I have been married for more than 20 years, and my husband has to point out my shortcomings every da

It's your life. Some women are often beaten and scolded, even if they change their husbands, and one of my female classmates is like this.

But life can be changed, as long as the method is correct, it can be changed, which is the so-called "luck".

Next time my husband accuses you again, I strongly suggest that you use the greatest sincerity, calmly accept your husband's criticism, and apologize to your husband clearly and sincerely: I'm sorry, as a wife, I didn't do something good and failed to satisfy my husband, but I will get rid of those problems in the future, if I accidentally do it again, be sure to ask my husband to remind me, and I will make persistent efforts. As long as your husband criticizes you, you express your sincerity like this.

You must insist on doing this, you must suppress your own temper, and don't go against your husband, that is adding fuel to the fire, not only is it impossible to improve the relationship between husband and wife, but it will backfire.

Listen to me, friend, you may feel a little low, but for the sake of marriage, for the sake of children and relatives, it is worth it for you to lower your profile, and you will definitely have a big harvest soon, as long as you do "persistence" and "patience". Best wishes!

At the same time, weak.

With the star as the lord of the sun.

The use of God will attract official stars for the Lord of the Sun.

The husband is so married. It indicates that in the future life, the Japanese Lord will successfully find a man he likes to marry, and after marriage, he will have a good relationship with his husband, take care of each other, and live a loving life for a lifetime. But the sun lord is nondecant water.

It is necessary to pay attention to overcoming the shortcomings of being strict with your husband or being too demanding, reduce noise with your husband, and live in harmony.

Based on the marriage analysis of the Japanese Lord, the marriage gradually develops steadily, and it will be noisy and separated, and the chances of reconciliation with her boyfriend are not great. In 2022, the Lord of the Sun will marry the man of his crush. After marriage, you should improve your temper and character, tolerate your husband's shortcomings, don't manage your husband too strictly, and don't quarrel with your husband.

You should live with your husband with mutual understanding and harmony in your marriage. The years when the marriage is bad and the years that are good have been marked, and you can refer to this to get along with the relationship and get married.

Based on the marriage analysis of the Japanese lord, the marriage gradually develops steadily, and it will be noisy and separated, and the chances of getting along with her boyfriend are not great. In 2022, the Lord of the Sun will marry the man of his crush. After marriage, you should improve your temper and character, tolerate your husband's shortcomings, don't manage your husband too strictly, and don't quarrel with your husband.

You should live with your husband with mutual understanding and harmony in your marriage. The years when the marriage is bad and the years that are good have been marked, and you can refer to this to get along with the relationship and get married.

The marriage, which has lasted for more than 20 years, is now basically at home, and her husband is on a long-term business trip and is unwilling to stay at home. And she herself looked at her husband with all kinds of disgust, and she felt uncomfortable. Just because since getting married, my husband can't get used to living according to his own home requirements.

The sense of dedication is overwhelming, and I feel that I have done a good job everywhere, which is caused by the inaction of the other party, but both parties have no intention of divorcing.

After twenty years of marriage, my husband has to point out your shortcomings every day. It may be true that you are deficient, what my husband said makes sense, but he does ink a little, you should face up to your shortcomings and actively correct them, if you perform better, your husband will naturally not continue to talk about you.

Tell him directly and righteously that you don't like his behavior. Ask him not to do this in the future.

This can only show that your husband doesn't love you at all, so for marriage, he is simply to complete the task, because he can't tolerate your shortcomings at all, this kind of marriage I suggest that it is better to divorce early.

Then you have to be clear about the facts, whether you do have these shortcomings, or is it just your husband picking bones in the eggs. You have to be confident in your personality charm and don't be frightened by the phenomenon of three people becoming tigers. You can show him the best of yourself, and if he is not a tyrannical person, he will certainly appreciate your good qualities.

Remember, a person will not be defeated by the embarrassment in front of him, only you can be defeated.

Husbands and wives also need to communicate more, you can tell your husband your true feelings in your heart, maybe he doesn't realize it.

Then you can try to change these shortcomings, after all, your husband has been with you for more than 20 years and he is still talking, probably because he really dislikes some of your shortcomings.

In fact, only the closest people will directly point out your shortcomings, and people who have nothing to do with you will not be good, and you should feel fortunate to have such a husband.

Your husband is definitely not good, and every day to point out your mistakes will make you have more pressure, you can tell your husband about this idea, let your husband try to understand you.

Love is mutual, of course, don't be tempered, give your husband a hint, hint, try to communicate with him, everyone has feelings, let alone couples who have been married for so long, and communication is the best choice.

You can also point out your husband's shortcomings, this kind of hurt is mutual, and you have been unilaterally said by your husband that you will not have self-confidence.

He doesn't mean anything, he just wants you to correct it.

If you want to maintain your marriage, you really have to accept the reality that you have lower expectations for each other. As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and no one can be perfect, so since two people are married, they should adapt to each other and accept each other's shortcomings. In fact, not only for you, but also for your husband?

You feel that your husband has exposed a lot of shortcomings after marriage, but in fact, your husband may also feel that you have exposed a lot of shortcomings. It is very normal to expose shortcomings, after all, it is normal for two people to share the same bed every day and show their truest side by each other's side. If two people are still hiding after getting married, even if they don't expose each other's shortcomings, the relationship will also have problems.

Don't regret it in a hurry, you can give yourself and the other party a period of time to accept and adapt. If any couple wants to get along for a long time, it takes a long period of running-in. You just got married to your husband, and when you find out many of his shortcomings, you want to regret it, and even think about divorce, you are inevitably too anxious.

The two of them are already in the run-in period, and the run-in may be a good relationship? If you really can't run in, then don't worry about divorce again.

Don't always look at each other's shortcomings, you can look at each other's strengths. Everyone can't only have shortcomings, but also advantages, if you always stare at his shortcomings, then no matter how you look at this person, it will not be pleasing to the eye. Look more at each other's strengths and less at each other's shortcomings, so that your married life will be easier.

As the classic saying goes, when you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you. If your focus is only on the other person's shortcomings, then you will infinitely magnify the other person's shortcomings and look at the other party more and more unpleasantly.

So as long as it's some innocuous shortcomings, which aren't shortcomings, everyone can communicate with each other to change. The fear is that when you encounter these problems, the first thing you think of is not to solve the change, but to escape, and that's it. So there's nothing that can't be done.

Ask your heart, do you really love this man? Or can you accept his so-called shortcomings, if you can accept it, then you will slowly and imperceptibly change him. It seems to me that nothing but a matter of principle is a matter of principle.

You have to trust your own choices. Everyone is an adult, and the choice must be deliberate.

You can correct your husband's shortcomings, because you are married to him, and you can only try to change some of his shortcomings as much as possible.

You should try to accept his shortcomings and change him to make him better, so that life will be harmonious.

You should adjust your mentality, you should see the strengths of the other person, see the shortcomings of the other person, and then help the other person to correct them.

Use the right way to let the other party get rid of some bad problems, and you should also take the initiative to communicate with the other party, so that you can have a good improvement and not let the other party have more and more bad problems.