About one foot on two boats

It seems that such a problem is often encountered, under the pressure of family, friends, and oneself, two people who obviously love each other cannot come together. Judging from your problems, all you see are other people's thoughts, your boyfriend cares about you, and your family is not satisfied with your boyfriend's financial conditions. You never ask yourself what kind of life you want?

Do you want a material life or a spiritual life? But no matter what, the family members all hope that you are well, they are sorry that you will live too hard in the future, and they hope that you will not worry about food, clothing, housing and transportation, and there will be no material burden. Perhaps, you don't value money, and you can live a very happy and happy life with this rich boy.

I think if that's the case, you'll feel sorry for the boy from before. Perhaps, you will still be with your current boyfriend despite the opposition of your family, but if you have a hard time, you will regret it. You may not be old enough to get married, but these questions still need to be considered.

So I think the most important thing now is to think clearly, what kind of life you want, after being with this boy whose family environment is not good, can you fight for the future life of the two of you, and you are very happy and enjoy the struggle; With a boy from a better family, will he treat you sincerely, and will you and him also have a good time? When people come to this world, we must not forget the original purpose of our life, and we want to enjoy life, regardless of poverty or wealth.

Marriage matters should be decided by your own thoughts and needs.

What kind of vision do you have for the future?

Everything that is done now is to prepare for the future.

Think about it yourself.

Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, and if there is any disagreement between the two families before marriage, it will become an obstacle after marriage. Not all the words of the elderly are accurate and reliable, their words are only for reference, not to ultimately determine the direction of your life. The key is whether your boyfriend has the potential to give you future security and happiness, if you really want to be with him, you have to try to get used to both families, and try to change their concepts, fortunately only you can experience happiness.

It's man-made!

Big sister. Although I don't understand anything. But I want you to make your own choice.

You know it too. A reluctant marriage will not be happy. If your family is against you being with the person you love, try to get your boyfriend to do something that they admire.

It's been like this for a long time. Your parents will gradually think that he is very good, and I will say this. Think about it.

Attention. I'm not here to get points.

Look at how you know these two men, choose a good one, pay attention to your feelings, and the introduction of your family is guaranteed! But don't let someone else's family conditions be bad, as long as he is good enough for you! You should choose him!

When I grew up, I realized that it is not easy to love someone, and there will always be so much resistance. Either endure or be cruel. Strive for happiness by yourself, sometimes hurting early is better than hurting late, which will make each other better, so that it is better for yourself and others.

Well, this one! Argue with your arguments and ask your boyfriend to show your parents that you can be just as happy living with him!

It depends on how you choose, whether you like him as a person or whether you like his property! Hey hey marriage event, 3 think before acting!

Ask yourself. Family conditions are not very important to yourself.

Stepping on two boats is not only irresponsible for others, but also irresponsible for oneself, and in the end it is everyone who hurts, usually such a person will end up with nothing, isn't the standard of true love the only one? The minimum standard can't be done, it's disrespectful to others, and if you want others to respect you, you first have to respect others, right? It's the shore when you turn back