Why do two people live together and be unhappy for some trivial things?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    That's because what he does doesn't meet your requirements and you don't like it; In the same way, he does not agree with you, and you do something that he cannot accept. People are very selfish and quarrels arise when you fail to meet each other's specified standards. You are rightfully angry, you feel that he doesn't respect you, yells at you whenever something happens, and doesn't have the patience to listen to you.

    You can tell him what you feel in your heart, and ask him to lower his voice the next time he speaks, because you are not deaf and there is no need to speak loudly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's normal. Women are sensitive.

    Men are often compared to the past.

    As a result, I feel that I don't feel good about myself at all now.

    How was it when I was chasing myself.

    In fact, people have bad roots.

    He can't stay curious and fresh about you forever.

    Living together, love seems dull.

    In fact, plain is true.

    Vigorous love can't last a lifetime.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    That's how two people have been together for a long time. Because we know each other too well, this is why this happens.

    If you want to solve it, it is better to sit down with two people, chat calmly, and talk about each other's feelings.

    It could be better

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It seems to be a common problem of love between men and women...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I've been making a big splash.

    Because there's a deadline waiting for us.

    So go on with a bang until the end.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. If two people are together, only occasionally make some small awkwardness, unhappy, it's nothing, two people together, just like teeth and tongue, there are always some small collisions, tolerate each other, don't let a small thing, affect the beautiful friendship. 2. If two people are together if they are unhappy from the heart, everything is not pleasing to the eye, be careful, and think calmly about the problems between the two, I think unhappy is not the purpose of your pursuit of love, because love is a process of adapting to each other, if you can't adapt to it, it is better to end it early, which is good for both parties!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If two people don't get along well together and can't be happy, then it's best to choose one thing for the two to do together, and then you can cultivate the interests and hobbies of the two people, so that the two people can be happy together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If two people are together, they can't always be happy, then there is no need to be together, if two people really have each other in their hearts, it is a very happy and happy thing, you have this feeling, it means that the two of you don't have each other in your hearts, in this case, it's better to break up as soon as possible.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then this relationship must be painful, you can create a small romance, buy some small gifts according to the other party's preferences, which can increase the feelings of both parties and make each other happy, you must learn to take the initiative, take the initiative to make love complete.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Are you sure that the two of you are in love, if the two of you really love each other, how can you not be happy, if you can't be happy, then let's be separated for a period of time to see if something is wrong.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The fact that two people can't feel happy and always miserable when they are together shows that two people are not very suitable. Two people should give up the relationship in order to be able to regain their freedom.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Those two people should try to find each other's strengths, you appreciate each other, you can make it possible for two people. There is something to talk about, and it makes it fun for two people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no need to insist at all. Life is short, live happily.

    When two people are together, what is needed is love, not improvisation. There is love reflected in all aspects, there are common topics, there are similar three views, you will not get bored with each other, you will be at peace when you are together, you will not feel depressed and uneasy, and you will not feel that you want to be alone. Of course, there will be a lot of contradictions and frictions after two people get married, but they must be able to understand each other, know each other's difficulties, be able to change some bad habits for each other, and be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings and deficiencies.

    However, there is a kind of resentment, may be very in love, but also kill each other, not together when missing each other, together and contradictory constantly, chickens fly and dogs jump, this is also in the current society is also a lot, unwilling to change the status quo, and want to live together for a long time, this is a deformed relationship, love does not mean appropriate, like this case, but the long pain is not as good as the short pain, timely withdrawal is the best policy, let yourself live happily, in order to have a better future.

    The last is that the two personalities can't get along in all aspects, but they have a child, so there is the idea of forbearance for the sake of the child. Parents love their children and don't want their children to live in a divorced family, but as everyone knows, only parents love each other is the best love and education for their children.

    Therefore, if two people are really unhappy, they should simply boldly separate, the road of life is very long, and they need to be accompanied by a smile, and a loving family is the normal family that people should pursue.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Actually, I don't think it's necessary to insist, because both people start to be unhappy together, and slowly more complaints and disappointments will accumulate, and one day they will break out, and the two of them will be even more sad. If you really love each other, you have to change.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is no need, two people should be happy together, if they are not happy together, then there is no need to be together, it is better to be alone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, I think that if two people are very unhappy together, then there is no need to insist at all, this kind of persistence is meaningless, and it will only make the relationship between two people worse.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If two people are unhappy together, I don't think there is any need to persevere, and continuing to insist will only make yourself miserable, and living in pain every day is not torturing yourself?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no need. According to my experience as a person who has come before, if two people are unhappy together, there must be a problem, and it depends on whether someone between the two of you stands up to solve these problems. If you continue to solve it and are unhappy, then you don't have to hold on.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Personally, I don't think there is any need to insist, because two people together are not a few days, or a few weeks to endure and pass, it is necessary to support each other for a lifetime, since you are not happy with this person, then you don't need to settle, it is better to choose what can make you happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are not happy together, it is pain. Because it is impossible to be happy all the time, the most important thing is whether the two of you will be sad when you are together, this is the most important thing, from the perspective of us adults, there is no need to insist on it, but you think about it, if you don't stick to it, you will regret it. Ask yourself before you decide.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no need to insist, because falling in love is an act of testing each other, that is, to see if it is suitable to be together, as long as you are unhappy, you will immediately separate.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no need, since you are not happy together, it is better to say goodbye sooner or later, if you don't say anything, it will be torture for yourself and the other party, but it will make the relationship between you worse and worse.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's necessary, because when you first got together, you must have been happy, and now you're unhappy, maybe because of something, and all you have to do is he just communicates and solves this matter, not separates.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't think it should be insisted on anymore, because there is no need for everyone to compromise, and if two people are unhappy together, then they should stop the loss in time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Personally, I feel that two people are unhappy together, and there is no need to continue to insist on it, so dragging it out is torment, and it is not good for each other, so it is better to let go as soon as possible and find your own happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course, there is no need, because the purpose of being together is to be happy and happy in the future, not to compromise.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think if two people are not happy together, then there is no need to persevere, because the most important thing for two people together is to be happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There's no need anymore, I think it's important to be with people who make me happy. That's how you feel happy.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. Kiss <>

    I'm happy to answer for you, bad things always happen when two people are together, two couples are together, or they are married together. If you encounter bits and pieces in life, there will always be disagreements, so you will quarrel, and then you may have a cold war, resulting in the marriage not being able to continue. <>

    <> if two people are together, they can tolerate each other's shortcomings, understand each other's difficulties and helplessness, care a little more, and be a little more rational, so that bad things will not always happen. <>

    Bad things always happen when two people are together.

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    I'm happy to answer for you, bad things always happen when two people are together, two couples are together, or they are married together. If you encounter bits and pieces in life, there will always be disagreements, so you will quarrel, and then you may have a cold war, resulting in the marriage not being able to continue. <>

    <> if two people are together, they can tolerate each other's shortcomings, understand each other's difficulties and helplessness, care a little more, and be a little more rational, so that bad things will not always happen. <>

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  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Summary. Dear I hope this reply can help you to the greatest extent If you have any emotional problems in the future, please feel free to contact this side The teacher will be the first to reply to you The whole process will be confidential The teacher can help you analyze the specific problem The teacher has many years of experience in dealing with feelings No matter which aspect of love, family and friendship, the teacher can help you to the greatest extent Solve problems for you Finally, I wish you good health and a happy mood Welcome to like it Pay attention and don't get lost<>

    If two people are not happy together, do they still want to be together.

    Good evening, dear<>

    It's necessary to be together.

    The first reason is that no one is in love without contradictions, every couple has it, it's just a matter of the size of the contradiction! So, you can stick to it, because this kind of thing is really very simple, it's always a contradiction, it's no big deal, hold on, you can!

    The second reason is that if you have children, or even if something happens to you, such as you have gone out and had sex, then you have a conflict and you have to break up? I'm a traditional person, since you have children or have already had sex, you should take your love seriously, isn't that what love is?

    The third reason is that if you used to get along very well, then you are together, and there have been problems during this time, which is understandable! This is what you should go through, there is really no way to say this kind of thing, everything is fine after getting through it, if you can't get through it, the two of you may be finished, no matter what happens, being together is the most important thing!

    Dear I hope this reply can help you to the greatest extent If you have any emotional problems in the future, please feel free to contact this side The teacher will be the first to reply to you The whole process will be confidential The teacher can help you analyze the specific problem The teacher has many years of experience in dealing with feelings No matter which aspect of love, family and friendship, the teacher can help you to the greatest extent Solve problems for you Finally, I wish you good health and a happy mood Welcome to like it Pay attention and don't get lost<>

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In addition to life, there are feelings, the feelings between husband and wife, and more importantly, living for themselves, from the original love to being together, isn't it a happy ending, do you have to be separated, you are willing, so you would rather be together than choose to separate.

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