Why doesn t my boyfriend like reaching out to me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe it's because he's busy, as his girlfriend, you should give him a little more considerate and considerate of him, care about him, call a few more ** greetings to him, make him feel that you care about him, and make him feel more secure and solid with you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Quite normal. I'm the same as your boyfriend.

    But I'm a girl.

    I also have a good relationship with my boyfriend.

    But I like that he takes the initiative to find me.

    That feels good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He belongs to that kind of machismo, right?

    If you want him to take the initiative, you must cold him for a few days before you can get a certain effect.

    A macho man always feels that others are revolving around him, and he will not easily understand the feelings of others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's natural to get used to it.

    You endure not contacting him for a few days, and you see if he contacts you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He's probably that kind of character, no matter who contacts whom, the main thing is that you have a good relationship, isn't it?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then you will also walk him coldly for a few days, it is really useless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because sex is too frequent.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My boyfriend was like that.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. This is a man with ego

    In fact, everyone's lifestyle and concept are completely different, some people in love, hope that the other party can be independent, do not interfere with their own life, and such a man, he does not like the kind of woman who is very sticky to him, he hopes that the other party can have their own work circle, also have their own friends. Because such a man is more self-oriented, he thinks that I also have my personal life, and if you are too clingy to me, then it will make me feel very uncomfortable, so in such a state, this kind of man will not take the initiative to contact you.

    2. I don't like you enough

    When the love is deep, it needs to be expressed through a channel, when a man really likes you, he wants to know what you are doing, do you miss him now? So in such a state, he will definitely take the initiative to contact you, so when a man has never contacted you again, then it can only mean that he really doesn't like you enough, and you are not so important in his heart, so they are not willing to take the initiative to contact.

    3. It is inconvenient to contact you

    This situation is actually quite scary, for example, he has a pond, you are just a fish in this pond, and there are many fish in this ancestral hall, so when a man is with other women, he will definitely not take the initiative to contact you. And when you contact him, he is always slow to reply to messages, so you have to observe your boyfriend well, if there is another woman, if there is, you still have to stay away from such a scumbag.

    Conclusion:

    Feelings need to be paid to each other, when you have been giving, the other party does not give you any response, and this relationship is unbalanced, sooner or later there will be problems, so I hope that women who encounter this kind of problem should seriously consider whether to continue or not, and protect themselves in the face of this situation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your boyfriend never takes the initiative to contact you, it doesn't mean that you don't like it, it depends on your personality, some people have a dull personality, while some people are more extroverted and good at expressing their emotions, so it is recommended to communicate more with your boyfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, if he really likes you, he will take the initiative to contact you, instead of waiting for you to contact him, and if he doesn't contact you, it means that he doesn't like you that much, and he doesn't have deep feelings for you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course not. Because your boyfriend is busy with work and doesn't have time to contact you, you should never think about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My boyfriend never takes the initiative to contact me, does my boyfriend not love me?

    One: I don't like it enough, when I like a person, I will exclude omnipotent contact with her, even if I don't say it in my mouth, it will run out of my eyes, and he likes you but doesn't take the initiative to find you for the reason, I'm afraid that I don't like it enough, I don't need to take the initiative to contact, and there may only be a degree of good feeling for the time being.

    Second: inferiority, I heard a passage before, the boy has no house, no car, no deposit, but the girl likes him very much, he refused, he said, she is not sensible, I have to understand, this is what I have heard only the words of the heart, sometimes, the boy does bear a lot more responsibility than the girl, the girl can go to the rivers and lakes alone, and the boy has to move forward under a lot of pressure. In front of a girl you like too, you can't take the initiative and can't accept it.

    Third: He doesn't like you, the biggest illusion in life, he likes you, do you think he likes you why he doesn't take the initiative to contact you, maybe that's just your own wishful thinking, he doesn't like you, even, you're just a stranger in him, love is often like this, Cupid.

    is only responsible for shooting one person, and the other person is random, and in the end, you are alone in lovesickness, and others don't know at all.

    Your boyfriend never reaches out to you. It shows that he doesn't love you at all. You're not the type he likes, he doesn't contact you every day and cares about you.

    Then you should break up with him. A man who doesn't love you. What's the use of you taking the initiative?

    If he likes you, he will reach out to you. If you don't get in touch, you're giving up. Maybe he wants to break up with you.

    I didn't say it. You should just give up your boyfriend. It means that your relationship has faded.

    It's no longer suitable to be together. There is no need to force it anymore. Let go when you let go.

    Find your next new relationship.

    It's beautiful for girls to like someone, but if you can afford it, you have to put it down, and there is nothing that you can't get over.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not a sign that you don't love you, it's very likely that your boyfriend isn't having time to reach out to you while he's doing his own thing, so there's no need to guess too much about whether he loves you or not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, I think if your boyfriend doesn't take the initiative to contact you, it means that your boyfriend loves you, and if this person likes you very much, he will often contact you and find you often.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think it's a matter of love or not anymore, it's obviously using you as a spare tire.

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