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Chatting, sometimes also needs to be awkward, because it is also a way to face embarrassment. Sometimes chatting is more than just chatting, he can tell what a person's habits are? What is the conduct?
For example, when chatting, the observation of words and colors, whether it is more commanding or discussing, whether there are more negative and negative words or affirmation, positive and uplifting, this is also a quick way to avoid embarrassment of chatting, using more affirmation, discussion, and positive tone.
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Since you know that you have misheard the meaning, it is good to sincerely admit that you have misheard and solve the misunderstanding. Don't have other ideas, it's as simple as that, because everyone always listens to the wrong solution because they are busy, it's good to explain it in time, and if you don't explain it clearly, it will only make the misunderstanding deeper.
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Laugh at yourself right away, whether in reality or on the Internet, if your speech brings a long silence, you can laugh at yourself. It doesn't matter if you say the wrong thing or become the king of the cold field, this is something that none of us can avoid in our daily life. It's good to save yourself the day.
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Chat is the most straightforward way to communicate emotionally. In the human world, what is indispensable is chatting, chatting adds a lot of color to life, not only will make you feel happy, happy, but also make you angry and sad, when we are chatting, suddenly feel very embarrassed, at this time, you can divert your attention, in the face of familiar people, you can divert the topic of interest to the other party; When faced with strangers, you can interrupt the conversation and find a reasonable excuse, which is human nature.
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I think this is something that everyone can do! If you are busy with something and suddenly someone tells you to help you do something, sometimes you may not hear clearly and you will ask again, I generally agree with this approach, because understanding is understanding is not understanding is not understanding, if I am distracted and I don't hear what you say? I can say sorry to you and ask you what you just said?
But sometimes there are some people who don't know how to pretend to understand for the sake of face, this kind of person pretends to understand if he doesn't understand, maybe for a little bit of pitiful dignity and face, but after doing something wrong, he will not know how to pretend to understand, in short, it's the kind of play Laipi!
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If you are embarrassed and you don't feel very willing to become a cold game, then you can try new topics, such as those that are of great concern to all of you.
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Observe why you are embarrassed and don't make the same mistake next time. In fact, according to personal experience, those who often fall into the embarrassment of chatting should really fight, speak without proportion and do not care about words and feelings.
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I prefer a way where if I don't hear what he's saying, I go back and ask him so he's telling me, if he doesn't say it or I do something wrong, I apologize and then ask him and do it again.
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First of all, of course, to see if this matter can be remedied in time. If so, of course, it should be remedied in a timely manner and explained clearly. If you can't remedy it in time, it is necessary to apologize in time, and then discuss the follow-up matters!
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