Tell me how well you get along with your in laws!

1. Change of cognition: A good "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" is related to three people - mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and son, and it takes the efforts of three parties to manage a harmonious family relationship. Taking the "mother-in-law relationship" as a reference, the key to the quality of the "mother-in-law relationship" is generally better than that of the "mother-in-law relationship".

The mother-in-law treats her son-in-law as her own son (at least half of the son), and the daughter marries less of the loss of her daughter, but feels the intimacy and happiness of having more sons. This is a distinction from the mother-in-law's mentality. The deeper your wife's love for her husband, the more accepting her mother-in-law will be, and if she has not accepted her mother-in-law, it at least shows that your love for her husband is not mature and deep enough.

2. Mother-in-law's mentality: treat your daughter-in-law as your own daughter, don't have the distinction of "other people's girls", get along with her with the mentality of treating your own children, and all problems will be solved. 3. Mrs.'s mentality:

Take care of your mother-in-law as if she were your own mother, and try your best to understand the personality or other shortcomings of the elderly. At the same time, when there is a conflict with your mother-in-law, don't make the "low-level mistake" of "fighting for a husband" with your mother-in-law. No matter how much your husband loves you, you can't replace her mother's weight.

Moreover, you can only be his wife, not his mother, and in that case, your marriage will be in danger. Fourth, the son's mentality: he is a "diplomat" who mediates the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship".

There are many "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships" caused by "stupid sons". If the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" has natural sensitive factors, then the role of the son in the relationship and the function of coordination and consultation are more and more precious. 5. "Don't remember the overnight feud":

Once there is friction between "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", it is key to deal with it immediately, communicate directly, take real feelings as the starting point, and establish an effective conflict handling mechanism. Some "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships" started well, but later friction was hidden in the heart, forming a "cold war" between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the damage to family relations was huge. In a nutshell, the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" is not a beast, but a family relationship between two generations, which can be improved by human efforts.

No matter what happens, there is no right or wrong, and there is no need to investigate right and wrong, and all discordant factors are caused by human psychology.

I'm very lucky, my in-laws are reasonable and kind people, although the family conditions are not good, but they don't want to cause us trouble, so we are still very harmonious, they don't have daughters, so I try to think that I am a daughter to do everything for them, and we both recognize each other, so the family is quite happy.

It's not easy to get along with, my in-laws are the kind of people who have to count when they speak, you have to listen to it, and you have to listen if you don't listen, so you have to suffer a little grievance.

Remember, you have to treat your mother-in-law as a best friend, and you have to talk to her often, and talk to her until she has a good time, and her relationship with you will be better.

Respect and love each other, and the more praise there is, the better the relationship.

Don't ignore the coordinating role of your husband.

Try your best to get along with her, try your best to obey the old man in everything, after all, it is not easy for the old man to struggle for so many years.

It's the same as usual, there's no way to get along, respect them and say more nice things.

The surface is good, but it's not very good.

I get along with my mother-in-law about the same.

Remember, you have to treat your mother-in-law as a best friend, and you have to talk to her often, talk to her, talk to her, talk about Hail Rock, and her relationship with you will be better.

Of course, this is to treat Kai Da's father-in-law and mother-in-law as his own biological laughing father and mother, so that it can be. But it's easier said than done, it's hard to keep an eye on the line, try your best, I hope you're there.

My mother-in-law is very broken-mouthed, she finds fault with what you do, and says all day long that whose daughter-in-law is so good, my father-in-law also looks at me unpleasantly, we haven't spoken for two years, he is too much, I deliberately used me as a nanny when I was pregnant, and I was not allowed to have a little say when I gave birth to a child, and let me cut off the road with my mother's family. Such a neuropathy doesn't know how to get along in order to get along? My eldest sister's own mother-in-law's house is a mess and she has to come to me to intervene, my home is close to her unit, I often make soup and call her to come to my house for dinner after work, she also stinks every time she comes without saying a word, she leaves after eating, and there is a laugh when she is with others.

I don't contact her anymore, they do this and say every day that I love to be angry and can't listen to others, alas, I guess I can't fix it in this life!

I can get along well, because I believe that as long as I am filial to my in-laws and be good to my in-laws, they will naturally not be difficult for me, and they will naturally be good to me.

I get along with them like a child, and they love me very much.

I can, although my mother-in-law is a bit harsh, but many times I put up with it myself, after all, she is now my mother.