Excuse me, I am often beaten by my parents at home, do you have any psychological persuasion methods

What is this? Four?

Look what's the reason, I don't know how old you are as a child. Actually, I was too, when I was younger, it was for the sake of learning. My mother often beat me, and I was also very hurt (psychologically) I remember, when I was in high school, my mother had to beat me because of my studies, and then I made up my mind to learn a sample word to show her, now I graduated from college, and I have been a teacher in a key high school directly under the province for two years, and she doesn't care what I do now, which means that she loves me very much.

If your family beats you because of something about studying, it is because they love you and want you to be well, but the method is not right, and the next time he beats you again, you will not say a word, and only say a word in the end"I have left you in order to have a chance"After that, you study hard, don't talk to them, go into your own room to study after eating, and after a long time, they will be afraid of you! Hehe!

It seems that it is due to family reasons, and I talk to my family more, and I also have to have a clue about how to do things.

Why do parents hit you? Did you do something wrong or something wrong? You have to think about the places where you have done nothing wrong, if you have done something wrong, the parents have beaten you for your own good, you should know how to reflect, and you can also communicate with parents to replace beating and scolding education with other punishment methods.

Let them beat, and after that you lie on the ground and don't move.

Either way, don't move.

Playing the bitter card, there is also to see if your parents really love you.

The money you don't spend will be spent for you in the future.

In fact, you should think about your parents and understand them from their point of view. After all, it's not easy for parents.

Take your mom out for a few days Remember to bring a bank card I'm there My dad didn't go to us for three days.

You are part of the family. As a child, you should gradually improve the relationship between your parents in your daily life. It's a test of IQ and an opportunity to exercise and mature.

Your dad is not good, you should help your mom. It's called domestic violence, and if your dad continues to beat your mom in the future, don't live with your dad anymore. Your mom is going to be miserable.

My mom and dad quarreled and I almost always threw something or slammed the door, and then they just watched me, and they came to me together when I ran away.

First ask Dad to stop beating Mom, to figure out why this happened to them, and then admonish parents according to the specific incident, if there is something to be reasonable, you can help them.

A woman leaves everything behind and follows a man to a strange environment, and she has to change all or even wipe out all her preferences for this man. As men, how can we bear to add punches and kicks to women who have followed us for so many years!

Well, the average man beats his wife, that is, his wife makes a big mistake or can't see the light, if he drinks too much and beats for no reason, he will beat your father hard.

Let them calm down first, and then do what the child can do, first, let them calm down emotionally, second. Let them both have a good talk, three. Tell your mother not to provoke your father to anger.

You should think more about your mother, but I don't know exactly, I also encountered a quarrel between my parents and my parents, and at that time I would only talk to both of you and persuade together.

You can directly provoke your dad and say if he is a man? You are ready to be beaten yourself, and keep your heart down.

Help your mother carry the beating of your old beans and protect your mother, first of all, make sure that your mother made a mistake?

In any case, it's not right to hit someone, you have to protect your mother, and you can get legal help if necessary.

Don't hit my mom like that again.

Will you listen to what I say?

Don't hit my mom like that again.

Won't your hands hurt?

Actually, I went home and wanted to stop everything.

Let the family return to the past, sweet and warm joyful scent.

At this time, just call ** and discuss it with your dad directly, and just communicate with it

Don't fight Actually, I'm the son of the old king next door.

Men hit women. Shame on taking your mom out for a few days.

Do you first figure out why they are fighting? Then in persuasion and peace.

Separate them, communicate with them separately, persuade them and find out the reason.

Call the police, and it will converge when it is big.

Don't hit because she's your mother. It's a man who can't bully a woman like this! So to speak!

Anyway, your dad is wrong. You have to talk to your father, but if you can't do it, you put pressure on him, and you have to protect your mother.

Hello, either choose to deal with it calmly after a period of separation, or call the police to deal with it when domestic violence occurs again.

Maybe he is under a lot of pressure, in fact, as a parent, he should communicate more with his son, even though he grows up and gets married, everyone still has to sit together to eat, chat, and ask him if he has encountered any troubles in his life, parents should be carefully guided, communicate like friends, and solve problems together. Parents should communicate easily and happily, make jokes, and make the atmosphere harmonious, so that naturally what you say will be listened to in the son's heart, and gradually his personality will become cheerful and lively again. This needs to be persisted for a long time, and the situation will gradually get better, please don't worry too much, and don't find any psychiatrist, parents are the best doctors and friends of their children.

Parents have the ability to transfer their children to several schools, which shows that parents have the means and ability; It also shows that parents love their children very much, and their children's problems are what parents are used to. It is not a psychological barrier, but it is necessary to change the educational method, be strict, and get rid of bad problems.

One of the easiest ways is to spend money on individuals and let them take your kids to military training-like training, such as running, standing in a military posture, as long as one of them doesn't listen, just kick it over, don't learn, practice first. If he can't run, he has to accept it, and if he doesn't eat, then it's okay to get the hospital to get glucose injection.

Then instill in him some correct ideas. It should be okay to get it for a few months, the troops are like this, no matter how many people who can mix outside before, they can be trained in uniform when they enter the army.

It's the easiest way to do it, and it's the most effective way. After all, he is only 12 years old and has strong plasticity, if this baby is trained, he will definitely only listen to you, and he will never dare to go west when you say east.

When did he start doing this?

This situation must be psychological, usually to care more about his ideas, more communication, parents can buy some targeted children's education books to read.

First of all, it is necessary to channel the heart, find out the psychological reasons for him to do this, what he thinks about it, and what events have contributed to his thoughts.

Educate him not to repeat himself, but to establish some basic ideological principles, so that he can understand what is right, what is not so good, how to do very badly, what should be violated and what should be done if there is progress. If you educate him with a superficial nagging or scolding, he is likely to be more rebellious or superficial, and you scold him and promise to continue to do what he wants after that.

If you have the conditions, go to see a psychologist, the choice of a psychologist is also very important, mainly relying on psychological counseling, rather than mechanical techniques, taking medicine, simply judging the child's heart by questionnaires are not good, it is likely to backfire.

Now the child is a critical period, at this time it will be ruined if you take the wrong path, but no matter how anxious you are, you have to calm down, don't hate iron and steel to vent your anger on the child, in general, you still have to really approach him from the heart, care about him, let him feel the love of his parents and the sense of security of the family.

He's just rebellious now, don't blindly blame him, give him a little more care, but don't be too nagging, do the right thing to give him encouragement, after all, it's still a child, it's not bad enough to go, just give encouragement and care more.

Based on the reason why I sometimes got into fights at school, I don't think there should be a mental barrier. Just let him change his temper a little, and I am, it's much better to change his temper.

Not enough love for him. It's as simple as that good family. Children don't get bad so easily

The current post-90s generation is like this, as long as they grow up, fights are trivial.

You find someone to beat him up, this kind of person can't do it without suffering a little.

Find a psychiatrist or ask him to learn something.

I used to think I shouldn't fight, but later I found out that I can still play if I'm really naughty, but I have to pay attention to the method, children, slap a candy, but don't often, there will be shadows.

According to my theory, go straight to the woman, and then until the guy's son comes to you, force the matter to make it ugly, and further surround your father's side without offending the harassment and intimidating, and force the guy's son to explain the situation while he is not finished with you, so that he understands that there is nothing nice to say about the big thing.

In contrast, he will pay for the murderous cover-up, and even if he is really concerned about his own safety, then the reason for the harassment of the guy will be covered, and the family destroyer will be completely dismantled, and he will leave automatically.

Moderation, don't be spoiled by irrational thoughts, layout, come forward on behalf of your family, but don't be surrounded by your father, including the law, and affect yourself What about that fox, my friend is the same, and I have also experienced it myself, and then I have experienced it too depressing, and then I make a move, and after I force it, it is moderate, and I don't have to be tough, only soft, and it's no better than what you're doing now, do you dare to try, for your family.

Maybe it's a conspiracy theory, and you can't change things without means, because the other party is also making a move, did you take it?

I look at it with a normal heart.

You are not wrong, you are a decent person, for such a father, although he is your father, he has not fulfilled the responsibility of a man and a father at all, so you are not wrong.

Upstairs. After reading the story you wrote, I also felt very depressed. Because that's pretty much the same in my family.

Alas, it is difficult to be a good wife and a filial son. Your mother is so kind-hearted and sensible. And you are beating your father because of your mother's grievances, and your behavior is indeed disobedient, but it is understandable, because at least it is not for yourself.

What I want to tell you is this: Fights and quarrels can only exacerbate conflicts, and are never an effective way to solve problems. If he really doesn't look back, let them go, save each other pain!

Well played, I've got your back! At least I'm angry for your mother! A man like him is not worthy of your respect at all, he is the one who harmed your family! Don't be too sad, as long as you don't learn from your father, live well with your mother and brother!

Although your father is a bit excessive, but you are in China, and the matter of your son beating Lao Tzu is still unacceptable. Although there are some things that cannot be explained, it is impossible to do it. What you can do is enlighten your father and comfort your mother.

Talk to some relatives (those relatives don't want to be the type of family and western), so that the eyes of relatives will also cause some pressure on your dad.

I once punched my father because he couldn't stand his violence and unreasonableness, but I don't feel guilty because even ten deaths were not enough to make up for the damage to my family! He's always been thinking only about himself, and he's always been out on his own, while we're suffering in a broken house! This kind of person is just a waste in the world!!

It's just bad luck that I can't choose my own life experience, otherwise I'd rather die for a long time when my father was born! It's better than being tortured by more than ten years of grievances!

I didn't think there was anything wrong with that. First of all, your father didn't take care of the responsibilities of a family!

As a father, you can teach your son what is right and what is wrong! Then why can't the son teach his father what is right and what is wrong?

If I were you, I would! Because how important a complete family is to a person!

Don't be sad and blame yourself, such a man is not worth it, even if she is your father? should be beaten, a woman works hard to keep a house, he is good to mess around outside, regardless of his wife and children, regardless of his own home! In that case, why did they want to be together in the first place?

Three words are well typed! But don't do it in the future, if it really doesn't work, then persuade them to divorce, I believe that you and your brother and your mother will be happy and happy.

Criticize? Why do I want to criticize you, after reading this story, it's really like what you said, I want to give you a hug, in fact, you're also hurt, aren't you, so you can't sleep in the middle of the night, maybe you did it wrong, but you don't seem to be such an excessive person, can you forgive yourself first, since you already know it's wrong, and it's not your fault alone.

What is a child, in the eyes of some parents.

If you really can't change that relationship, just give up on your dad so that everyone can hurt a little less.

My words are not very positive, but I hope they can bring you comfort.

The hug in the text also hopes to make you feel, it's not early, go to sleep.

Although I absolutely disagree with my son beating his father, but in other words, if he treats your mother like this, I can't swallow this breath for you!!

Don't blame yourself too much, if you blame yourself again, just think about your mother, if both sons don't stand up for her, won't she be too miserable?!

I really want to say what such a father is doing to save him!!

If I were you, I would persuade my mother to divorce him and divide half of his family property first, and then say (even if it is a lawsuit, I have to divide it), it's not a matter of not caring about money.

Let him have a good time with the woman and see when the woman cheats him out of his money!!