Twenty years or so felt like a life in vain

You've got this awareness, and I feel like you're not living in vain.

No matter what the future holds, think optimistically, even if the future is not like this, but the dream is just as good.

On your own! First understand what kind of person you are, and think at a deep level, whether you are a normal person, and at a deep level, whether you are a human being? If yes!

Then people will do what you will! After believing that you can do what people do, you are confident, and with self-confidence, you can do whatever you want.

I was very introverted in junior high school but now that I'm so outgoing, it's important to smile!

Even if you can't speak, smile with your face!

Everyone has their own way of living, and everything will be fine!

I used to have low self-esteem, I asked myself in primary school why I had low self-esteem, I thought about it carefully, my family conditions were too poor; In middle school, I asked myself, and mine was that my grades were not good and my family conditions were poor; I asked myself again when I was in college and found out that I was good for nothing and had no family background!

Later, I won't be inferior anymore, but I'm still useless, and I'm still poor! I finally realized that I actually looked down on myself, maybe I don't have any special talents, and I don't have any skills, it can be said that gaining a foothold in society is a big problem, but I will still be very confident, because I believe that as long as people are willing to work hard, there is nothing they can't learn! As long as I take my future life seriously, my life will be very exciting!

I will no longer feel inferior, I will work hard if I am not as good as others, maybe I will never be as good as others, I just need to do my best, I don't want to think about other things and I won't think about it!

When we are not forced to live, we have to give up the so-called dignity! In fact, when we let go of our dignity, we will win more dignity! There is nothing to be inferior to, because there are more people in this world who are worse than others, think about them when you have low self-esteem, I think you should be a little more confident!

Work actively. Take the initiative to make friends. Do something simple and easy to get real results. Set yourself a short-term goal. Then try to get it done. Care for your loved ones, colleagues, and friends. Don't have the mentality of gaining and losing.

Friend, it's very important for you to develop a mindset of going with the flow. You should also pay special attention to life or the process of life, whether it is joy, anger or sorrow, the pressure is given to yourself, and the troubles are also given to yourself. Others, just a "primer".

Treat things with grace.

Me too...I'm concerned about your problem....I want to know too...

From the inability to study, other top students can easily conquer the test scores and gallop in the classroom. After going to work, there are a lot of goods around me, and I am rare to invest but I can't do well, and I sigh that I don't understand the world. The neighbor's children went to the United States and Japan again, took root and had children, and these moments felt that they had lived in vain.

Those times when people in the world compare with each other are the moments when it is easiest to feel that they are living in vain.

For an ordinary person, this feeling often appears at the moment when the frustration accumulates to the extreme. In college, I tried my best to learn high mathematics, and I was tired of taking the test with a score of 88, and as soon as the student came out of the examination room, he shouted that he failed the course, and he took the test 100, you smiled bitterly, blaming yourself for still harboring the youth and simplicity of high school, some things, not hard work will have results, people who are better than you don't necessarily need to work as hard as you, and you don't know when you have been thrown off the track, out of reach.

Looking for a job to write a resume, I found that I had nothing to do with it, I had no grades, I had no experience, I had to think about my interests and hobbies for a long time, I forgot to write a pen, and the people around me got an offer to talk and laugh, you smiled bitterly, what have you done in four years of college, and you don't even have an excuse for yourself, even if you have a bland relationship, it's a pity that you are still a poor single dog.

After working for three years, mediocre performance, no house or car, negative savings, colleagues and classmates or get married and have children, or buy a house and a car, or change jobs and high salaries, and what about themselves, credit card bills have accumulated in installments to exceed salary, rent is due, fragile vanity and self-esteem make me unable to wipe my face to my friends, let alone dare to open my mouth to my parents, I did not do my best for this ordinary working family, but became a burden, ashamed of myself, and the word "poor" with a wry smile on my face, what have I done in the past three years?

I always feel that I am different, in fact, the mediocre can no longer be mediocre, always looking forward to the infinite future, in fact, I have achieved nothing but imagination, I suddenly look back, carefully examine myself and find that I have deviated from the assumption, and at this moment the misanthropy of "living in vain" arises spontaneously.

When I was looking for a job, because my education was very high, I went to the interview with confidence, but the other party said that it was a beginning of Chinese, which made me feel that I had really lived in vain for so many years.

When I was talking to a child, and he said something very profound, I felt that I was not as good as a child after so many years of living in vain.

When I watched the recent graduates buy houses, I felt that I had worked in vain in the past few years, and now I want a boyfriend without a boyfriend, a house without a house, and a car without a car.

When I went out to look for a job after graduating from college, I was repeatedly rejected by the company I was interviewing with, and sometimes I was even told that I didn't have the ability, and I felt like I had lived in vain for so many years.

At the moment of losing a loved one, it seems that the previous years have been denied at the same time, and I don't know how to continue on the current road. I feel like I've lived all these years in vain. Anyway, all kinds of negative emotions are overwhelming, and I can't extricate myself.

It's that when you meet a very disgusting person or thing, you will feel that you have lived in vain for so many years, and now you have only met this kind of person, and if you meet it earlier, you can avoid it earlier.

One day, my brother asked me about the sixth grade math problem, and I suddenly couldn't answer it, which instantly made me feel that all these years have really been in vain.

I have been reading books for so many years, but I have been so fascinated by the game in so many years that I didn't do well in the exam. Fortunately, I woke up and chose to repeat it.

When I learned that my college classmates were now earning millions a year, I felt that I had lived in vain for so many years, why am I so inferior to others.

After graduating from school, I have worked for many years now, but now I am still an ordinary small clerk, and the moment I received my salary from the boss, I looked at the meager pile of money, and felt that I had lived in vain for so many years.