What would you do if you met your first love again after many years?

First love, talked about 4 years of love and is in high school for three years and college for one year, the position in my heart is quite important, but I still broke up, she mentioned that there is still occasional contact, most of the time it is to talk to me about her suffering, she also has an object, but not very well, things at work are not smooth, every time you chat, you can talk all night, but she never saw me, I was quite angry at first that she broke up with me, but now more concerned, afraid that she is not doing well, but there is nothing to be done, The path I chose to bear by myself, I tried my best to keep it, but I couldn't keep it, and there has always been a voice in my subconscious that I want to chase her back, but I understand that even if I come back, my heart is not together, it is better to stay away, and each has its own way.

First love is everyone's most memorable relationship, love to know the serious, drunk to know the wine. Loving the person you love is happy in itself, you can remember the good of the past, but don't fantasize about it to the present, because everything is gone forever. Everyone clearly knows that "time is a good medicine for trauma", everyone grows in reality, and the things they experience will increase, and when you look back, you will find that you have matured unconsciously.

Don't think too much, since it's already in the past tense, let him be in the past tense forever. Of course, if you can still be friends, it's just an ordinary friend. A smart person will not let his past tense affect his present life.

I think it's better not to meet if you don't have to.

Really, it's better to miss each other than to see each other, beautiful, or good in memory, many years later, those bits and pieces of beauty have been worn out. Don't forget, the years are really killing pigs, I saw my first love was a chance encounter on the street of my hometown, I remember only saying one sentence: You have gained a lot of weight!

Actually, I'm fat too.

Tomorrow's first love is going to get married, and I am the last to receive the invitation, and I guess he has been struggling for a long time whether to give it to me. In the same city, we haven't seen each other for 3 years, driving past his house at night, seeing the big red happy words posted on the windows of their house, I watched him in the car through the invitation given to me by others, drove away, slept well at night, and blessed him generously tomorrow. At the wedding, when I saw him and the bride toasting me, I didn't expect the first thing I said to him after 3 years of separation was "Happy newlywed, I wish you a long time of happiness".

It turns out that there are really heartfelt blessings, the girl who married him, please be kind to my youth. Thank you also for having been with me for a ride.

Probably smiled at each other and passed by. First love is indeed the most precious feeling in a person's life, and it is also the most unforgettable feeling, but the past is always in the past, everyone will have their own new life, and people who live in the past are unwilling to accept mature people. It's probably just that you can only be a familiar stranger, it's each other's youth, and it's also someone who can't be together.

After all, feelings are such a thing, which can only be understood but not spoken. Everyone has their own understanding, when a person realizes that it is time for them to face it calmly, it means that you can already face this past relationship calmly, and you can also meet each other calmly, and then say hello calmly, look at each other calmly, and then live their own lives calmly.

I met my first love at the gym today, and I didn't have the throbbing at the beginning, nor the anger I had when I broke up. He is still so sunny and handsome, we sat and chatted about our life over the years, took a group photo together, and added it back to WeChat. Before going to bed at night, I flipped through the circle of friends and saw that his circle of friends had such a paragraph: "I met my first love today, she is still as confident and beautiful as before, but the daughter-in-law is the most beautiful, I hope she can find the right person" The picture is the one we took in the gym**.

I also then used that group photo to post on Moments, "I met my first love today, and I am still so sunny and handsome, but my future husband must be more handsome than him."

Speaking of first love, I believe many people can't forget it. After all, first love is sometimes talked about when you are a student, and the love in your student days is beautiful and innocent. They don't have disputes of interest, they just want to manage their ignorant love well.

But due to some practical problems and reasons, it is also a matter of necessity to choose to separate from the first love, but the first love is indeed very unforgettable. So what kind of experience is it like to meet by chance after many years? <>

1. Respect can make friends with your first love, and then ask the other person about their living situation, and encourage them if life is not good. Even if two people are separated, learn to respect others. If someone else is married or has a boyfriend or girlfriend, you should learn to let go and not continue to dwell, which will make both sides ugly.

If you find that the other party has no partner, then you can ask the other party's opinion, if the other party is willing to be together, you can try it, if the other party is not willing, then do not force it. Therefore, we must learn to respect the opinions of others, which not only reflects our own high upbringing, but also makes others' hearts very comfortable. <>

Second, after all, two people know each other, and there is no need to be the same as the enemy, so a proper relationship is also very necessary. If you find that your first love is in trouble, you should actively lend a helping hand, not to mention your first love, even if you are an ordinary friend who is in trouble, I believe that many people are willing to help. Therefore, everyone must relax their minds and treat their first love as a friend, so that they will not be so uncomfortable in their hearts.

3. If you find out that your first love is married, you should bless his family to be happy. After all, if you continue to entangle, it will be fruitless, and it will cause the breakdown of the family. A cultured person will not casually destroy other people's families, so it is also very important to learn to bless.

After many years, if we can still meet our first love, then this experience may be the most common longing for us, and it must be a little embarrassing to meet our first love without warning. At this time, it may be exciting, and it may be so exciting that you can't even say a word. I don't even know how to say hello to each other.

After many years, I met my first love, it should be a feeling like seeing an old friend, there will be a moment of feeling like a world away, but you may immediately feel as kind as an old friend, and you may not have a heartbeat feeling.

After many years, encountering my first love by chance, this experience is very tangled, and it may even be a sense of happiness. For first love, many people will not be able to let go. It's understandable to have a good feeling, including myself.

It is an experience of things and people, and everyone will pay their wholehearted feelings for their first love, so it will be particularly sad to meet their first love again after many years.

After many years, if you meet your first love again, you generally won't have a big feeling, because it's like two familiar strangers who meet again.

The experience of meeting your first love after many years is like meeting an old friend you haven't seen for a long time. There doesn't seem to be much to say other than to say hello.

It is a very intense experience, because there are many people who have very deep feelings for their first love, and they will feel heart-warming when they meet again after many years.

After many years, if you meet your first love by chance, you will have a feeling of surprise. I didn't expect fate to let us meet again. That feeling of surprise is hard to put into words.

I feel a little warm in my heart, but I feel a little sad. First love, it seems to be a long, long time ago, and sometimes it is very clear to recall the past bit by bit.

Everyone should fantasize about what it is like to meet their first love after many years, what to say, but in fact, if they really encounter it, they may not be able to say a word, and they will be very excited and indescribable, and they have to pretend to be calm on the surface.

After many years, I met my first love, which made me still more excited in my heart, and I would remember the time I used to be together.

There are still some waves in the heart, and at the same time, there will be a feeling of sprouting, this experience seems to be familiar, and it will also make you unconsciously bow your head.

I feel a little warm in my heart but a little sad, and suddenly I feel like I want to cry, memories of youth.

Someone always says that first love is always so memorable. After all, that person is the person I liked for the first time in my life, after all, the love at that time was very pure and not mixed with any interests. But is the first love really as beautiful as you remember, have you ever thought about what it will be like when you meet your first love again many years later?

After many years of chance encounters, first love is a very embarrassing and somewhat exciting experience, because the first love that has not been seen for many years will occasionally meet with thousands of words, but the feeling of not being able to say it.

After many years of encountering my first love, there must be some embarrassment in this case, but after the embarrassment is gone, what remains may be a good memory of the past. It is possible to come forward and say a few words to the other party, shouting and asking for warmth. But maybe I can't get the feeling I had back then.

It must be a surprise, and it will also remind me of the bits and pieces that I used to be with him, but that is all in the past, I still have to let go, just treat it as a friend in life, and just say hello.

After many years, I met my first love, and I will be a little excited in my heart, although it has been many years, my appearance may have changed a lot, but when I see him, I will remember the unforgettable time before.

It's nothing, more than ten years of chance encounters may also be pleasantly surprised, let the two of them talk about the past these years, talk about the past, care about each other's lives, maybe it's over, and there will be no other willing to happen.

After many years, I met my first love. Strangers who are both strange and familiar. There will always be a kind of beauty that people will return to as soon as they meet. After many years, I'll look back. I just want to ask, how are you okay after not seeing you for a long time?

After many years, I met my first love because I felt that each other was very old, and I was no longer the young man who loved each other.

After many years, the feeling of encountering the first love is a very mixed feeling. I want to be close, but I don't dare to say something intimate, but I can't say it.

I've forgotten it for a long time, I don't feel anything anymore, I just remember this person sporadically.

It's like going back to when you were young.

If you meet your first love by chance after many years, it should be a very surprising experience, and it is also caused by everyone, and you will also feel at a loss, especially low.

When I met my first love for many years, I would not have the urge to be together desperately, and I would not pursue it again, because I felt that if it was really suitable, I would not have broken up in the first place, so since I broke up, I should not start again, because no one wants to experience painful things for the second time. Besides, I think that since a relationship is broken, it is difficult to repair it, just like a broken mirror and a reunion. No matter who you are, you can't reunite the broken mirror, and so is our relationship.

First love was naturally wonderful, and we were both young at that time. At that time, love was the purest, nothing mattered, desperate, but it was precisely because of this that it hurt the most.

I think the good old days are enough for us to remember and not have to go through them again. Although everyone wants to go to the end with their first love, there are too few such examples. I wasn't that lucky, anyway.

Although first love makes people feel painful, it also makes people feel sweet. The two people who were together at that time were really happy, but no matter how happy they were, they eventually broke up, and there were still problems with their relationship. No matter who has a problem, and no matter who is right or wrong, this problem will always arise, so the relationship is wrong.

Not all love will have results, so don't force it.

Rather than two people suffering together, it's better to let go. Now that you have let it go, don't regret it, because everyone is an adult and should be responsible for your actions. Feelings are not child's play.

It doesn't mean that you can start from the beginning when you say it's over, and it's over when you say it's over. Also, I don't think I'm that generous. I can't be blamed for the people who have hurt me.

I think most people should be like me and not be together again after a breakup. I think being together again will only make the relationship worse, and in the end there will be no good memories left, so let others go, and let yourself go.

Every first love is a precious memory. Of course, not every first love will have good memories. The moment it happens, the first love can be accompanied by pain.

But these are all experiences and processes of our growth, and we must learn to let go. Your first love is just a fond memory in your heart. Because you didn't break up because you didn't love each other, you couldn't let go, and you still had nostalgia for her.

Maybe after you meet, you will be relieved, because she is not the same person she used to be, everything has changed.