We husbands and wives often quarrel and fight, and husbands and wives always quarrel

Yes, I can understand your feelings, just like my mother, I chose the wrong person at the beginning, and I will regret it for a lifetime, I can really understand your feelings, my heart is very painful, and I often cry, but you must know that your feelings, if they continue like this, will definitely affect your five-year-old daughter, she may be different from other children when she grows up, such as introversion, because this behavior of yours will affect her growth, think about it, don't impose your pain on children, they are innocent, They need a good growth environment, as long as you feel that your relationship is impossible to reconcile, then leave quickly, now is the age of freedom, don't wait until you are forty or fifty years old to want to divorce, then you will be really late, think about it.

The seventeenth product is not divided by me.

At that time, Subodhi White Buddha said: "World-honored! A good man and a good woman, who develop the three bodhichittas, how should the clouds dwell? How did the clouds subdue their hearts?

The Buddha told Subodhi: "Good men, good women, and those who have attained the three bodhisattvas of Anuttara should be born with such a mind, and I should destroy all sentient beings." Destroy everything.

All sentient beings have been, but there is no one who has actually destroyed all sentient beings.

Why? Subodhi! If a bodhisattva has the appearance of self, the appearance of people, the appearance of sentient beings, and the appearance of a long-lived being, he is not a bodhisattva.

So what? Subodhi! There is no one who has the Dharma to develop the three bodhisattvas. Subodhi! What do you mean? If you come from the Buddha of the lamp, there is a law.

Anuttara sambodhi no? "No, World-Honored One! As I explained the meaning of the Buddha, the Buddha is in the place where the Buddha is lamped, and there is no way to attain the three bodhisattvas.

The Buddha said, "So it is! So! Subodhi! There is no way to attain the three bodhisattvas. Subodhi! If there is a Pharathara, there is a samadara.

The three Bodhi, but the lamp Buddha does not teach me: In the next life, you should be a Buddha, called Shakyamuni. There is no way to attain the three bodhisattvas of the Anuttara Samadhi, which is why the Buddha of the Lamp and I gave a note, and said, 'In the next life, you should be a Buddha, called Shakyamuni.'" ’

Why? If it comes, then the law is as righteous. If someone says, 'If you come to attain the three bodhisattvas'. Subodhi! There is no way, Buddha is attached.

Rasambodhi. Subodhi! If you come to get the three bodhisattvas, then there is no reality and no void. That's why it's like saying: All dharmas are dharmas.

Subodhi! The one who speaks of all the dharmas is not all the dharmas, and it is called all the dharmas. Subodhi! For example, the human body grows up. Subodhi said, "World-honored one! As.

Let's say: When a person grows up, it is not a big body, but a big body. Subodhi! The same is true of bodhisattvas. If it is said, 'I should destroy immeasurable beings,' then no.

The name of the Bodhisattva. Why? Subodhi! There is no way to be called a bodhisattva. That's why the Buddha said: All dharmas have no self, no one, no sentient beings, and no longevity. Subodhi! If the Bodhisattva does.

It is the saying, 'I should be a solemn Buddha land', and it is an unnamed bodhisattva.

Why? For example, the one who solemnizes the Buddha's land is not solemn, but the name is solemn. Subodhi! If a bodhisattva has attained the non-selfless dharma, then the name is really a bodhisattva.

What can I do, I can only endure it for the sake of the child! Wait until everything is mature before you think about divorce, try to separate first.

1. Three views. In most cases, the three views of the two people are different, for example, you like to eat Western food, but he thinks that things are expensive and not delicious, for example, you like to live hard, but he always stays in his own small world, so the three views are too far apart, which is bound to make the two have too many contradictions.

2. Economy. There is a saying that "talking about money hurts feelings", especially in marriage, there are many quarrels between husband and wife, all because of money, for example, after a woman gets married, she always sends money back to her parents' house, or her husband's money is always unknown, which will cause quarrels between the two and hurt the harmony and feelings.

3. Small habits.

Some habit problems, in love has little impact, after marriage and living together, the problem gradually accumulates, sometimes a cigarette butt can cause quarrels, you should have seen a lot of strange reasons for divorce on the Internet, in fact, these are caused by daily habits.