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In fact, after I watched "Women 30+", my personal feeling is that people must have a heart to love themselves, because in this world, except for your parents, only you really love yourself。Therefore, everyone must not give up on themselves, always maintain a heart that loves you, and leave a way out for themselves in everything they do. If you can't block your retreat, you will fall into a very passive state, so you will bring unnecessary trouble to your life, causing you to be led by the nose by others in many things, or end up with nothing.
In fact, there are also netizens on the Internet who have asked questions about your question, and the ones given by netizens are also mixed, and some netizens think that the book "Women 30+" is the book, it is a poisonous chicken soup, such a book will teach many women badly, so that these women will also have a selfish heart, because most of the women who have read this book will be more or less selfish.
They don't prioritize other people's affairs, they generally think of their own interests first, and then take care of others, which will cause many people to be dissatisfied, and some netizens believe that the book "Women 30+" can really bring inspiration to many people, so that many people can achieve self-discipline, self-love, and no longer blindly destroy their youth. This is a good book for youth enlightenment.
In fact, as far as I am concerned, I may be more inclined to the latter, because if you are selfless and good to someone, how can she embody herself so selfishly?The latter point of view is more in line with my heart, because this book can really teach you to always have a heart to love yourself, so that you will not suffer in some things.
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Yes, I think everyone should have a heart that loves themselves, and only when they love themselves can they love the people around them.
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I have always had the heart to love myself, but I love myself even more after watching this show, I don't love myself, do I still expect others to love, this is something that everyone must understand, and it must be done.
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I think women must love themselves, and the most important thing is to make themselves happier and better.
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I think that no matter whether you look at this or not, women must have a heart to love themselves, first to love themselves and then to love others.
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I think it should be, this drama is about the bottleneck of a woman's life when she reaches the age of thirty, and she can still learn a lot.
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I used to be taught to be good to the people around me, but after watching "Women 30+", I understood that I must love myself first.
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I think I should still love myself, so I still have to love myself in the future.
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Whether you have watched this TV series or not, women must have a heart that will always love themselves.
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Even if you don't look at a woman in your 30s, you must always have a heart that loves yourself.
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Why do you ask such a question?
Is there anything you're not happy with about yourself?
Objectively speaking, everything is good and bad, as a girl, having a childlike heart means being simple and kind, which is not a bad thing, of course, love to play depends on how you love to play, it doesn't matter if you love to play after taking on family responsibilities, it will also make life easier, of course, it can't be the kind of love to play that doesn't want to take responsibility, that kind of love to play is not advisable.
In fact, everyone is different, so the world is colorful, as long as you don't break the law and don't violate ethics and morals, just be yourself. One has to love oneself.
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After the personal feeling of childlike innocence and playful heart is still not the same, childlike innocence can be maintained forever, childlike people are often more cheerful, and they will not be careless in case of trouble, which will give people a better feeling of getting along, and they will not add more troubles for no reason, in fact, people in life are more or less to retain a little childlike innocence, so that life can be easier and simpler, sometimes in a simple life people can experience real happiness. And the fun-loving heart, if it is just based on childlike innocence, it is no problem, knowing that no matter what, you should give yourself a little time to relax and recreate to relieve stress, which is actually a correct way of life. But life is realistic after all, in real life, it is best not to spend too much precious time on playing, you must grasp this measure, and learn to relax on the premise of doing what you should do, if you play too much, it will be counterproductive.
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It's good to be childlike, haha. It's a good thing to love to play, twenty-five years old is in the prime of life, and basically has completed school, this time to go out to travel or something is just to relax, by the way, you can think about the future. But you can't make play a major part of your life, because there's still a long way to go, and you have to plan for the future, right?
Childlike innocence is one of the secrets of maintaining youth, in fact, childlike innocence is very good!
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I don't think it's good or bad! In some cases, this personality may be very good, and in other cases it may not be popular. Some people will like it, but others may resent it!
If you want others to be satisfied, then judge yourself in various ways. If you don't want to live too tired, then don't worry too much, your personality is lively and childlike, as long as it doesn't hurt others, then just be yourself! - Ma Jian.
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At the age of 25, you can keep a childlike heart, but you can't keep a childish heart.
You can be fun, but you should also know how to behave.
You can pass one 18, two 18Three 18 you are still like this, unless you have a mine at home.
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It is not a bad thing to maintain a childlike innocence, but it is necessary to exercise restraint and rational analysis in making important decisions or social work.
No matter what age you are, childlike innocence is precious, but you can't be too naïve! Proper childlike innocence will make people think that you are cute and unintentional, and make people think that you are easy to get along with and easy to become friends. But being too naïve like one of those "bear kids" will only make people hate you, or may make people think that you have a problem with your IQ (no discrimination, no discrimination, no discrimination).
Before you do anything, take into account the feelings of others and think about the consequences.
In the case where you are not hurting others, hindering others, or bothering others, hold a kind childlike heart.
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You can have a childlike heart, who doesn't have a childlike heart, just be yourself, but you must also be considerate of other people's feelings, respect others, and it is best to have fun by yourself and not hurt others.
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Of course, you can, know why many old men and old ladies don't look old at all, because they all have a childlike heart, childlike heart does not mean that it is naïve, unreasonable, but yearning for beauty, with a sense of humor, if a person is too mature and loses his childlike innocence, he will become indifferent, indifferent to the people in society, there is a good saying, people with childlike innocence will never get old, so keep your childlike innocence!
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It's really a mistake! Keeping a childlike heart is everyone's vision, just like becoming rich, who wouldn't? Answering the question depends on the essence, from the point of view of the question itself, the subject has questions about the current situation (childlike play), it must be the current state that has caused some problems, so there is such a reflection.
1.Don't take immature thinking as childlike innocence, this is a stealing concept, childlike innocence is the kind of clean and pure state of mind, not many "big children" and "giant babies" now; 2.Love to play is that you are not ready to enter the society, and you have no ability to take on things for the time being, which is a disguised escape, and childlike innocence cannot be generalized; 3.
Look at everything on both sides, and if your status quo makes you and the people around you feel satisfied and comfortable, please keep it; If your current situation brings trouble to you or the people around you, then please face up to your own problems, don't make excuses for yourself, whether you are childlike or playful, there is nothing wrong with it, this is the stage that everyone must go through, and the most important thing is whether you have an upward heart! Now you should be 28 years old, looking back at this problem, I believe that your thoughts and attitudes must be very different from when you asked questions, this is life, a kind of progress that can be walked step by step or without a teacher, but the bitterness of paying is only clear to yourself, I wish you well
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I think it's okay as long as you don't play too crazy and cause something, and a lot of people are like that, and it's good to keep an active heart.
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You can keep your childlike innocence and love to play, and many people like such people, but everything is a degree, isn't it? Love to play is not playful, childlike is not naïve, not pretentious.
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Haha, it's 25, you should grow up, if you meet a man with fate, you will marry, don't be naïve all the time, if you meet a mature and stable good man, you will be tolerated if you are occasionally naïve and coquettish, I wish you to grow up happily and be a goddess!
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25 years old, you have to think about your future career planning, no matter what field, it is necessary to have a certain degree of maturity, it is best to be responsible for your own behavior, it has nothing to do with whether you have a childlike love or not, come on, find the right one for yourself, some people are because they will shine in the crowd because she is different, don't think too much, do your best, and distinguish between right and wrong.
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Don't be naïve, what's wrong with keeping a childlike heart?
Do what you should do, don't think about playing when you work and study, it will be annoying.
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I'm also 25 years old.,Sometimes I feel like I'm still not growing up.,It's very necessary to maintain a childlike heart.,It's okay to love to play.,But,To do what you should do well.,There's a foundation for play.。。
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I think it's okay to keep a childlike heart, but to have a fun-loving heart, this needs to consider financial strength and family factors.
Do you have enough financial support and tolerance from your family and those around you? Whether you often travel or play games, and don't focus too much on a job, the premise of this is not to cause trouble with others, otherwise there will be problems with quality.
25 years old is not small, childlike and playful are not a common phenomenon of the public.
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Okay, time will force you to grow up, cherish it when you can have a childlike heart, it means that someone is helping you shelter from the wind and rain.
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It's good to keep a childlike heart in your spare time, but it's important to take it back when you're doing your job, (25-year-olds should all go to work, at least that's what I think), or your regret will cause you to lose your job.
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This mainly depends on one's own conditions.
Some women, at this age, are actually very easy to find a partner. They don't want to look for it. Therefore, the crux of the problem lies with oneself.
There are two sides to everything. After the age of 30, women will be more mature when they consider personal problems. During this period, looking for a partner is basically for the purpose of getting married.
Therefore, the purpose will be stronger. Therefore, when choosing, you will be more picky. Therefore, in this case, it will seem "not easy".
After the age of thirty, there are fewer men around them. After all, a good man is basically married at this age. The older you get, the more things men and women go through.
Love is no longer so important, they want to find a three-view that meets their own, and they really find it difficult. Most of the boys I meet on a blind date are either ugly, bad-tempered, or very poor. Most of the people I saw were crooked melons and cracked dates, and I lost confidence in finding a partner.
Actually, it's not. For women who have passed the age of 30, the most important thing is to adjust their mentality. Resist external interference.
Keep yourself in a good frame of mind and look for it according to your requirements. Don't rush too much. You must know that the fate that really belongs to you requires patience to find.
Yes, feelings are not easy. Choosing the right person is the most important thing. Therefore, if a woman has not found a partner after the age of 30, do not worry.
Many people who are left over the age of 30 are mostly due to the environmental impact of work and life. Nowadays, young people are under so much pressure to work and live, and they have to continue to study hard and work overtime every day to keep themselves from being eliminated. The basic trajectory of each day is the company and the family, and there are few people you can meet, let alone meet someone you like.
And after the age of 30, the friends around me are also married and family-oriented, and there are fewer and fewer companions to play, and they basically don't like to move around, so naturally they can only live silently alone.
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The best period for a woman to get married is twenty-five to twenty-eight years old, and women at this stage are driven by maturity in character, mind, and body. After the age of thirty, the choice of mates is less selective, so the parents say that after the age of thirty, it is more and more difficult for women to find a partner.
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Thirty years old is no longer just to face life with emotion, as your experience grows, your horizons are higher and wider, you think about more things, and the preset of future life is more realistic, so the requirements for men will be higher, and there are few men of the same age who are excellent, and you don't want to settle, so it is indeed more and more only looking for a partner.
When you reach middle age, you have to learn a little bit of shrew, otherwise no one will be afraid of you, and others will think you are a bully. If you are too kind and honest, you will definitely give people a good feeling of bullying, only if you are a little spicy and covered with thorns, so that others will be afraid of you, especially in the circle of a unit, even more so. If you want to survive, you have to have a little thorn on your body.
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