Why is life so painful? Why is life so painful?

Yes, every normal person wants to live for enjoyment, however, real life is cruel.

To ask who causes, as you said, there is a family, a family, a society. None of these aspects can be deducted.

First of all, the misfortune of the family, the disharmony between relatives, and the lack of communication between family members, caused misunderstandings. The social atmosphere and so on. You know your own reasons best, in addition to the above objective reasons, what about your subjectivity?

Can you face all of this properly with what you've learned? When you were young, we didn't talk about it, maybe you didn't realize that there would be so much pain in the future, but now you realize that you have grown up and learned something (if you didn't learn so much, you wouldn't realize that people will have so much suffering), then can you face your pain with what you have learned? If you can, then you won't feel pain, on the contrary, you will use it as motivation for you to move forward, because you know that there is still a lot of work to be done.

The reason why some people are miserable is because they have nothing to do, they can only spend their time thinking about it, and the more they think about it, the more they worry about it, the more they think about it, and the more they think about it, the more problems they have, and these problems are like snowballs, and finally they roll into a big snowball, which overwhelms their own people, and others also suffer.

Maybe the question you are asking is from someone else, not your own. Because you feel that people have too much to do every day. A person who has too many things to do will not have any pain, and even if there is, it will be short-lived, and it will soon be washed away by what needs to be done.

I envy you for having so much to do every day.

Listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", I understood this truth.

What do people live for? It's for dying!

Life is short, hehe, in fact, I'm the same as you, I'm so annoying every day, I always feel that I don't feel happy to do anything, and someone will be unhappy when I do anything, it's really hard to be a man, but you have to learn to live, I basically don't think about those irrelevant things now, every day I only do what I have to do, do what I want to do, don't force myself, let myself have a little space, you should try your own life, I don't know if you're a boy or a girl, and I can't tell you exactly how to do it, I'm a boy, I can only give you some advice according to my train of thought.,You should let it out yourself.,Do more things.,Don't think about everything too complicated.,It's good if you want to be simple.,The sky is on the ground and then it.。。。 Hehe, so you have to live with an optimistic attitude, have a positive attitude, and learn to be selfish, don't think about others in everything you do, think about yourself, if something happens to you, will others treat you like you do to him?

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I think what life teaches us should be how to face it, how to take responsibility, whether it is setbacks or pain, only after experiencing these can we understand what to do, in order to avoid it as much as possible, and the meaning of life may be like this.

If you don't want to face difficulties, if you don't want to suffer, then you should live in a test tube.

How can you feel the preciousness of happiness without pain? Life is full of joys and sorrows. It's not anyone's fault, it's just that it's life.

Life itself.

bai is a painful thing, and the most painful thing is zhi

I don't know what pain is.

It doesn't matter if you feel good or bad, pain and suffering will exist at any time, and life is the carrier of pain.

Born is destined to be bitter, and I don't feel bitter, I am still pursuing all kinds of so-called happiness and happiness, and in the end, pain will follow, there will be all kinds of complaints, jealousy, hatred, dissatisfaction, complaining, and finally helplessly hand over life.

Getting what you don't deserve can be a disaster. What you get is not necessarily good, and what you can't get is not necessarily bad.

People are self-absorbed all day long: I'm right, and no one else is right. Then you will never be able to see the truth, and to see the truth, you have to have a spirit of selflessness.

Truth is manifested by abandoning the idea of self-consciousness, and the pain disappears.

Anything that increases does not matter what is perceived, and anything that decreases does not matter what decreases, because these aspects are only images of the mind and have no physical substance.

Therefore, you must learn to let go of your worries, let go of your separation and go to work and study, then you will be very happy, and your pain will naturally disappear.

I have felt the way life should be, but I can't get out of the swamp of pain in life. Helpless, I don't know how to advance or retreat.

The Buddha said that there are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, sickness, death, love and separation, long-term resentment, unwanted, and unable to let go. If you understand a part, you won't feel bitter.

Life is an exile, no pain or suffering, how can you be happy in your next life?

Suffering, you have to learn to enjoy it, so that your life will be sublimated to the highest level and will be different.

Because there is no crash course in life! DU life is like this, it will not keep you at the top forever, nor will you always be underestimated, the key is how you treat it.

Allow it. Only by calmly facing the sourness in life will you find light in the darkness. Because, the sun is always after the storm.

What kind of attitude you use to treat life, what kind of attitude life treats you Every kind of mentality has a result, and every result needs to be grasped by yourself.

As long as your hope for life is not extinguished, as long as the door of your heart is not closed, there will always be a door in this world that will open for you.

Friends, I believe that I will take away the cold wind of winter and bring the warm sunshine of spring for you.

Don't lose faith in life!

Only after suffering do you know that happiness is not easy to come by. Cherish what you have. It is not the matter itself that makes people feel stressed, but the way we think about it. Maybe it's because your outlook on life is a little off.

Life is not about you feeling pain. If you don't think about how it came about, you can make your own decisions about what you do, and your life is just like that, you think about it.

Because you "want".

As long as you "want" there is desire.

If you have desires, you will never be satisfied.

If you don't want anything anymore.

Naturally, it will not be painful.

Because in fact, it is so painful, but we look forward to the good.

I've never been truly happy, and I don't know how much longer I'll last.

It's just because you're thinking about life as painful.

Because you are human, life is inherently bitter.

God says, "Man is born to suffer."

Because there will be other people in life.

There will be unhappy things.

Because what is painful is life.

Maybe it's the fate of people, and you have to work hard in the hard.

All unhappiness can be boiled down to pain.

Hehe, you can't be so happy every day, can you?

God will be red-eyed when he sees it.

Because man is never satisfied.

Because we must be obsessed with the pursuit of powerful power, so as to protect those important people around us.

Unfortunately, for a long time, I was in a state of lingering pain.

I always wondered, how on earth could I not be in pain? I've been thinking this way for so many years, but the pain doesn't seem to have diminished a bit.

When we see others suffering, we will feel that this is a compulsory lesson in life, and when the pain falls on us, we will begin to complain about others, feel that fate is unfair to me, so we desperately resist. On the other hand, they believe that others are not suffering, only the pain they are experiencing, or lament the unfairness of fate.

In fact, the greatest pain in life is to think that you should not have any more pain and delay it.

Oscar Wilde once said, "Many people live, but they never live".

What is Lived? Have you ever tasted the taste of a last meal? Do you remember how you felt when you walked?

You walk on the road, but your soul flies out of the clouds.

You are typing in your hands, but you are thinking about how to entertain Li Le at night.

From morning till night, your mind is full of the call of some "successful people": come on, come on, fight for your honor in this world.

You always feel that it's okay, it's still a long time, life can be serious later, and what you have to do now is to survive.

The problem is that most people are using the guise of "survival" to cover up the fact that they have lost their lives.

How long has it been since you felt happy? Maturity doesn't mean you're going to be deprived of happiness, and if you're no longer happy, it's just your heart dead.

You should smile at yourself when you wake up in the morning: life is beautiful!

You should have a good understanding of the details of life, eat a meal with all your heart, and watch a movie with all your heart.

You should cherish the people around you, whether you are like-minded or not, it is fate to be able to get together.

You should accept the uncertainties that may arise at any time, which life surprises you and without them, your life will be extremely boring.

Live in the moment, feel the weight of your chair, feel the joy of talking to people, feel your struggles when you're in pain.

No matter what mood you feel at the moment, you smile sincerely.

Accept all the pain and stand firmly on the ground.