I did a lot for my classmates, but I wasn t popular.

I can see that you hate troubles and sympathize with you.

You say, 'I'll do whatever my classmates want me to do,' so have you taken the initiative to help others? Has anyone ever helped you? And how can they help you?

Have you learned how to communicate with people? What did the other popular students do?

Unless you are particularly introverted, I don't think it will become like this, I don't want to tell you whether your classmates are worth befriending, because you yourself don't see what is worth becoming, blindly closing yourself will only make you feel more suffered, learn to be cheerful, funny, use your brain more when you encounter problems, how to make others agree, how to show your ability, what others want you to do, of course you have to help within your ability, but let him understand that he is begging you to do something, not you are begging him.

The weakness of your personality stems from your lack of confidence in yourself, it is recommended that you participate in more competitive sports, pay attention to your manners, be generous like a man, and say loudly in the mirror every day, 'I am not weaker than others, and others are not better than me'

I hope you will find more reasons from your own side, this society will only progress if you cooperate with each other, and you will not be very passive when you deal with people.

What is too easy to get will not be cherished enough!

Here are 3 solutions for you:

1. Don't agree to everything easily, do it selectively!

2. Sometimes you can entrust others to help you do something that is not convenient for you!

3. Play the role of fresh blood in the team, come up with some ideas, in short, show your own opinions!

Brother, I feel the same way. The guys around me only use my strengths, and other times they dislike me. But you can also use them in turn and take advantage of their belief in your merits. At the time of elections or meetings, your opinion will be approved by the majority.

They're treating you like an errand runner.

No need to help.

Blindly accommodating others will only make yourself more miserable.

Once upon a time, I was like that.

But now you're asking me if I'm going to do it again.

My answer is absolutely not.

I'd rather not have these so-called friends.

I won't do things for them without asking for anything in return (they will only ask for it) that I'm not a saint.

Of course you are not, you must know how to say no next time.

Know how to reject others and find friends who are truly worth making.