After marrying far away, do you regret it? Do you regret marrying far away?

Marrying far away doesn't necessarily mean regretting it. Some people say: If you marry the right person, you will be happy no matter how far you go, and if you marry the wrong person, you won't be able to marry a village!

Therefore, before getting married, you must understand each other's original family, living habits and principles of doing things. Otherwise, after getting married, I will be angry here, ** will be wronged, and I will naturally regret marrying far away.

If your husband is financially strong, coupled with the current developed transportation, the distance of marrying is not a difficult thing for you. If the other party's parents are good to you, and you can coax your in-laws, then life after marriage will not be too difficult. Therefore, marrying far away is not necessarily about marrying ten times and regretting nine times, the key is to see how your in-laws are.

Many women who marry far away do not consider the issue of "long marriage" before marrying far away, but they just feel that everything is a matter of course, everything is the best arrangement, and it will only get better and better, but they regret it after marrying far away.

Women who regret marrying far away have roughly these two kinds of problems:

Some are because they can't take care of their parents' family after marrying far away, and it is not convenient to be filial to their parents, so they always feel guilty and afraid of leaving the regret of "the son wants to raise but does not treat".

Some are because they are not treated well by their in-laws after marrying far away, and they are so far away from their parents' homes that they don't even have anyone to ask for help, so they always think of escaping.

The reason why these problems arise is that many times because of what we said at the beginning, these women did not consider the issue of "long-distance marriage" when they got married, but just thought that they should be able to. But this does not mean that all women who marry far away will regret it, and there are many women who do not regret it after marrying far away, and these women undoubtedly decide to marry after being fully prepared.

1.It is certainly impossible to return home often if you marry far away.

Before marriage, you may feel that the transportation is convenient now, and you can go back if you want to go home, but later you will find that due to time reasons and various reasons, you can't go back a few times a year.

2.It's sure to be a bit uncomfortable at first, because there are a lot of differences between some regions.

Take my friend as an example, my friend went to Chengdu from Jingzhou, Hubei Province to live, in fact, in terms of taste, the food in Chengdu is more numb and spicy than ours, and you need to get used to it. Then they spoke a lot of Sichuan dialect, and they didn't understand it at first, but they also needed to get used to it slowly.

3.You will feel lonely, and most girls who have just married far away have just been married, and they have no friends or family except for colleagues at work.

Take my friend as an example, when I first started, I basically stayed with my husband, and then I slowly had friends, but it must be difficult to find friends.

4.When you quarrel, you will find yourself a little helpless and have nowhere to go.

Take my friend as an example, my friend has a good relationship with her husband, but when no one has quarreled, he was not sensible at first, and when he quarreled, he wanted to run away from home, and he couldn't pull it, and he wanted to buy a ticket to go back to his parents' house, but it was so easy, it was too far.

No. Marrying far away has always required enough courage to make a choice. It will be easy to feel dissatisfied with your situation, and if the relationship is not as good as you thought later, you will always complain about yourself, and it will be difficult to start all over again.

Marrying far away in a strange environment, unfamiliar with life, no relatives, no friends, except for your husband, everything else is unknown. The only thing you can rely on is your husband, and some men even if you give up precious things for him, but these things are worthless in his eyes and there is no way to empathize.

As an only child, it is impossible to abandon his parents, and he is really reluctant to leave his parents. During the New Year's holidays, before you get married, you are a family sitting together, and if you marry far away, you stay at the man's house for the New Year. At that time, if you think about your parents, only the two of them are around a table and eating a reunion dinner, and every time you think about it, your thoughts are even deeper.

Alone in a foreign land, if you are wronged in your in-law's house, you will be isolated. If there is a conflict between husband and wife, it will be over, and the man's family will definitely be on his side. It's strange to start a new life in a new city, not as familiar as before you go back home. Homesickness is also certain.

I don't regret marrying far away, and the quality of the marriage is directly related to my brother Yinbu. If you live happily after marriage, you will definitely not regret marrying far away. If the marriage is not happy, I am sure that I will regret it.

The courage of every girl who marries far away at that time is commendable, and what she sees before marriage is the flowers before the moon, sweet and romantic. It automatically shields the hidden risks of long-distance marriage, ignoring the longing brought by being away from family and home.

With the development of society, more and more people are now marrying far away, and those who are three or four hundred kilometers away from home are not too far, and some are even one or two thousand kilometers away from home, just for the love at the beginning.

I just want to ask everyone, do you regret marrying far away?

I don't know if others regret it, I only know that I married far away, although I don't regret it, but if time comes back, I will definitely listen to my mother.

My mother-in-law's house is about 400 kilometers away from my mother's house, and it takes more than 5 hours to drive, although I go back to my mother's house once or twice a year, but my feeling is: it is really inconvenient to be far away.

First: it is inconvenient to go home. Take the Spring Festival every year as an example, although my husband accompanies me back to my mother's house every year for the New Year (in this regard, my husband has indeed always been dominated by my needs), but every time I go back to catch up with the noon meal, I have to get up at 5 o'clock in the morning, and then pack up my things or something, all the way around, and I will worry about safety on the way.

If I get married, I can get there in an hour, and I can go to my parents' house early to talk to everyone, and there will be no such problems as rushing.

The second: high overhead. If you marry far away, every time you go back to your parents' house, you are spending money, and if you don't have money in your hand, you can't afford to pay it back. Although it takes money to get married, fuel and tolls are additional expenses.

The third: very lonely and stupid. People who marry far away will have a feeling of loneliness, even if the family over there is good to you, but from time to time there will always be inexplicable emotions welling up in your heart.

Fourth: marrying far away is a big gamble. Take your life to bet on the longevity of love, to bet on whether your vision is sharp, to win the bet and be very happy in your life, and to lose the bet and not even have the courage to go home.

It's a pity that there is no turning back in life, what I can do now is to live well and reassure my parents. But I will definitely use my own experience to warn my daughter in the future, if you can, please don't marry far away!

Before a woman has experienced marriage, she will confidently think that she can live well, and she is full of confidence that the man she chooses can be relied on, willing to give everything for that man, and willing to follow him to the end of the world.

In reality, there are many women who marry far away for love, away from family and friends, away from familiar environments, and live in a new place. Are these women who marry far away doing well? Do the men they want to follow value them?

Do they regret marrying away? Three women who marry far away speak the truth.

Ms. Yang: I regret marrying far away.

If I had another choice, I wouldn't marry far away. It's really too bitter to marry far away, if the marriage is happy, if you are not happy, if your husband and in-laws bully you, you don't even have a place to stay, you don't even have the confidence to quarrel, others are sleepy, you go, it's like ten thousand mountains pressing down.

At the beginning, my parents did not agree with me marrying far away, because I naively thought that as long as I managed it well, he would cherish me, but unfortunately in reality it was not. Marriage is two people's efforts, not one person's efforts, you do too much, the other party does not cherish it, and there will be no good results.

After only three years of marriage, I regretted marrying far away, the man I followed all my life did not cherish me because I gave up everything with him, on the contrary, he felt that I was weak, there was no one to rely on, everything depended on him, so he began to bully me and lie to me.

Because it was too far away from my parents' home, I only had the opportunity to go back to my parents' home once in the fifth year of marriage. The moment I stepped on my homeland, I cried, and when I left my mother's house, I looked at my parents' reluctant eyes, and looked at my parents' smaller and smaller figures, I regretted it even more, the rest of my life was long, but it was so difficult for me to even see my parents.

People who marry far away have regrets, but as time goes by, they find that it is impossible to have the best of both worlds, far and near from their parents are chosen by themselves, don't regret it, it will bring you confusion, surprises, sadness, touching, all kinds of mixed tastes, whether it is far or near from parents, there will be people who accept it calmly, still face, come on, and marry far away.

I'm sure I'll regret it sometimes, but so what? Who can blame you for your chosen path?

Some will regret it, some won't, anyway, I don't want my daughter to marry far away.

As for the word distant marriage, I also experienced ten years of married life before I gradually realized the true meaning behind these two words. Compared with the literal understanding, the deeper meaning is that the role play as a woman, wife, and mother all play different meanings.

When I came to this city, I was still a girl in the flower season, I was very ignorant of the future, how small I was for this flowery metropolis, and life was the experience of different periods that made me who I am now.

Since I was a child, I was used to loneliness, and it is appropriate to describe me as having enough to feed the whole family and not be hungry, and I never thought that a person like me would be able to get married and have children, and also live a married life like a siege.

I don't know what marriage is, how to be a mother, no one has taught me, and I haven't taught it in textbooks, and I've seen a lot of Kaidan's chicken soup only to find that it is all on my own to digest and change.

After I experienced the pain of marriage, helplessness, and countless times of wanting to give up, I realized that it takes courage to marry far away, and I saw a text, please love the girl who marries far away, because she gave up her family to come to the city where there is only you. It's a very heavy topic, I envy that I can go home to have my mother's cooking, and I can talk to my father about work, such a simple daily life is very difficult for me to achieve.

It is also through married life that I know how important it is to have similar interests, like-mindedness, and a good heart, and it is the most helpless choice to look down on everything. It's possible that the other party thinks the same as me. Have you ever felt this way?

I once wanted to feel after leaving.

My opinion:1If the original family is unhappy, you can consider marrying far away.

2.After marrying far away, you may not regret love in the future, but you must have regrets about family affection.

I also liked a girl before I was called, and I had a crush for a long time, and when I confessed, I learned that she already had a boyfriend out of town, and I tried my best to pursue and keep it, but in the end nothing came of it.

Viewpoint 2 summarizes the time when the hail was buried and withered.