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Hello, they are all adults, if the relationship between brothers and sisters is not good, don't force yourself to go. Because everyone has their own difficulties that need to be solved, it may be counterproductive to go.

What does it depend on? The elder brother has something, a big matter, the elder brother informs the younger brother, and the younger brother (if the family is independent)) does not go, it is the younger brother's business. If there's something going on at your brother's house, you can not go. Pay somebody back in the same coin.

I think my brother should go. Because you're the older brother. Older than younger brother.

More social experience than younger brother. Be thoughtful about what to do. There is no contradiction between the brothers.

There is a contradiction. Brothers in war. Father, son, soldier brother.

They should all help their younger brothers. Parents are there. My brother is better.

If the parents are gone. My brother is like a father. Take care of younger siblings.

Is it a brother? Is there a big contradiction? If it's a brother, the contradiction is not big, when you're a brother, you should go, you shouldn't worry about your brother, because you are the eldest brother, you should set an example, you are still laughing at others, if you don't go, others will have an opinion on you, if you go, the younger brother also feels very ashamed, the eldest brother, should be like a brother, brother, you should get along well, twist into a rope, others will not bully you, if you are divided, others will bully you, you don't say, you will always laugh at you.

If according to the brotherly affection, the brothers should move around each other, not just according to the etiquette that ordinary people say, if the elder brother has something to do, the younger brother did not go, or the younger brother's house really has something to do, the elder brother should understand, however, the younger brother should also say hello to the elder brother, brother, what else is there to say? If the two families are far away and it is really inconvenient to move around often, you can also say that you can say okay and don't move around if you have something, this is also okay.

If you don't go, you respect me, and I respect you. In the same way, I have something to do, and if you don't come, if you have something, I won't go.

In general, we do not go, except in special circumstances.

Since you are an elder brother, then you should be an example for your younger brother, although the family is separated, but after all, it is a brother, broken bones and tendons, and the elder brother will be a little bit larger, buy gifts and happily go to your brother's house, I believe your younger brother will be very happy.

It depends on whether my brother has this measure. I think that as an older brother, he should play an exemplary role, and he should not be stingy in a small way.

It depends on what you think, how you look at family affection, and everyone's situation is different.

As older brothers and sisters, of course, don't blindly let younger brothers and sisters go. Both the older and the younger should learn to be polite. Let's talk about it!

1.There must be a degree of courtesy

Comity has always been a virtue, but comity is not the same as blindly accommodating. In life, as older brothers and sisters, they are often educated to let younger brothers and sisters. But if you always let them, it won't work.

For example, two children should be one and a half of a dish, but the older child is very obedient and humble, and only one-third of it is needed, and the younger child will put the rest into his own bowl. And the parents just laugh and think that the older children are very sensible and the younger children are very cute.

And such things often happen, including when watching TV, playing with toys, after a long time, the whole family gets used to it.

Younger brothers and sisters are more and more accustomed to this feeling of being pampered by the whole family, and gradually take it for granted, parents, brothers and sisters are very humble, and the young children are thousands of pampered, never polite, after a long time, when eating, the young children always put a ** dish, together with the plate in front of themselves, completely ignoring others, more and more selfish.

Over time, as an older brother and sister, I always feel that my parents are becoming more and more partial, as if I was born first, I am destined not to be pampered, and sometimes I watch my younger siblings and parents sweetly together, and no one pays attention to them, as if they are a family.

Parents may feel that young children are younger and need more love, but once this kind of love is out of balance, something will go wrong.

2.Comity should be mutual

Older siblings should take the initiative to let younger siblings go, because it is a virtue to share good things, not deliberately accommodating, so young people should also learn to be polite. For example, older brothers and sisters give delicious and fun to younger brothers and sisters, and younger brothers and sisters should also give back, humility should be mutual, not unilateral, such family affection is the family affection that you come and go.

3.I was always let and it was hard to grow up

When young children grow up in such a family environment, because they lack nothing since they were young, and they are loved by thousands of people, they have no sense of distress, and they lack the motivation to work hard. Never think about others.,No matter what difficulties you encounter, someone will solve them for you.,Even if the body grows up.,But the heart is still a playful and selfish child in the past.。

So, humility is right, but it's not one person's thing, it's mutual.

Look at what, if the elder brother blindly lets the younger brother, but the younger brother doesn't know gratitude but thinks that the elder brother is easy to bully, then there is no need to let the younger brother anymore. Because we are also the children of our parents, we don't have to let our younger brother because he is older. Where there is a degree!

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The following aspects can be considered when dealing with a situation where parents ask to spend money to subsidize their younger brother:

1.Communication and understanding: First, communicate openly and honestly with your parents to understand their needs and expectations.

Find out why they are asking for their own money to support their younger brother, whether it is because of family financial hardship or other reasons. Through communication, it is possible to better understand the reasons and motivations behind them.

2.Analyze your personal finances: Assess your financial situation, including income, expenses, savings, etc.

3.Fairness and Balance: When considering envy grants, ensure fairness and balance.

If you have more than one sibling, you can discuss with your parents that you can develop a fair support plan and avoid favoritism. At the same time, you should also consider your own needs and future plans, and do not sacrifice your own interests and development.

4.Seek help from a third party: If you can't reach a consensus or are experiencing difficulties, you can seek help from a third party, such as a relative, friend, or professional. They can provide neutral advice and advice to help resolve disputes and conflicts within the family.

Dealing with this situation should be done with respect for one's own rights and boundaries, as well as the views and wishes of parents. Through communication, understanding, and finding balance, a solution that is fair and reasonable for all can be found.

In our lives, there is often a phenomenon of parents letting the elder brother let the younger brother, which can reflect the partiality of the parents, and we must know that the elder brother does not necessarily let the younger brother, there is a certain reason, and then I will introduce it to you.

First of all, we must know that many parents in life will have such thoughts, that the boss should let the second, for a long time will make the boss's mind more and more difficult to guess, but also will leave a certain shadow in the boss's heart, you must know that whether it is the eldest or the second, are needed to be loved by parents, if parents often love their younger brother and do not love themselves, then it will lead to certain psychological problems of the baby, and even resentful parents, so parents should also give more care to their brother. Secondly, you can't let the elder brother let the younger brother know that the younger brother is very naughty, and it is very likely that the elder brother will tear up the elder brother's homework in the process of learning, or push the elder brother to rob the elder brother's things, these behaviors reflect the younger brother's unreasonableness and the younger brother's selfishness, if you don't help the younger brother correct the behavior of the younger brother in time, then it will be very unfair to the elder brother.

Secondly, parents must have a bowl of water, to know that the two children are a piece of meat that fell from their bodies, if they love the small and do not love the big, then they will ignore the psychological education of the boss, so that the child will have all kinds of problems in the learning process, so the best way for parents to educate is to judge according to right and wrong, if the younger brother is wrong, let the younger brother apologize to the elder brother.

Finally, I want to say that you can't ignore your brother's psychological feelings just because your brother is a boy, because this practice will make your brother dislike your brother more and more, and even cause a war between your brother and your brother, so parents must pay attention to their children's mental health problems when they are educated, and don't ignore the education of their brother because they have a younger brother.

No. If the elder brother often lets the younger brother, it will make the elder brother's character particularly cowardly, and the younger brother will also become particularly rebellious. The two children should be treated fairly, and a bowl of water should be even.

There is no need, if the elder brother keeps letting the younger brother, it will make the younger brother's personality become particularly good in life, and the elder brother's character will also become particularly cowardly.

Not necessarily, because there is also a correct concept in the family, as long as the elder brother does it correctly, he should do what the elder brother does.

Maybe the parents say something casually. You're going to let the younger brothers. Because they're smaller than you. However, this sends a negative message to older children.

That is, parents prefer younger brothers. This is very traumatic to the children's psyche. Children who grow up in this environment will invisibly increase the estrangement from their parents, and children will think that their parents do not care about them.

This can create more insecurity for children. In particular, children who are not good at communication are not concerned at school and do not feel the care of their parents at home, which brings great psychological damage to children. Over time, the child's personality becomes strange, but the parents have not yet noticed, and in the end tragedy strikes, by which time it is already too late.

Some may question that older children can't give their younger siblings such terrible results. It is true that there are very few tragedies in which this notion arises, so it is not impossible. In fact, in order to compete for parents, there was a tragic incident of hurting younger siblings.

Not only that, there is no doubt that these ideas will slowly become a trauma on the child's mind and slowly accumulate into the child's negative emotions.

This perception can create false perceptions for favored younger brothers and sisters. In other words, my brother and sister let me take it for granted. In the face of this perception, how to correct it is the key.

This notion has a long history in China, and among most Chinese parents, it is already ingrained and difficult to change. But that doesn't mean it can't be changed. Together, this phenomenon can be changed from parents, schools and society.

Parents are the most important part. Because parents are their children's first teachers and their most important partners when they grow up.

If parents don't instill the concept of "big and small should let go" in the children of the elderly from a young age, they will not instill the concept of "older brothers and sisters will let you" in the children of younger brothers. On the contrary, siblings, siblings, siblings, helping each other, being humble to each other, being blindly humble, being endlessly humble, this is called "habit". In this way, the child can grow up healthily in a harmonious family.

Judging from the situation in the school, the teachers educate the students more, and they respect the modesty of their older siblings at home, and it is mutual to enjoy only the humility of their older siblings. In society, it is necessary to promote the concept that there should be mutual concessions in the family and establish a harmonious relationship with good family brothers and sisters. So as long as each of us plays a concerted effort, it's time to change that perception.

Of course not, it should be treated fairly and justly, so that the two children will grow up healthily, otherwise one of them will be bullied.

No, both the elder brother and the younger brother should be treated fairly, and there should be no partiality, which will affect the relationship between the two people.

At home, the elder brother does not have to let the younger brother go, because the brothers are fair.

Summary. If the negotiation fails, the elderly can go to the court to sue and ask the children to fulfill their maintenance obligations and pay alimony.

The elder brother and younger brother in the family don't care what the old man does.

If the negotiation fails, the elderly can go to the court to sue and ask the children to fulfill their maintenance obligations and pay alimony.

It doesn't matter if there's something. Last time, he fell and asked them to take him to the doctor, but one didn't come, and if he hit again, he turned off the phone, and the other picked up** and didn't come.

It is a case of non-support for the elderly, and it can be sued.

Salary more than 2,000 at a time.

Alzheimer's disease is at an advanced stage.

I've been alone for so many years, and I haven't taken a penny.

Because I thought my brother was not in good health, I didn't call him, and my brother always quarreled with his wife, and I didn't tell him, and now I have something to call them, and they think I'm looking for trouble.

When an adult child fails to fulfill the maintenance obligation, the parent who is unable to work or who has difficulty living has the right to demand maintenance from the child. The supporter must not refuse to perform the obligation of support on the grounds of renunciation of inheritance rights or other reasons. For those who do not fulfill their maintenance obligations, the elderly (i.e., those who have reached the age of 60) have the right to demand maintenance payments from their supporters.

Where disputes arise between the elderly and their family members over maintenance, they may request mediation by the relevant departments, such as the children's work units, residents' committees, or villagers' committees, or may also directly file a lawsuit with the people's courts.