Why is it that none of the partners we choose in the end are the ones we love the most?

Many people have such a feeling that the person who can accompany us to the end is often not the one they love the most. In fact, this is a normal phenomenon, we meet the people we love the most at the best age. I also chose the one who was most suitable for me at the age suitable for marriage.

Love and marriage are two different things, in love we can choose the girl we like; Even if the other party doesn't like you very much, as long as you can become a couple, you can accept it. Marriage is a lifelong thing, and many people will think carefully and make the best choice.

Couples and couples are only one word apart, but they have completely different meanings and weights. The object of love is called a couple, and the other half of a marriage is called a partner. Couples can be a short-term relationship, or a long-distance love run.

Although they are lovers, they do not have a legal and stable relationship with each other.

A partner is different from a couple, the other half of a marriage, someone who can accompany us for the rest of our lives. When choosing a couple, we will refer to our personal preferences to find the other half we like. Partners need to be together for a lifetime, and many people will choose the one who suits them best.

The liking of appearance is not enough to sustain the two of them for the rest of their lives; Only the right two people can help each other for the rest of their lives.

Beautiful love always happens when we are young and ignorant, and although love at this time is beautiful, it is also like a bubble that bursts at the touch of a bubble. It is precisely because of its beauty that many people will never forget it.

As we grow older, our love experiences and life experiences will become richer. When choosing a partner, more often than not, the reality of the situation is taken into account. When we are mature in our minds, we will inevitably choose to live with the people who are most beneficial to us.

Most people have a favorite person in their hearts. This is an untouchable character, and it is impossible to forget the other person. But if you want to have a result with the other party, it is tantamount to a fool's dream.

So I sighed that people who get married are often not the people they love the most.

We have experienced the polishing of reality and have lowered our standards of love, so we often end up looking for something that we don't love the most.

It may be that they have grown up, or they may have treated others with sincerity, so there is no result, and many people do not choose the person they particularly like in the end.

Because marriage is about suitability, it has nothing to do with love.

Being with your significant other is a particularly important thing in life. In each of our lives, there are special moments in which we make up our minds to be with our current significant other. I'll break them down below.

1.Emotional interaction.

In the process of getting along, I deeply realized that the current other half is not only full of energy, but also shows rich emotions for me, which makes us more attracted to each other and deepen the emotional interaction.

2.Plan for the future.

In the process of getting along, we constantly discuss future plans and ideas, choose the right goals together and work hard to achieve them. This positive interaction and communication pattern has strengthened my determination to be with my current partner.

3.Support and encouragement.

At the time of my life's low point, my current partner was always by my side, giving me endless support and encouragement, and this unwavering support and understanding began to make me realize that this person must be my willing to be with me until the end of my life.

4.Common hobbies.

5.An unexpected encounter.

We met by accident, but in the short time we met, I felt the tacit understanding and mutual understanding between us, which made me determined to be with my current partner and let the good fate continue.

All in all, each of us has our own original reasons for being with our current partner. All of the above reasons are one of the reasons why I am with my current partner. It takes time and experience to find the right partner, but being able to be with someone who accompanies you every day, every second, must be one of the happiest things in life.

How many choices can there be in love? Do people who obviously don't like it still want to be together? Sometimes people get along with people for a long time.

You can also try to spend some time with the other person, give the other person a chance, see if you can really accept him in your heart, and then make a decision for yourself. People who didn't like him before slowly discovered that he had a lot of good points, so their hearts changed and they began to like him slowly. At the age when we are going to get married, or when others think we should get married, when we haven't met someone we like more, we often have to lower our standards in order to get married.

At this time, we will always meet some people, their conditions are really okay, similar to us, better than us, and they are willing to be with us. Maybe we don't hate each other, and we even have a little affection. Maybe we really don't like each other at all, we don't have any feelings at all, and we don't want to develop anything.

Everyone likes to marry the person they love if they can. Everyone is an independent person. First and foremost, we belong to ourselves.

We have ideas, we have personalities, and we don't give it all to each other.

We can have reservations, such as privacy that you don't want to talk about. People with secrets are mature, aren't they? Sometimes it's better not to say it.

If someone in a relationship doesn't love, it won't last. Everyone knows that love can't be forced, but that doesn't just mean you can't force someone to be with you, it also means that you shouldn't be with someone who doesn't like you that much. On the contrary, if you don't like someone that much, don't easily choose to agree to the other person's pursuit and be with the other person.

Starting a relationship is also a commitment. We are willing to care for each other and love each other. Before making a decision, you must think about what will make the other person happy.

At the right age, meeting the right person, holding hands and getting married, no matter what you think, is a good thing. Everyone wants to have that kind of luck. In fact, everything doesn't have to be just right.

More often than not, when it's time to get married, we often don't have a choice when we look around. At the right age, meeting the right person, holding hands and getting married, no matter what you think, is a good thing. Everyone wants to have that kind of luck.

Actually, everything doesn't have to be just right. More often than not, when it's time to get married, looking around, we often have no choice. You can't choose the person you like, but you can find someone who doesn't hate you, gets along comfortably, and is physiologically acceptable.

It doesn't really matter. Such feelings between two people can often be cultivated slowly.

If you don't like each other, you will slowly find that getting along with each other is a torment, because you don't know what kind of mentality to face each other, you can't look down on everything the other party does, and you feel that what the other party does is very unpleasant to you. The better he treats you, the more irritated you feel, and everything he does is a burden to you. Only when you are with someone you really like, will you find the good of the other person, will you learn to appreciate the other person's behavior, and discover the shining point of the other person.

<> emotional things can't be settled, if you don't like someone, why should you be with the other person? This is not only a compromise for yourself, but also a disservice to others, because you can never give reciprocal feelings, which is unfair to others. Like should be a beautiful thing, is a feeling from the heart, when in love, the feelings between two people should be equal, if one party pays more, the other party pays less, then the two people may cause conflicts, only equal feelings will last longer.

There are many choices for love, and everyone has their own happiness in their hands; I don't think it's necessary to be together, if someone you don't like very much wants to be together, there must be benefits, and it will be good for yourself.

There are two choices in love, choose the person you love or choose the person who loves you; Don't choose to be together if you don't like people very much, if you are together, you will force yourself, which is not conducive to the relationship between two people.

I think there is only one choice for love; Don't be together, if you force yourself together, you will be wronged, and both of you are wasting time.