always say, "We are from here, we have walked more roads than you have crossed, and we have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice." "As everyone knows, we also want to have our own, a free blue sky.

But the adults said: "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer a loss in front of you, and don't regret it until everything is irreparable!" Therefore, we had to reluctantly accept everything they had arranged for us according to the wishes of the adults.

We are post-90s, and sometimes we think of giving up, but after all, we grit our teeth and persevere. So I firmly believe that there is no hurdle in life, and we will still live with a smile and go on bravely on the road of life!

In this way, we hummed "Conquest" and walked in the forefront of the times, free and suffocating. In the face of the disdain of others, the belief in our hearts stands firm: we are non-mainstream, the darlings of the new era, and we must fight endlessly.

Fight tenaciously in adversity, move forward bravely in the wind and rain, and create the atmosphere of our times...