What about friendship and love?

Updated on society 2024-06-09
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Just tell her if you like it. Then you have half a chance.

    If you feel embarrassed to say it right now, there are ways to do it.

    Now you should keep hinting that you like her. But don't say you like her just yet.

    Message her often. Beat**. Go out shopping. Eat and so on.

    After a while. She continues to heed your words. Prove that you still have a chance.

    Contrarily. After a while, she starts to get a little disgusted with you. Prove that she's on good terms with her boyfriend.

    She doesn't want to ruin their love because of you. Words like this. That's hard work for you. Wait.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Agree upstairs, I also have a male friend like you, it's really hurtful, or you just wait for her to break up with her current boyfriend, it's a matter of time, so you have to be more attentive to contact him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Some things are like that, if you miss it, you miss it, everyone will be like this, if it was like that back then, it wouldn't be like this today, everyone will have it, you can send a text message to the past, say"Knowing that you have a boyfriend, I have a weird feeling in my heart, am I in love with you? Huh"See how she reacts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    On the top floor. But it's not good for anyone to hold back.

    Maybe she likes you too, man, just say what you have!

    It may not work out, but it won't make you regret it for the rest of your life.

    Besides, are you willing to be in such an embarrassing situation?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Are you saying at this time that it's a little ,,, that people have boyfriends! What did you do earlier?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't alienate friendship because of love, and here's what I think: love is beautiful, but friendship is also important. In a person's life, friendship must not be missing, and friendship will make a person live more confidently.

    Because I know that there will be someone who will help you in life, so the friendship of friendship is indestructible, so I will not give up my friendship because of love. Love may be lost one day.

    But if you give up friendship because of love, you may end up regretting it. If one day the person you like leaves you, then in the end, the love is gone, and the friendship is also gone.

    For the consequences of such Zhaoqin, in fact, he can't imagine it. Be sure to protect your friendship at all times, and if the other party is a person who is worthy of making a deep friendship, then don't give up your friendship easily because of love.

    Once many people fall in love, it is easy to break off their friendship. I always feel that in my life, love will make me more happy. However, friendship has become worthless in its own world.

    If you have such thoughts, it must be wrong, people must have affection to protect their lives, because only friendship will make you feel that life is not boring. If you give up friendship because of love, it is equivalent to losing your circle of friends after getting married.

    Then the life of the future is boring, and it is very difficult to maintain friendship, after all, such a thing as friendship is not like falling in love.

    Everyone's circle of friends is very important, so don't give up your friendship easily because of love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, in essence, love is not the sublimation of friendship.

    What love can do, so can friendship. And the sweetest and most bitter part of love, friendship is not available.

    Because the difference between love and friendship lies in this: love is exclusivity, while friendship is sharing; Love is dependence, while friendship is independence; Love is not seen for a day, and friendship is not seen for three autumns.

    Supporting friendship is "understanding", which is to fully understand regardless of the advantages and disadvantages. And what supports love is often the "beautification" that only sees and magnifies the advantages of the other party, which is why the love period passes, the "filter" fades, and lovers begin to feel that the other party is far from being perfect as they think.

    It is precisely because friendship is not "unique" that the "fault tolerance" in friendship is much higher than that of love, friends can calmly accept the changes in friendship, and the uncertainty of love is more likely to lead to uneasiness between lovers.

    The highest praise of friendship is "sincerity", which is an equal relationship in which personality resonance and contradictions coexist, while the highest praise of love is "purity", which is the integration of two bodies but one heart.

    So, so to speak, friendship is one plus one is greater than two, while love is one plus one equals one. Let's go back and talk about the transition from friendship to love.

    Best friend type lovers", with the foundation of friendship, the mode of getting along with such love will be mutual understanding and unrestrained, because they are familiar enough with each other, so it is easier to get along.

    But the problem is that not every friend of the opposite sex has the possibility of developing into a lover.

    As mentioned earlier, tolerance in friendship allows you to tolerate many of each other's shortcomings, while love is difficult. You will be tolerant and understanding of your friends, but you will be more possessive and expectant for your lovers - this change of mindset will greatly affect the way you get along.

    You know all the strengths and weaknesses of each other, and clearly know that these advantages and disadvantages will directly affect your future life, and the shortcomings that can be tolerated by friends are not necessarily lovers.

    On the other hand, because they are already familiar enough with each other, the "freshness" that is crucial in love is also lacking.

    At the end of the day, "falling in love with someone like a best friend" and "having a lover like a best friend" are two different things.

    Therefore, whether you want to develop a lover relationship with your friends, and whether you can develop a lover relationship, can only be evaluated, considered, and practiced by yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm not going to do that. Because I think love and friendship can be both, and the two are not in conflict. Here's what I have to say to explain my point:

    1.A normal person would not give up friendship for love. If he gives up, it means that love is more important than friendship in his heart, as the saying goes, love is more important than friends. Maybe one day he will like something and give up on you.

    2.If one of the parties in a relationship minds more, they will get along with each other relatively less; You can also bring your object to play with your friends. This reduces unnecessary conflicts.

    3.Love others and love yourself, don't give up your friends and life circle for anyone. Don't love too much, the water overflows.

    You are also an independent individual, a thinking higher animal. In the future, if something goes wrong between you, you won't be able to find someone to comfort you, because you gave up on them before you forgave them.

    In a clear sentence, love others with moderation and love yourself unconditionally.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I certainly don't alienate friendships because of love. Love and friendship are not contradictory, and one must not be abandoned. They can coexist quickly and quickly. Here's how I see it:

    1.Love is beautiful, but friendship is also important. In a person's life, friendship cannot be lacking.

    Friendship in life will make a person live more confidently. Because I know that there will always be someone in life to help you, so friendship is as indestructible as friendship, so I will not give up friendship because of love. Love may be lost one day, but if you give up friendship because of love, you may end up regretting it.

    If one day someone I like leaves me, the end result will be the loss of love and friendship. I can't imagine the consequences of doing that. Envy this.

    2.You must always protect your friendship. If the other person is someone who deserves your deep friendship, then don't give up the friendship easily because of love.

    3. If you give up friendship because of love, it means that you lose your circle of friends after marriage. Then life will be boring in the future, and friendship will be difficult to maintain. After all, friendship is not like falling in love.

    Xiao Li: Everyone's life and circle of friends are very important, so don't give up friendship easily because of love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Many people will say that friendship will not become love, because friendship is friendship, and love is love, these two are not the same, love will not become friendship, friendship will not become love. In fact, no matter what, it is not absolute.

    Because there are many people who started out as friends and later became lovers, in fact, this exists. But love can never be friendship. Friendship is further love, but love takes a step back and ceases to be friendship.

    In fact, many boys will have the idea that even if we lovers can't do it, we can still be friends. So I want to ask, do people who have really loved each other really end up being friends? Would you bear to watch him with someone else?

    In fact, friendship will become love, because the extension of friendship is love. In fact, there are too many people who have developed from friendship to love. Because only through friendship can we know whether this person can become love.

    Love is the sun, and if there is one more, you will feel hot, and everything on the earth will smoke; One less will feel too cold, and the world will be cold and silent; And friendship is the sea, one more drop it may not be broad, and one less drop it is equally vast.

    If there is a pure friendship between men and women, they generally do not always meet, and most of the content of their conversation is about international livelihood matters that are not important, and the distance between the conversation must be separated by a table. Love is different, when you talk to the person you love, you have an urge to stick together.

    Of course, there is a difference between friendship and love quarrels, but friendship can not compete with love for anything, friendship has the measure of imitating friendship, the basis of friendship is mutual understanding and consideration, it is a kind of appreciation rather than possession, a person can have many friends at the same time. Love is the most intimate relationship between two people, tolerance and love are the guarantee of its existence, love is a certain degree of possession and uniqueness, a person cannot have many shares of love at the same time. Friendship is further love, love is further family affection, but love takes a step back, it is never contacted.

    Many times, don't easily cross the boundaries of friendship, because when you cross the boundaries of friendship, it also means that you may never be able to go back, only to move forward bravely. The other half can be a friendship, but the friendship can't be an ex. Don't be a lover with a friend of the opposite sex you know too well, and don't find someone you don't know at all.

    When it comes to relationships, no matter who you are, you need to be cautious, and this is true of friendship, and the same is true of love.

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